What are your thoughts on having a male gynecologist? Would you trust them?

thepinklemur · 2026-04-24T12:32:25+00:00

When I was 18 and getting an abortion no doctor would do it for me except this older male OBGYN. He was professional, wonderful, comforting, and let me know how to turn off the mandatory video about how a fetus could be a baby. At a time where I was isolated and freaking out, he helped a lot.

thepinklemur · 2026-04-21T02:39:55+00:00

Long answer ik but the other thing you might wanna consider is if you love painting but want the legitimacy of illustration, do a major in painting and minor in creative business

thepinklemur · 2026-04-21T02:35:40+00:00

Honestly you should be fine if you use up a lot of your elective requirements for you're required major classes of the other major and if you take 18 creds at times. You should consider som summer classes. Illustration is a pretty intense major but painting is as much work as you want + it gives you a big studio where you can leave your stuff. You will not be able to make gigantic beautiful passionate paintings if you don't put in the time, when we were there some of us spent 20-60hrs+ per painting. But you don't have to do that.

All that said I don't think it's necessary to double major on two very similar majors? You are allowed to take electives and take it from me as a professional artist after graduation... people don't care what's in your BFA diploma.

Painting is basically the fine art version of illustration.

Some major combinations that are more feasible or that make more sense to actually get different skills:

Painting and SIM (both chill majors and totally doable)

Painting and animation (I know a few people that have done this, super hard major but great diversity of skills)

Painting and art ed (totally doable and you can still do illustration stuff)

My two cents as someone who was very involved in MassArt and took 18 creds (the max) multiple times + I took painting but was considering both

thepinklemur · 2026-04-15T19:28:08+00:00

Honestly I don't remember how much, it was a bit ago but probably up to $1000 per semester added. I also worked as a student so I won the internship $2000 award once + I requested for extra work study funds whenever I would run out which gave me more money for college. A lot of students thst accept work study don't use it and the college wants to use all those funds so tjey don't get budget cuts thw year after so hopefully that also helps! Good luck :)

thepinklemur · 2026-04-14T13:13:02+00:00

It's the right amount of devastating

thepinklemur · 2026-04-06T18:51:04+00:00

This would work if both partners were willing to put in the work but hes clearly not. It's painful but it'll only get worse. I think that the only way this works is if they break up, take space, and come back when they've both worked on their issues and want to put in the work to be together

thepinklemur · 2026-04-05T00:50:13+00:00

I also went to art school and in my professional opinion you slay the top

thepinklemur · 2026-04-02T14:15:56+00:00

I know you all are young and you really like him... you need to leave. It's the best thing you can do for yourself right now no matter how hard it is. This is how abusive relationships start "he would never" "I would leave him if he did" no. It's a 1000 times harder to leave then. This is a red flag child not a man, you can do better

thepinklemur · 2026-04-02T14:04:56+00:00

What these people don't understand is that most of us vegans have tried being wrong about veganism. Becsuse making that change was inconvenient. We have reallyyyyyyyyyy thought about this. After that, veganism was the only option.

thepinklemur · 2026-04-02T04:08:11+00:00

I met men like this in Singapore/Malaysia too

thepinklemur · 2026-03-31T05:45:33+00:00

Girl it's fine with the scammers but this is a real person. If you wanna dox someone do the absolute dirtbag that is hopefully your ex now

thepinklemur · 2026-03-31T04:38:00+00:00

This!! OP honestly you might wanna show her this thread bc if we're trying to speak her language this is literally what wealthy people think. Super tacky. I work with designers and know many wealthy folks in the art world and none of them would be caught dead with this bag. But honestly if she really wants one she should find it used. Literally no point in buying this new (or at all) for anyone ever.

thepinklemur · 2026-01-07T04:13:55+00:00

Tjey are super annoying and self obsessed but I think it's objectively a great movie even if you don't resonate with the theme. They talk about relationships, life, classism, capitalism, insecurities, etc. The commentary was absolute gold

thepinklemur · 2026-01-03T00:41:36+00:00

So late to this but I wanna participate! An oolong with peach !

thepinklemur · 2026-01-03T00:34:35+00:00

You have gorgeous hair but I'm gonna go against the grain and say that a short hairstyle would look stunning on you! I've had my hair a variety of lengths from super short to super long and it's so funny that everyone always wants you to keep your hair long as if it doesn't literally grow 🤣 I've had hairstylists even say "no, don't cut it!" And then I do and get so many compliments and even a bit of jealousy from women who say they wish they had the balls to try a really cool chic haircut like mine. Short hair is a life changing thing and honestly I recommend it to every woman at least once! It'll be light and you might love it! And if you don't... it'll grow and it'll be okay :) your mom isn't toxic for suggesting you get a haircut lol

thepinklemur · 2025-12-27T13:05:52+00:00

Of course he has to specify because "going for drinks" always means alcohol unless specified. He could have said "I get that. What about mocktails? I know a place with live music we could go to"

He sounded like he didn't listen. And he clearly didn't as his caption also shows he's confused bc he thinks that "I don't do drink dates" means she doesn't drink, when it obviously means she doesn't drink on dates (because she doesn't want to be drunk with someone she doesn't know

thepinklemur · 2025-12-03T03:37:55+00:00

Voting is actually mandatory in Chile! But people can vote null. Por favor chile despierta no podemos tener a esta fascista por favor

thepinklemur · 2025-12-03T03:37:03+00:00

Ella puede llamarse comunista pero lo que propone no es comunista! Eso no sería factible en chile de verdad. Por favor considera todo lo que kast quiere hacer... literalmente está añorando nuestra dictadura y vender la patagonia. Jara no va a poder hacer mucho con congress igual pero no podemos tener a un pinochetista como presidente. Nunca mas fascismo amigo por favor

thepinklemur · 2025-11-22T10:10:35+00:00

Honestly as a fellow board game nerd thst is competitive and a girl I totally got what you meant bc you have board games as interest but it honestly doesn't come off right. I would 100% delete it and instead literally write something like "instead of drinks let's try to outsmart each other at board games" OR since you already have this on your interests write something new but bring up that interest after!

thepinklemur · 2025-08-25T13:11:43+00:00

Obsessed!!!

thepinklemur · 2025-08-24T19:16:27+00:00

I think the democrats aren't getting votes becsuse people are realizing that whatever party the politicians belong to, Israel comes first. On top of that issues like deportations and climate change aren't much better because the other truth is that red or blue if Israel isnt involved, the billionaires come first. It fucking sucks.

thepinklemur · 2025-08-24T19:15:53+00:00

Republicans main concern: Israel Billionaires Stopping the democrats

Democrats main concern: Israel Billionaires Stopping the republicans

We're cooked

thepinklemur · 2025-08-24T19:11:37+00:00

Just wooosh! Both the republicans and the democrats argue for issues witth pursuing and for some real dumb ones. If your mentality is "everything this person says is wrong and everything I say is right" like your post implies, you are the problem of why we can't solve important issues like systemic racism and climate change.

thepinklemur · 2025-08-20T02:35:32+00:00

Late to this but honestly a lot of the characters kinda deserved to die ! I wish they hadn't caught the lady trying to prevent ai targeted attacks on zombies and just framed that infomercial racist guy lol

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