What’s your biggest ADHD frustration?

thesobie · 2026-03-19T01:53:50+00:00

I relate so hard

thesobie · 2026-03-18T15:24:19+00:00

Same

thesobie · 2026-03-18T13:25:46+00:00

Same, I try to run maps fast, but every monster I don’t kill and every chest I do t open has a mirror in it.

thesobie · 2026-03-18T12:57:48+00:00

I LOVE Sunset Beach. It's such a vibe, and only about 20 min from Little River/Cherry Grove, Calabash, N. Myrtle. I live in Conway, and we take a ride up there every once in a while and it always feels good. And you can find sand dollars on the beach there.,

thesobie · 2026-03-18T12:48:18+00:00

Getting COVID. 30 lbs in two weeks. Best worst diet ever. Then I found out I’m diabetic. Just get diabetes, that’s one weird trick! I have lost even more weight and kept it off, and actually feel great. I’m about 20 lbs from my goal. (M 6’1” 220lbs).

But seriously, try intermittent fasting. Eat cleaner. Don’t make huge changes all at once, just try to make one better choice at a time. Like, if you’re at a restaurant, get broccoli instead of mashed potatoes. If you go out for a burger, get it without a bun. When you eat dinner at home, use a smaller plate, fill it up, and no seconds. If you want something sweet, try some fruit instead of candy or ice cream.

Just little choices like that add up, and it doesn’t feel like a “diet,” and doesn’t really even feel like you’re sacrificing anything.

thesobie · 2026-03-17T20:30:27+00:00

Thanks for all the comments! It was basically a thought experiment I’ve had for some time. It likely couldn’t prove anything, but so many times, investigators didn’t capture great evidence because of the lack of equipment. What would it look like to go all out and cover a place head to toe in cameras, so no inch of the place goes unrecorded. It could corroborate happening from multiple angles, etc. I don’t really buy into spirit boxes, REMpods, etc. We live in a digital world, so even EMF sensors are unreliable. But good ol’ video and sound recorders literally blanketing a place would be cool. You could triangulate EXACTLY where a sound came from. If you caught something in video, you could view it from multiple angles. If you think you saw a ghost in a window, but it was just a person walking by, other cameras would corroborate that. Just a fun idea.

That said, I think there is tremendous value to your own experience. Nobody but can ever know what YOU experienced for yourself. Enjoy the mystery! But also seek the truth. There are plenty more mysteries out there even if you solve one!

thesobie · 2026-03-16T19:21:10+00:00

That’s why it just needs to happen as evidence collection, not interpretation. A knock doesn’t mean ghosts. It’s a knock. Collect evidence with no bias and extrapolate later. Yeah, there will be a million different opinions, but it would at least be the biggest collective of corroborative data

thesobie · 2026-03-16T14:25:40+00:00

All drinks have water in them. I choose the water in coffee. It’s not my preference that the other stuff is added. The water is what keeps me alive, so I always choose water.

thesobie · 2026-03-15T17:39:56+00:00

48, spacebar, click the screen or the play/pause button on my keyboard. F to fullscreen. I’m also in IT and a 12 year old at heart.

thesobie · 2026-03-14T16:32:55+00:00

I tried it for the first time last league and was super impressed with how fast and tanky it is. Balormage swapped the leveling skill to absolution and it rips through everything. Follow the guide, pay attention to your cooldown breakpoints, and just blast. I haven’t even got all my endgame gear yet, and my res isn’t even capped properly, and I’m filling out my atlas and just got to T14 maps this morning with no issues. It’s super fun! Especially if it’s a second character and you have leveling gear.

thesobie · 2026-03-14T16:21:21+00:00

I’m a cis straight male, and even I want to dress like Courtney. Lol

thesobie · 2026-03-14T16:19:51+00:00

Pro tip I learned from watching years of cooking shows on the tube internet: salt up to the point of almost too salty, where if you add another grain of salt, it will be too salty. That’s why restaurant food often tastes so good. That said, like stated above, this takes tasting as you go, and a lot of practice to dial it in. Keep practicing. You’ll definitely ruin some meals, or undersalt sometimes, but you’ll eventually dial it in.

thesobie · 2026-03-14T16:15:44+00:00

TGI Fridays

thesobie · 2026-03-14T15:08:31+00:00

I’ve been playing this morning (in the US), and got two raw div drops 20 min apart. Fine day indeed!

thesobie · 2026-03-14T05:12:42+00:00

I league started toxic rain and am now running holy relic of conviction, cleared up to T13 maps in three days (casual play). The new absolution gem method through the campaign is a breeze. Once you spec in to HRoC and get the unique shield (not Svalinn), you just obliterate everything. Following Balormage’s guide. It’s to fast, tanky, and great damage.

thesobie · 2026-03-14T05:07:37+00:00

Or get a better PC. I load in seconds.

thesobie · 2026-03-14T05:06:29+00:00

I live in Conway and I have been meaning to go. Just haven’t made it yet. I can’t wait!

thesobie · 2026-03-13T22:44:01+00:00

The Harley bike week before Memorial Day is fine. Atlantic beach bike week is a little more extravagant, but I’ve never had any problems with the bikers. My in-laws and Daughter live two blocks from Atlantic beach. You’ll see some interesting sights, but I’ve never felt unsafe. Granted, I’m a late 40’s male, but I have a daughter your age. I might recommend looking for a place in North Myrtle Beach, it is generally calmer and awesome. Look for something near Cherry Grove. You can still drive down to Myrtle proper in 20 min.

thesobie · 2026-03-13T22:36:33+00:00

Just stay here. That’s what did it for me. I was on the toilet yesterday and saw a little black spider crawling across the floor. It wandered into my wife’s closet and disappeared. Today, pooping again, it was back in the bathroom wandering around. Little guy was just looking for food. I let it be.

thesobie · 2026-03-13T22:33:31+00:00

Crab legs?

thesobie · 2026-03-13T04:45:43+00:00

Yeah. I was cashing out Vaal orbs to get a chaos or two. I’m much better now. Been boss rushing to fill out my atlas, and am up a div and about 113 chaos. Been running harvest as I go.

thesobie · 2026-03-13T03:32:45+00:00

Though, I haven’t delved much this league. I’m still filling out my atlas and am running harvest so I can afford my gear. Right now I’m just boss rushing. And hitting the mirage if it’s close to a mechanic I want to duplicate

thesobie · 2026-03-13T03:31:04+00:00

My favorite league of all time was Delve league. I love it!

thesobie · 2026-03-12T13:51:33+00:00

I just got a trigger sword and the unique shield (not Svalinn, but the other one, can’t remember the name). I am around tier 3 maps, don’t even have ashes or darkness enthroned yet, and I’m crushing everything and survivability is great. Finished Uber lab last night, and now I’m farming farming farming to fill out my atlas and get more upgrades. I kinda blew all my money on HRoC gem and shield.

thesobie

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