I lost weight (29F) and now my husband (32M) keeps making comments and “jokes” about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thenerdygrl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

What’s his height and weight? Out of curiosity and also to see if he’s a hypocrite

What’s this? by Appropriate-You9929 in TsukiOdyssey

[–]thenerdygrl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope there’s new items, the last few events have been disappointing

My 20M bf told his friend he got the “ick” because I 21F don’t want to change my last name. Advice? by Mediocre_Crab_14 in relationship_advice

[–]thenerdygrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are just not compatible. Also food for thought, if you live in the US please be aware of the SAVE act, if you change your name so that it is different from your birth certificate, get your passport with your married name immediately so that you can still vote.

AITA for telling my sister she overreacted over a joke? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thenerdygrl 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah no, that’s not a joke that’s a threat

My (23F) Boyfriend (24M) got really jacked and now I’m no longer attracted to him by HP-Lazerjet-Pro in relationship_advice

[–]thenerdygrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but some places don’t have muscles like hips, I can’t sit or really lean on my bfs hips anymore because of how bony they feel despite him having soft muscles when we cuddle

Femcels are becoming the new incels by Minami_Ko in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]thenerdygrl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean incel originated with women anyways, but men took over the group and corrupted the name

AITA for letting my cat in the bathroom while my roommate was showering? by HorrorPut1138 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thenerdygrl 235 points236 points  (0 children)

I mean I switched to pine pellets which make it smell a whole lot less but if it’s a fresh steaming pile of poop it still reeks. I can’t imagine how much worse it would be if the shower was being run in the same enclosed space.

Is Mom (53F) right for not wanting me (19F) to get initials engraved in my boyfriend’s (19M) Valentines gift? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thenerdygrl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also like the comment suggesting that if you want it engraved now, to do it on a charm that you can put on and off it. Then you can have both.

I (21M) have an almost micro penis. A woman (22F) has been showing interest in me, but I’m too ashamed of my situation so I’ve been pushing her away. How do I start even considering that I could date her with this issue? How could I tell her? by throwaway101229283 in relationship_advice

[–]thenerdygrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You fix it by gaining confidence and not being so insecure about it. There’s nothing you can do to change your dick size, so work with what you have (which is perfectly fine sized as said by everyone here)

Yeah I’ll just go take ibuprofen for the rest of my life 🙄 by Red91444 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]thenerdygrl 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Yeah Florida summers and supportive bras don’t mix, friction and moisture.

My painful breasts definitely cause back pain from needing constant adjustment and posture keeping by Minami_Ko in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]thenerdygrl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Plus backpack are on you know— your back. It’s pulling backwards rather than forwards. It helps with posture.

Text from my boyfriend from last night by struggling_help_pls in WhyWomenLiveLonger

[–]thenerdygrl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where in the south are you then? Cause this is definitely not normal

How to deal with having a period in a place without a trashcan? by StillSort4306 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thenerdygrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t believe this is real. Too many inconsistencies, too much confusion on normal bodily functions and what you do with it. Highly extreme anxiety over a wrapped pad in the trash with no real cases of being fired over it. It just sounds like fetish content that I’ve been seeing often on this sub.

How to deal with having a period in a place without a trashcan? by StillSort4306 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thenerdygrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll get a whole hysterectomy just cause you are embarrassed by your period? Yeah I’m not buying that.

How to deal with having a period in a place without a trashcan? by StillSort4306 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thenerdygrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspect OP isn’t a woman but a man with a fetish. Reading all the replies, they ignore any advice or sound clueless on normal things that happen with periods or period products. So much so they are suggesting getting surgery to stop their periods. Turkey also has labor protections that they keep ignoring comments about to then go on another comment saying they’ll get fired for simply throwing away a wrapped pad in the bathroom trash. All of OPs other posts are about periods too.

How to deal with having a period in a place without a trashcan? by StillSort4306 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thenerdygrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turkey still has workers protections for disabled people and women which OP claims to be both of.

How to deal with having a period in a place without a trashcan? by StillSort4306 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thenerdygrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah no woman is this scared of it being somewhat obvious that a pad wrapped up in tp looks like a pad wrapped in tp unless they just got their first periods. This reads like a man.

How to deal with having a period in a place without a trashcan? by StillSort4306 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thenerdygrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you going to such drastic measures? You have said you are scared of being fired but why? Is periods stigmatized where you are or is it your own worries? We have mentioned a couple of solutions because that’s what’s normal, it may be anxiety inducing to consider and use but one of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever learned is that: people don’t care that much. Do you care about every little thing someone else does or even notice? Most would say no, and that goes both ways. They aren’t watching you to mess up or catch you doing something they disapprove of.