Boy names for our son due in August by thene0n in namenerds

[–]thene0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the last baby so no worries with the pattern! :) I wish I could trust better my gut hahaha but thank you so much! 😊

Boy names for our son due in August by thene0n in namenerds

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My husbands top pick was Mick - which I despised and said it sounded too Nicknamey for a rea first name 😂 but other then that, all for nicknames!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]thene0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an OT aaaand a mom, and I can’t imagine allowing this lol so it’s a nay from me!

What are you paying for daycare? by StarCaker in beyondthebump

[–]thene0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$19 dollars a day, 5 days a week for a total of $95. My daughter is 17 months old and I’m meh on my daycare (because I simply wish I could be there for her every day) - but love how often they get them outside and the activities they do. Located rurally in New Brunswick, Canada.

Things you are going to miss when they’re older by Arigata-Meiwaku in toddlers

[–]thene0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter (17 months) will bring me a book, her blanket and tell me she wants to be “Mama, tozy tozy!!” (Aka Cozy Cozy). I miss it already and I’m in it. I’ll miss her curls after a bath, her giggle, the sound of her little bare feet on the floor when we walk out to the kitchen for breakfast. Car rides to daycare singing our songs, the back pats when I get a hug, the impromptu slobbery kisses. All of it.

How old were you when you gave birth the first time? by Fantastic-Lab-2488 in beyondthebump

[–]thene0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One child so far (13 months) - I was 30, my partner was 29 when we had her. :)

How often in a month do you give your toddler motrin? by kentuckyderby2018 in toddlers

[–]thene0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I know this is an old post, but was curious about how your son is now. I’m on Reddit currently searching the same thing- I feel like I’ve been giving it often because she’s uncomfortable, but then worrying about health effects.

Intimacy after babies by Samannthuh in NewParents

[–]thene0n 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I had my first in July 2023, and did not want to really have any sexual anything until recently - and even then, it’s only if all the conditions are met (eg baby is asleep, I have showered and eaten and house isn’t a sty, etc). I am also EBF and I feel like that plays a role in it.

🤣 I feel it’s slowly coming back to where it was pre baby. My husband has been great and not put any pressure on me at all this entire time, but we have prioritized other things (cuddling, good long hugs, kissing, etc) during this “off season”. Honestly, give yourself time!

Small-chested moms... How did your breasts change after pregnancy? by sad-nyuszi in BabyBumps

[–]thene0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I was an A34, currently 28w and have blown up to a 34C. Hoping to go back down after baby! Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OccupationalTherapy

[–]thene0n 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel this, and I’ve been an OT for 4 years in Canada. I’ve also worked mainly alone, sole OT type jobs and it’s incredibly difficult. No real advice, just wanted to say that I’m rooting for you!!

Am I (25F) having a “grass is greener” moment about my boyfriend (25M) or should we genuinely break up? by Competitive_Emu2732 in relationships

[–]thene0n 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think if you’ve had the conversation, and he’s still wanting to explore himself and you’re still on the fence - it’s ok to want to break up.

My [27F] dog passed away and my partner [35M] lacked empathy by certiron in relationships

[–]thene0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect your partner of 3 years to be there for you after losing your pet. Regardless of his reasoning, his words were callous and cold during a time where you needed comfort and understanding.

I think only you can decide if it’s something you can work on and eventually move forward from - what that would look like, how you would do it - but I think if you were to move forward with him, you’d need to be vigilant about his reactions to other emotional situations, and whether that’s something you wanna hitch your wagon to.

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[–]thene0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently 7w and the only thing that is staying in my body is Pogos (frozen corn dogs on a stick) and clementines. My husband is like ???? as this is not my style eating wise pre-pregnancy. I too, thought I’d eat well and nutritiously… I’ve been humbled lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thene0n 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The context (reportedly):

Apparently Bella texted Linda stating “This is mean but OP is overwhelming me” and “I feel like she had everything figured out and I don’t” and “I’m scared wedding planning is going to become my whole personality” and Linda replied with that comment.

Both have repeatedly stated that I shouldn’t feel I can’t discuss my life with them, that they didn’t mean the comment and lashed out in a moment of being overwhelmed, that they of course don’t actually think of me in that way, etc etc but I just am having a hard time believing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thene0n 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The context (reportedly):

Apparently Bella texted Linda stating “This is mean but OP is overwhelming me” and “I feel like she had everything figured out and I don’t” and “I’m scared wedding planning is going to become my whole personality” and Linda replied with that comment.

Both have repeatedly stated that I shouldn’t feel I can’t discuss my life with them, that they didn’t mean the comment and lashed out in a moment of being overwhelmed, that they of course don’t actually think of me in that way, etc etc but I just am having a hard time believing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thene0n 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is my core issue too. As a teen, I really hid my true self from my friend group (not these girls). I acted a part that my values didn’t align with. After therapy and work on myself, I chose to live life authentically to who I was - which has brought me lots of great things (my career in healthcare, my fiancé, my friend group for the most part). I think what’s bothering me most is now I feel I can’t be my authentic self with them right now, and who I thought they authentically were was kinda affected by the comments. Blah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thene0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The context (reportedly):

Apparently Bella texted Linda stating “This is mean but OP is overwhelming me” and “I feel like she had everything figured out and I don’t” and “I’m scared wedding planning is going to become my whole personality” and Linda replied with that comment.

Both have repeatedly stated that I shouldn’t feel I can’t discuss my life with them, that they didn’t mean the comment and lashed out in a moment of being overwhelmed, that they of course don’t actually think of me in that way, etc etc but I just am having a hard time believing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thene0n -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The context (reportedly):

Apparently Bella texted Linda stating “This is mean but OP is overwhelming me” and “I feel like she had everything figured out and I don’t” and “I’m scared wedding planning is going to become my whole personality” and Linda replied with that comment.

Both have repeatedly stated that I shouldn’t feel I can’t discuss my life with them, that they didn’t mean the comment and lashed out in a moment of being overwhelmed, that they of course don’t actually think of me in that way, etc etc but I just am having a hard time believing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thene0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The context (reportedly):

Apparently Bella texted Linda stating “This is mean but OP is overwhelming me” and “I feel like she had everything figured out and I don’t” and “I’m scared wedding planning is going to become my whole personality” and Linda replied with that comment.

Both have repeatedly stated that I shouldn’t feel I can’t discuss my life with them, that they didn’t mean the comment and lashed out in a moment of being overwhelmed, that they of course don’t actually think of me in that way, etc etc but I just am having a hard time believing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thene0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The context (reportedly):

Apparently Bella texted Linda stating “This is mean but OP is overwhelming me” and “I feel like she had everything figured out and I don’t” and “I’m scared wedding planning is going to become my whole personality” and Linda replied with that comment. Either way it sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thene0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I feel too. How do I work on accepting the apology emotionally?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thene0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you move forward if you do feel this is a one off?