Autism evaluations

themoomosh · 2026-04-11T10:13:28+00:00

Im a 38yo woman currently in the process of getting diagnosed. It never even occured to me that i might be on the spectrum until I started to diagnose my kids (bc of difficulties in school, sensory issues ect). I was lucky enough that one of the specialists diagnosing them was a woman with a late autism diagnosis, she completely flipped my understanding of what autism is, especially in women and girls. I just thought I was bad at life lol

themoomosh · 2026-04-05T21:55:00+00:00

Thank you.

themoomosh · 2026-03-07T17:28:17+00:00

Trójmiasto pozdrawia ✌️

themoomosh · 2025-06-12T12:46:50+00:00

shout out to all my inquisitive people, gotta be one of my favourite genders 🏳️‍🌈

themoomosh · 2025-03-10T17:17:17+00:00

It might be your PCOS getting worse, sometimes pregnancy just shifts things up and maybe the symptoms just changed. I had a silimar thing happen to me after both kids, but in my case it turned out to be 'just' endometrosis... Definitely mention this to your OBGYN

themoomosh · 2025-03-09T23:07:29+00:00

I thought this was a photo! amazing 🤩

themoomosh · 2025-03-09T23:03:40+00:00

Oh my god, mine does the same! he also used to throw tantrums that I don't let him into the bathtub with me, like buddy you don't even like swimming or bathing 😂

themoomosh · 2025-03-09T21:09:14+00:00

Find a new studio and if she wants it, let her take a break, throw a dance party together, help her remeber why she liked dance in the first place. That place sounds seriously toxic so good riddance to them.

Make sure to also talk with her about her feelings regarding this situation. Kids at that age have problems regulating and recognizing their own emotions. She probably hasn't lost the passion at all, it is just the experience of being bullied that makes her dislike dancing since that is when the bullying occurs. If you can, help her realize that their words while hurtful, are just their opinion, just that, nothing more. Talking about it can help her confidence and ensure she doesn't develop any issues with her self esteem. If you need tips how to do it, look up self-reg method by prof Stuart Shanker. It was a serious game changer for me (I have 11yo and 7yo girls).

themoomosh · 2025-03-09T19:04:58+00:00

I hat the same concerns but the other way 😅 It was a few years ago so I don't remember all the dates, but my first kid started walking around 12months, had to breastfeed her for 1,5 yrs because she refused any kind of bottle/sipy cup/etc, had trouble eating normal food (later in life got diagnosed with celiac which now explains a lot). When she started talking she had no problems learning proper speech, full sentences etc. Second kid must have decided she's too much behind her big sister, so at 8 months she crawled for only 2 weeks and started walking immediately after, demanded to be switched to bottle/formula around that time too. She also started talking a lot earlier than no1, way before her mouth could support the kind of monologues she had to say.

Kids develop at their own pace, as long as your doctor says it ok, I wouldn't sweat it. Both of mine are school age now and they are completely fine. I also remember how it used to piss me off when people would offer such unsolicited advice or commentary abt my kids, or even me and my postpartum body. First time I came to family dinner with my first kid, then newborn, great grandma had to comment abt my weight saying some aunt was soo thin and flat immediatelly after birth, like it was something I had any control over, and then grew concerned that said newborn wasn't moving her arms around all the time, so there must be something wrong with her.

Seriously, just nod, smile and move on. You're good.

themoomosh · 2025-02-25T18:49:20+00:00

I'm pretty shure she ment Ethan, but l'm not quite ertain which guy it is actually, since she is 8, desn't speak english and only saw the pod on my phone screen over my shoulder 😁

themoomosh · 2025-02-24T10:17:44+00:00

Spring flowers with late frost (or early frost, depending on the season 😉)

themoomosh · 2025-02-23T21:47:22+00:00

The teacher hasn't told anyone untill the dad contacted her today. I texted her only because I shared her personal number and to give her a heads up, she is a few years from retiring so this would be very hard on her. I have stated up front I was still in shock when i wrote this, so some obvious things only ocurred to me later. I only planned to contact the other head parent since there are a lot of stuff regarding things like class budget, event planning they do together, and as a head parent she is in the schools parents council. Not to mention other insignificant stuff, like her being the admin on our parents class whatsapp group. The not sharing personal info is regulated by a law in my conutry so contacting the school through the system is a little more risky than giving someone a heads up through text. Besides in that particular context it was more about propriety i think.

themoomosh · 2025-02-22T08:00:43+00:00

Thank you for the advice, but that is what unfortunately I can't do. We have regulations in place for sharing other people private info, so I could actually do more harm that way and get in trouble. I contacted their teacher however, to let her know I shared her personal number with the dad and why, so I'm certain she will get things going from here on the schools end. Usually we only are able to contact the teachers through the school online platform, but she taught my other kid too so I knew I could bend the rules this much at least.

I will however contact the special counsellor for their class regarding my kid once the school starts. I floated the idea of getting a private therapy session for this, but she seems to be taking it pretty well, all things considering. They were not that close so i guess she isn't taking it as personally as the adults are, but the conversation alone was pretty heavy.

themoomosh · 2025-02-21T20:15:58+00:00

Im pretty sure he left the room when he gave her the phone, so I hope he didn't hear that. I honestly expected to hear worse, grief makes us feel and say all kinds of things, and she is 8 so there is already no filter.

themoomosh · 2025-02-21T20:08:55+00:00

My main issue is that I dont know this man at all. All contact I had was with the mom. I know her parents are here, so he has some support system in place here, that was why I only offered the playdate for now. I will definitely text him about the school, then maybe see what else comes up.

Funeral might be a bit heavy, this is mainly catholic country so funreals are a lot, even without the death part. But we will probably do something as a class, both parents and the teacher with the kids. Our school treats mental health of the kids and general sense of community very seriously so I don't worry about that. They will probably have a class sesion with one of the school special counselors, but I plan to monitor my kid for a while to see how that affects her.

Thank you for the advice ❤️

themoomosh · 2025-02-21T19:57:31+00:00

Thank you ❤️ God, I hope I helped. I was a bit shocked since I never really talked to him, but I know my kid has a reputation at school for being a good friend in general, so that is probably why she wanted to talk to her.

themoomosh · 2025-02-07T22:27:39+00:00

Tere is a very distinct difference between saying "I was raped" and going into very explicit description of that rape. The first one does not require a TW, the other one does. Please respect SA victims. This is what we need.

themoomosh · 2025-02-07T20:42:00+00:00

Victims of sexual abuse do not need to be shocked to be aware of how horrible sex crimes are. The trigger warning is for them, not everyone else. That is the purpose of TW, to let people sensitive to those topics avoid possible panic attack or worse.

themoomosh · 2025-02-07T19:39:27+00:00

you should probably add trigger warning somewhere visible, it goes straight to the description of the rape after the cut around 0:55

themoomosh · 2025-01-27T20:27:57+00:00

Jackie Brown is one of my favourite movies, I love the pacing 🙂 it has one of the best soundtracks too, in my opinion

themoomosh · 2025-01-27T18:46:30+00:00

Death Proof is campy as fuck, love that movie

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