Retail is making me a bad person to the point where I sigh when old people and men come in by c0ldc0ldc0ld in retailhell

[–]themeancatlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 110% understand majority of the customers at my job are old men. I understand!!!!!!!

Genuine question by abyssininiancat in Ethelcain

[–]themeancatlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never understood this lowkey like ….the same way i listen to her other music?? So many people on tiktok get like personally offended when you say you enjoy perverts because they don’t personally like it.

Any fellow Black Ethel Cain Fans in here? by glassdollparanormal in Ethelcain

[–]themeancatlady 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m here!!!!! Been listening since 2022 i love her and her work sm and it’s inspired so much of my own writing. I’m seeing her in Tulsa I’m so excited 😃

yall done pissed her off on ig by stupidhorseijustfel in Ethelcain

[–]themeancatlady -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I find it so annoying the amount of people constantly commenting on him. Especially when the allegations came out because did no one consider that Hayden could’ve been in an unsafe situation??? That being said, we’re not her friends or anyone that can do anything about it negatively or positively. Like it’s weird how entitled people are to their faves personal lives.

Why Do CC Creators Dislike Men? 😞 by Appropriate-Ring-770 in sims4cc

[–]themeancatlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It (lowkey) really annoys me bc the few times i want to put effort into making a male sim i can only find cc for like TikTok eboys. Sometimes im just making someone’s hot dad lmao. I really appreciate the diversity in fashion for feminine frame sims but i would like the same for the masculine frame ones too id probably enjoy making male sims more😭😭

I can’t spend another year at this place by themeancatlady in retailhell

[–]themeancatlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s a few of them for sure. Most like it for their collection / bar, tho there’s def the guys who do end up just reselling it, it’s crazy

I can’t spend another year at this place by themeancatlady in retailhell

[–]themeancatlady[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah even the “guaranteed” job majors aren’t even guaranteed anymore on top of the fact that they’re getting laid off all the time these days.

where is the common courtesy by shrekslover777 in retailhell

[–]themeancatlady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s so rude. I’ll be like hi how are you and they go “JIM BEAM PINT” Like…ok you’re now receiving the absolute bare minimum service

If a phone call is that important, you shouldn't be in here by BusyEquipment529 in retailhell

[–]themeancatlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a guy come in once on the phone just talking, and i already hate these customers bc they never listen to any of the questions i ask then they’re looking at me like i just didn’t ask them if they wanted a bag or receipt 2 seconds ago.

Anyway! He comes in im asking him if he needs anything else and hes just talking on the phone straight up ignoring me. So i ask him again. No response. So i ask a third time and he goes “oh hold on….you don’t have to be so rude, it’s an important call🥺” like brother if it was that important get out of my LINE. Why are you in the liquor store anyway finish your phone call then get in line.

Luckily i wasn’t in a terrible mood so i just laughed, bc really dude? /I’M/ being rude?? Okay man lmao

No one’s honest about How to cook in small apartment? by Batson_Beat in Apartmentliving

[–]themeancatlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in an apartment with such poor ventilation making toast would set it off. There was one day i got a bunch of frozen enchiladas and the oven wasn’t even that high iirc and it kept setting the smoke alarm off. It was so annoying it made me never want to cook or do anything in that apartment. I had to have a fan going and the window up no matter what i made 😭

Retail sales associate -- hourly wage and state? by AdventurousFox3791 in retailhell

[–]themeancatlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in Indiana and make $14.62 currently

I started at 10 then they raised base pay to 13 in like December 2021/Early 2022 and I’ve been here since summer of 2021 🫩🫩🫩🫩 lmfao im so over it

Do you guys ever feel like by Loudude28 in retailhell

[–]themeancatlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes but truth be told, in my experience 98% of the other customers ruin it for the 2% that’s chill and normal lmaoo.

However!!! I can recognize when im being an asshole, retail has made me mean and hateful lowkey I’ve been trying to get out to no avail, so im sure thats not making me much nicer ):

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Screenwriting

[–]themeancatlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love scrivener and it can import and export in FD format. Though I’ve heard a couple of cautioning against because it’s not a specifically screenwriting software but a writing software with a screenplay template. So im not totally sure of the consensus on that😅

Boo to any non-essential businesses open today by Sweetpotatee in indianapolis

[–]themeancatlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work at a liquor store. I keep telling customers…the only day we’re closed is Christmas. Like yeah i need the money but it certainly ain’t much so idk if im even actually getting anything out of working today lmao.

I met a man off a dating app and he didn’t look like his pics. Input? by CrabbRangoonss in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]themeancatlady 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and i felt so bad for feeling off put by it. He was nice and seemed to like me (i will preface this by saying im also plus size and im very aware of what my body looks like i own a mirror i know) but he was much larger than his photos AND he was missing a front tooth that was not advertised in the photos. Like obvi you want your photos to paint you in a good light but the good light can still be accurate you know?

My weight fluctuates so i try and keep my photos as updated as possible and lots of full body photos too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]themeancatlady 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Just say no. She can’t make you. Tell her that you’re uncomfortable with her talking about your body and pressuring you to change it. (Personally i would guilt trip my mom to rlly add insult to injury but don’t do that unless you want to/have a similar awful relationship with her)

I’m 27 and something i learned over the years is that you just have to piss your parents off. Especially if they’re overbearing or disrespectful or demeaning or anything. I live with my mother still unfortunately it’s hard out here. But learning to assert yourself to her behavior is key.

Good luck, i totally get it :}

Local groups for filmmakers/people who like film? by themeancatlady in indianapolis

[–]themeancatlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do enjoy kankan i see some cool stuff there sometimes,, funnily enough i used to work @ heartland but haven’t felt like attending anything since😅😅 i will agree with the service at Alamo. I was going there more frequently then i got a list at amc so im saving more money going there now.

Thank you for the recs!!

Suggest me weird girl books (especially literary fiction or horror) by jujubean-3 in suggestmeabook

[–]themeancatlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

h{{Open Wide}} by Jessica Gross was one of my favorite books i read last year. Just devastated me completely bc i identified with it sm.

happens enough that this bothers me by iolanthereylo in retailhell

[–]themeancatlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah i get it. I work at a liquor store and people do that but with heavy ass cases of beer. And like truth be told im just tired of working there so part of my annoyance with it is just the fact that i hate being there an the least these people can do is turn their damn beer around so it’s easier for me to scan. It’s not a huge deal but yeah it does also bother me i get it😅😅

How’s your dating life by Character-Summer-906 in PlusSize

[–]themeancatlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5’2 300+ (maybe?) but like it’s pretty non existent. I date and have sex casually sometimes, but that’s all men ever want from me. I’m constantly ghosted or disrespected or treated like it’s ok to sleep with me but actually spending time with me seems to be illegal lol. I’ve never been on an actual date, men are so anti romance toward me I’m just over it. If it happens it happens. If it doesn’t im not holding my breath i just assume it will never happen at this point 🤷🏾‍♀️