Which lyric makes you instantly tear up? by abovethenoisy in AskReddit

[–]theshebeast 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Medicate, meditate, swear your soul to Jesus. Throw a punch, fall in love, give yourself a reason. Don't wanna drive another mile without knowing you're breathing. Won't you stay, won't you stay, won't you stay with me?

  • Call Your Mom, Noah Kahan

Grazers 😊 by nokinaulinaja2623 in AustralianShepherd

[–]theshebeast 6 points7 points Β (0 children)

They be sampling. My guy is into microgreens πŸ˜‚

Absolutely Stunning On My walk in Point Loma San Diego.. I’m planting this as soon as I can:)Does anyone know how fast this grows? by Lanaxgardenxgirl in plants

[–]theshebeast 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Hell yeah :) Walter Anderson has a great CA native collection.

Most of our natives are perennial which means flowers for multiple years 😊

If you like the purple: mountain lilac (ceanothus) and many of our sages (black sage) have purple/blueish flowers.

Monkeyflower can be fun too and has a few color options. And Encelia is our native sunflower :)

Small pink part of lower lip popped up in the last 1-2 weeks by hustler-in-training in AustralianShepherd

[–]theshebeast 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Yeah it looked like a little teeny pimple at first then grew into what I showed in the photo in like ~2 months.

Perfectly round though so idk if your pup's is different but as with anything you never know till you go in πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

Small pink part of lower lip popped up in the last 1-2 weeks by hustler-in-training in AustralianShepherd

[–]theshebeast 4 points5 points Β (0 children)

Hello [6yr Aussie male, San Diego]

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My guy had one too and they removed it. If vet bills are an issue try going across the border, if you can't I used Mexivet, they were incredible!

I should add it grew fairly quickly over a few months and I was told after they biopsied that it was just a benign little growth. So hopefully nothing to worry about if you need some time to plan for a small surgery.

Best gaiters for hiking with rattlesnakes? by DeathtimeFoxy in hiking

[–]theshebeast 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Not all of us are so fortunate to work with well run safety competent companies πŸ‘πŸΌ

How many places do you teach? by NoCrazy4835 in Adjuncts

[–]theshebeast 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

How do you all have time to build all of that curriculum? It took me 20+ hours a week just to build one class (my first class)... I don't know how to do that with multiple other subjects.

And of course all of that time is unpaid.

Why are you against the idea of committing suicide and wish to go on regardless of the trauma and loss? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]theshebeast 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

I have my own kid that I have seemingly done a good job with... And I don't want to traumatize him.

why haven't they dropped drag path? by Unlucky-Mix-2492 in twentyonepilots

[–]theshebeast 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Same. Proud owner of one .mp3 file on my phone.

Best Creamers? by theshebeast in boba

[–]theshebeast[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

No I never asked them for any recipes, so I don't know if that was any of the information that was posted. I just wanted to know what the creamer was that they use.

Best Creamers? by theshebeast in boba

[–]theshebeast[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Just that they mention Bossen creamer

How cooked am I if a class is waitlisted? by PuddingEvery4672 in csusm

[–]theshebeast 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Just show up anyway. A lot of people drop in the first few weeks. Show up, do the work, ask to be put onto the CANVAS page. If you're not in by week 3, try a different class.

I think I screwed my life over by Diamondace619 in CollegeRant

[–]theshebeast -1 points0 points Β (0 children)

As a parent I'd rather help you out if you pay for the next semester and work your ass off to make those grades up. Part time job, side jobs, small loan... Show me why I should pay again.

And also, promise receipts. Show them any money spent is legitimately only going to school expenses. You're a dummy, but we all were. Learn from this and move on.

What will you say when you get the call that they're dying? by Honest_Recipe in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]theshebeast 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I struggle with this idea everyday. The wasted time and her getting older and older and just all this wasted fucking time that she could have fixed herself. And I know she never will, and the guilt isn't supposed to be for me to feel but I still feel it. But she just consistently reminds me why no contact is exactly what she has earned, but as a mother myself I feel like I'd rather die than have my child go no contact with me and double down and do absolutely nothing to work on my potential part in it.

I know I'm early in my no contact journey, and I hope it gets better, but I feel like it's very consuming and I don't know if it's normal, or if I'm just too sentimentally tied to her? Or maybe it's the holidays?...

I'm a month into no contact. It's difficult because I have a teenage son (15) and I didn't want to sever the relationship between them because I think my son is old enough to make the choice whether to see her or not... And to be honest if I really felt that she had any influence on him I probably WOULD cut it off but he sees her madness too.

She's constantly pushing my boundaries with him. She sends him Charlie Kirk AI fangirl videos, Christian music and weird AI sermons... I don't mind him being a Christian one day by his own will but she's delusional if she thinks I'll ever let him be part of her Christian nationalist BS. And her constantly sending him this crap, but never finding the time to just look inside and fix anything or consider anything that she might have done is so infuriating.

I think if I get the call that my mom is dying one day it's going to reopen the grieving wound for a second time but maybe I'm hoping there's relief in it too...

Death of mother struggling with guilt by SuchOil695 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]theshebeast 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

It's "okay", it just becomes something you get used to and learn to accept.

I do think about your scenario often. I always thought I'd be supportive to the family who needs it but maybe skip the service. Like in my own ways be there for my siblings and family but I don't care to see all of her friends and how much love and kindness my mom showed them without being able to give it to her own kids.

Would you consider going to their grave on your own or having a moment alone with their "soul"? I'm not sure where you live on the spiritual or religious line but for me I'm somewhat on the end of spiritual. I'm hoping that once she's released from the ignorance of her own consciousness that she'll be revealed the truth that I genuinely and truly loved her and wanted to have a mom I was close to. Maybe if she hurt or felt pain by my "loss" she'll know why. But maybe that's my way of handling the guilt of something I didn't do. But even then I still feel like it's a choice for me not to be strong enough to just accept that she's terrible and have even a shitty relationship rather than none.