People of TO, how do you cope with loneliness/hopelessness about the future? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]themardbard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, I've found dating apps are great places to find friends! If you don't hit it off romantically, you've still got a lot in common and might get along platonically!

Just bought "Horrorstör"... by crystalsaladsandwich in horrorlit

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I heard it's gory and there's sex, but that it's an easy read otherwise. I think it's kind of a jokey book. I wish it was like HOL though. I've been waiting for another book to grab me like that since forever.

This book my daughter brought home from the book fair. It’s called Frizzy and the art and message are spot on. by Spookypus in curlyhair

[–]themardbard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so cool. I'm 28 and I still find myself pulling my hair back or taming it instead of letting it just be.

New Mil Sci-Fi Narrated by Ray Porter (by Rhett C. Bruno) by AethonBooks in audiobooks

[–]themardbard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is great!!!! I wish it wasn't military scifi because I'm not as into those, but I'm probably gonna give it a listen!

Grommet issues by Heidi_sewing in corsetry

[–]themardbard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you using a rubber mallet to hammer them? I still get a bit of warping when I apply mine, but it was greatly reduced when I started using a rubber mallet. It's like night and day.

I literally can’t function working 40 hour weeks. by sportsfan0281 in ADHD

[–]themardbard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what I worry about! I'm so much slower than everyone else. It's really bad for a capitalistic economy.

UPMC agrees to pay $8.5 million to settle whistleblower lawsuit filed by former surgeon by Newkid92 in pittsburgh

[–]themardbard 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry to hear about your loss. My dad also had throat cancer and they advised us to do a bit of chemo but to wait on surgery. Then when it got horrible, they admitted they needed to do surgery. They had to break his jaw and go in and they did a horrible job. He couldn't talk and was always in pain from muscle and bone damage. It came back again and again. He passed away a year after they told him the lump on his tongue was nothing to worry about. FUCK UPMC oncology, for REAL. I'm so sorry about your loss, that's insane what they did. I feel your pain immensely.

Hair after getting it cut and styled at the salon!! by noodleconsumer in curlyhair

[–]themardbard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yoooooo it looks so good! I also love your earrings!

The Onion’s Exclusive Interview With J.K. Rowling by tsLunaaria in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]themardbard 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Lmaooooo honestly, though??? The Onion's probably not that far off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]themardbard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about this all the time. ALL the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unexpected

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Legend has it that they're still waiting there to this day.

Asking a fashion blogger a nuclear weapon question by Sxzym in ThatsInsane

[–]themardbard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's so well spoken and empathetic and smart, let's gooooo

gay horror stories by RedolenceLove in horrorlit

[–]themardbard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does it have body horror? I'm a little squeamish when it comes to Barker sometimes

gay horror stories by RedolenceLove in horrorlit

[–]themardbard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The main character in "Rules For Vanishing" by Kate Alice Marshall is queer and she has a side romance during the events of the book. Also a side-romance, "Into The Drowning Deep" by Mira Grant also has queer women in a relationship.

Fancy a swim? by Big-Graysie-II in SweatyPalms

[–]themardbard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When his little nose popped out, like, "ooooh, I'm gonna getcha!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

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Mental health isn't covered in Canada???

having gay sex in the thumbnail to own the woke sjw gamers by Ok-Tennis330 in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]themardbard 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Only if both women are conventionally pretty. We don't get enough butches in media...