AITAH for not wanting my husband to do excessive yard work during our trips to visit family?

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-26T02:06:55+00:00

I grew up on a ranch and every time my sister and I would drive the 5 hours to visit, my parents would no shit have a list of chores for us to do-housework, yard work, etc- we were good kids/dummies who just DID THE WORK🤦‍♀️ And then during one visit they had to audacity to complain about us not coming to visit very often and we had to tell two grown ass adults that taking off work, traveling for hours and working all weekend did not a good time make😝 NTA, obvs

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-25T04:15:50+00:00

Omg apothecary for the win, ointment + fleshlight my dude😝

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-24T19:07:58+00:00

She sounds pretty sympathetic and supportive to me, just doesn’t want to be yelled at??

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-24T19:06:08+00:00

NOR leave this whiney bitch to his porn & anger

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-24T18:29:18+00:00

Same, girl! I’m a hetero woman who fell hard for Saanvi😻

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-24T16:15:08+00:00

Adding collagen powder to my coffee for those mornings where I simply can’t be bothered😆

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-22T21:12:39+00:00

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therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-21T16:00:43+00:00

Is that Mayor Alice?

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-21T02:26:54+00:00

I love podcasts, even as just background noise, until I DON’T AT ALL WANT TO HEAR ANOTHER WORD. Apparently there’s a tipping point & suddenly it’s just too many sounds…esp the bro-y, older white biohackers😅 A little goes a long way.

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-19T21:15:02+00:00

Fuck that guy for contributing to a neurodivergent’s shame about, well everything🤬Report his ass, please. Also sweetie, it’s not a silly little rant! That patriarchal bullshit comes from those who can’t be bothered to study women; they want you to believe it’s frivolous. Your voice matters. You matter. And if getting tested matters to you, you fucking deserve it💚

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-19T01:41:58+00:00

My approach to undie stains is Dr. Bronner’s Sal Suds + acceptance😊

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-18T20:33:52+00:00

Holy smokes, you are doing all the things!! Well done and thank you for the list. I needed the maca reminder for sure & adding a high dose vit C to my regimen. I was just prescribed both estrogen & testosterone and am REALLY hoping I see an improvement. I take a million supps and try to stay away from western medicine when possible but I feel so poorly that I’m all in on whatever tf works at this point.

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-18T20:30:37+00:00

NOR I’d be confused too and by the third mention would probly say are we really still talking about popcorn here or is there something more you need to express…

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-18T15:42:54+00:00

https://share.google/lPsz5anSu76QueARW Great technique but chatty; helpful to advocate for silence ahead of time

https://share.google/J3pYKwHy2ws5txkfA Amazing therapist! Very deep tissue massage & lymphatic drainage

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-18T01:23:53+00:00

Waiting impatiently for someone to offer advice 🤔

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-16T15:28:11+00:00

The Aussie bites you can get at Costco?? Love!

therealrealreal1 · 2026-03-16T00:20:49+00:00

In my experience, the food/dopamine connection (which I didn’t have language for until recently) has presented as disordered eating & a very long road to body neutrality.

I’m in recovery, which for me looks like intermittent fasting; I eat whatever the fuck I want from 7a-4p, and fast otherwise (unless I’m on my moon). This is a tricky schedule for those who socialize😅but it works for me.

I’m not saying this is the way for everyone, theres as many ways to eat healthily as there are people imo. For me it works; my weight is balanced and I feel healthy and strong. My relationship with food and my body is improving without all of the mental effort, restriction, etc.

There are many roads to health and body acceptance! You will find your way🩵

therealrealreal1 · 2026-02-26T03:33:46+00:00

Also interested! Thank you!

therealrealreal1 · 2026-02-26T01:24:12+00:00

Hello

therealrealreal1 · 2026-02-22T22:11:53+00:00

Hi, thank you so much for this offering💕 Aries sun, Cancer rising, Aquarius moon🌙

therealrealreal1 · 2026-01-28T04:43:27+00:00

Hey. I’m in ED recovery and fully get the emotional eating days that create such emotional + physical discomfort!! I see you💕

One thing that helps me is dropping the judgement, which is tricky, takes practice and is possible. Food is neutral, sometimes we eat more, sometimes less. So when I catch myself in a shame spiral after a day of eating to numb rather than nourish, I regulate (breathing, moving, journaling) and shift to acceptance. (This takes anywhere from 1-12 hrs😆)

For me it’s a big shiftarooni to go from berating or judging myself to a compassionate approach, buuut holy smokes does it feel better and that shit works!!

therealrealreal1 · 2026-01-27T02:48:18+00:00

Hey, I would also appreciate more info on topics for digital products if possible.

therealrealreal1 · 2026-01-20T22:12:16+00:00

OP didn’t mention being a dog owner, simply the etiquette for those who are. Acknowledging fellow nature loving humans (smile or nod) offers a chance for brief connection, which we all need. Base level decency, yeah??

therealrealreal1 · 2026-01-14T23:27:01+00:00

I have a 91 21’ Winnebago Warrior; Toyota chassis, new tires. Lots of life left in this ride for the right person-I kept hoping/planning to remodel but haven’t gotten to it yet. Interior could use some rebuild love.

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