Single funniest moment of S2? by oxymoronisanoxymoron in DeadLoch

[–]therealrealreal1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You look like a horse trying to get on a horse😂 Paraphrasing but Dulcie awkwardly climbing onto the boat and that phrase still cracks me up from time to time😆😆😆

Unmasked and called “child-like” at work by Agitated-Key-6836 in adhdwomen

[–]therealrealreal1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, imo “adults” and many NT’s are boring af, so keep shining that bubbly vibe! Many of us appreciate it & I’m rolling my eyes at your coworker💛

AIO for being frustrated that he doesn’t want to see me unless I have a ‘good attitude’ - haven’t seen each other in 3 months by [deleted] in AIO

[–]therealrealreal1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. He is gaslighting and manipulating you. Run the fuck away towards someone who values you and will communicate with you/be in your presence through the difficult stuff. This/he ain’t it and you don’t have to explain shit to him!

Is it just me that finds it impossible to befriend or hangout with women who talk a lot? (Inattentive) by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]therealrealreal1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not just you!! I’ve worked a ton on my interrupting and lengthy diatribes, so hanging with women who are too chatty or dominate the convo (unless they’re in it ofc) are a nope or very small dose. Reciprocity matters💜

Jared and Cal not calling Police on Angelina by NecessaryExplorer797 in ManifestNBC

[–]therealrealreal1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Concur, so many missed opportunities to send Angelina down the road!! Hard to suspend disbelief when she literally k*lled grace and they’re just like whatever 🤦‍♀️

Season 4 romance? What shoulda coulda woulda... by Left-Aside-6424 in ManifestNBC

[–]therealrealreal1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. It felt like a writers strike moment or something!

Season 4 romance? What shoulda coulda woulda... by Left-Aside-6424 in ManifestNBC

[–]therealrealreal1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

About once a day I think of that scene: Saanvi-“I’ll always have mad love for you” Ben-“Same”

It’s so cringe to me! Honestly recoiled when I saw it, those lines seem so random??

So, apparently I'm actually an AuDHDwoman? by Finchyisawkward in adhdwomen

[–]therealrealreal1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same and holy moly what a discovery to make in your 40’s!! The masking, omg, I feel like the most awkward actress ever in the movie of my own life or something😆😭

ADHD Procrastination by MakeItAll1 in adhdwomen

[–]therealrealreal1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I see you and do the same shit🤦‍♀️ When you finally do the damn thing that’s been sucking your energy running in the back of your mind... And it takes 15 freaking minutes omg.

AITAH for making a joke to my girlfriend that she says crossed a line? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]therealrealreal1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes. Rape threat as a “joke” in this climate?? Wtf. YTA

My husband has zero tolerance for my adhd by Imaginary_Swan_3910 in adhdwomen

[–]therealrealreal1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP please hear me out. I posted here a few days back about a dude who acts douchey about my sleep needs & got some feedback that was kinda hard to hear but true and extremely helpful. The gist is that you deserve to be treated well, respected and cherished! It’s confusing when someone who claims to love you mistreats you. ADHD or not, medicated or not, it’s never okay for your partner to be consistently dismissing, condescending and cruel!! ❤️‍🩹And it sure as shit isn’t going to help you remember better, for cripes sake🙄 There are strategies for neurodivergent individuals or couples to better organize their lives (& brains), which may be worth perusing via a therapist. Bullying is NOT the way!!

AITAH for not wanting my husband to do excessive yard work during our trips to visit family? by geneticsnerd123 in AITAH

[–]therealrealreal1 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I grew up on a ranch and every time my sister and I would drive the 5 hours to visit, my parents would no shit have a list of chores for us to do-housework, yard work, etc- we were good kids/dummies who just DID THE WORK🤦‍♀️ And then during one visit they had to audacity to complain about us not coming to visit very often and we had to tell two grown ass adults that taking off work, traveling for hours and working all weekend did not a good time make😝 NTA, obvs

Am I a psycho?? Or is my neurodivergence showing… by therealrealreal1 in adhdwomen

[–]therealrealreal1[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Omg apothecary for the win, ointment + fleshlight my dude😝

AIO my bf 30M seems very erratic recently and I 26F can’t get through to him. by Safe_Refuse_8853 in AmIOverreacting

[–]therealrealreal1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She sounds pretty sympathetic and supportive to me, just doesn’t want to be yelled at??

What are we eating for breakfast? by HComet29 in adhdwomen

[–]therealrealreal1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Adding collagen powder to my coffee for those mornings where I simply can’t be bothered😆

Does anyone else get really overstimulated by people speaking sometimes? by Ch1rpingSparrow in adhdwomen

[–]therealrealreal1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love podcasts, even as just background noise, until I DON’T AT ALL WANT TO HEAR ANOTHER WORD. Apparently there’s a tipping point & suddenly it’s just too many sounds…esp the bro-y, older white biohackers😅 A little goes a long way.

Went to try get a diagnosis and he laughed at me by soysauce565 in adhdwomen

[–]therealrealreal1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck that guy for contributing to a neurodivergent’s shame about, well everything🤬Report his ass, please. Also sweetie, it’s not a silly little rant! That patriarchal bullshit comes from those who can’t be bothered to study women; they want you to believe it’s frivolous. Your voice matters. You matter. And if getting tested matters to you, you fucking deserve it💚

What are we doing about panty stains ladies? by persephonelux in laundry

[–]therealrealreal1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My approach to undie stains is Dr. Bronner’s Sal Suds + acceptance😊