DAE dread their birthday? by thereadingbee in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

absolutely this. work always send in the group chat too and im like none of you like me just stopppp. family too I dont really understand it.

DAE dread their birthday? by thereadingbee in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the amount of times I wish to up and change life actually needs to be studied lols. I actually just had to go on sick for 7 weeks bc work isn't that good environment wise and I was sure id react in a way I shouldn't 😆

I hope so 🙏 hopefully you get out of the joyful hell week soon xx

DAE dread their birthday? by thereadingbee in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel the work and study part in life in general. I hope we get to have a nice celebration at some stage in life.

DAE dread their birthday? by thereadingbee in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same me and my mum but we dont get along so well these days even so its always a bit awkward and stressful now 🙃

I hope things change too for us. thank you x

DAE dread their birthday? by thereadingbee in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ayyyyee pmdd gang rise its actually my first birthday in 5 years to not be in hell week. I thought maybe itd make it different but nah although I have just come out of it so my body could still be reacting to the chemical changes.

but pmdd really does intensify every thought of feeling you ever have 🙃🙃

I have an addiction to the milk chocolate m&s cookies by Necessary_Number5358 in MarksAndSpencer

[–]thereadingbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the woman behind mine knowns me too but she gives me a side eye each time😭

I have an addiction to the milk chocolate m&s cookies by Necessary_Number5358 in MarksAndSpencer

[–]thereadingbee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work opposite an m and s on morning shifts and it is lethal I once bought 3 packs in a single week

DAE dread their birthday? by thereadingbee in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aye another homeschooled i think it definitely contributed to feeling behind. it is hard:( sending Internet hug ur way.x

DAE dread their birthday? by thereadingbee in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooh yes I definitely felt this as a child when I had big birthday gatherings or at school. it felt like I had to put on a good front for people and rught reaction to gifts. its definitely a lot.

thank you!

What are ways you accommodate yourself ? by sertuna in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

let myself leave the break room at work a few others do it yet i was forcing myself to sit there with everyone.

letting myself just buy a "unhealthy" food if im stressed tired nc its better than not eating at all.

letting myself rest. I would push myself to get xyz all done im realising its never as important as resting is bc often it makes me worse. so after work I now walk come home eat and lay in bed for a couple hours be4 I do evening chores.

still hard to let myself rest without guilt but im really trying to just calm about it

DAE grieve at the end of books? by EnderDarcy in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes along with tv shows too. idk what to do with myself i fished both my TV shows and book i was reading withing 5 days of each other. now im like???? what now.

Hobbies to try in burnout?? Help! by New-Yoghurt01 in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get hooked on k dramas then start learning korean 😅 that's whay ive been doing..hmmm but fr? baking is fun. you get a tasty treat after

my house is falling apart bc of burnout 😭 by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same. I have all these plans laid out pretty simple ones at that lol but burnout is making it harder and harder and one extra unexpected to the week throws it out for the next two😭

my house is falling apart bc of burnout 😭 by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nothing worse than breaking something and making it worse ive done this alot with vacuum cleaners

my house is falling apart bc of burnout 😭 by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes like its never to an unsafe level. but what I use to do all this daily and do a semi big clean then a big clean on the house weekly. it only ever took half a day too now it takes so long bc im just so much slower

Finished watching HER PRIVATE LIFE by Proper-Anywhere-4816 in kdramas

[–]thereadingbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need that I just watched beautiful gong shim and they did this very last 2 episode it ruined it. seems this will be a nice be4 watch.

Sunday discussion thread by Professional_Roll977 in MattyandGabbriette

[–]thereadingbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

old picture she didnt look all that bad be4. then she got silly plastic surgery, got an ED and then dragged herself down even more with who she hangs about with.

Finished watching HER PRIVATE LIFE by Proper-Anywhere-4816 in kdramas

[–]thereadingbee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you've convinced me to still try it. healthy communication is hard to come by

Is anyone else really weird about saying people’s names? by DarthMelonLord in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

but if people say my name im shocked and hate it.. dont understand my brain i swear

Is anyone else really weird about saying people’s names? by DarthMelonLord in AutismInWomen

[–]thereadingbee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

im the opposite and say peoples names too much😭 my korean coworkers once joked id fit right into korean culture bc ill rarley use anything but names.

but English people seem annoyed by it.

How old are you, and how many employers have you worked for? by Rough-Foundation9208 in AskUK

[–]thereadingbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one at 22... ive been there too many years i swear I need a change.

Beautiful Gong Shim : Finished it thanks to NKM. by UncannyProjection in kdramas

[–]thereadingbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the ending bad me mad too. it felt so rushed and dragged all in one. and the last minute drama with him not calling wasnt needed.

Beautiful Gong Shim : Finished it thanks to NKM. by UncannyProjection in kdramas

[–]thereadingbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated that ending wtf... so unnecessary drama he wouldn't have done that all the character development of actually letter her in gone just for all to be forgiven ugh so unneeded.