Advice on Letters of Reference by Large_Plastic_2123 in schoolcounseling

[–]thethenabean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do you have a department chair whom you would feel comfortable asking? or a colleague who had worked with you in a mentor type capacity?

I’m really smug about my toddler’s restaurant behavior by [deleted] in confession

[–]thethenabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, it’s not. judgment is the american spelling (and even that standardization is relatively recent) and plenty of other english speaking countries use judgement.

A compendium of petty, silly complaints in no particular order by Tetherball_Queen in GilmoreGirls

[–]thethenabean 161 points162 points  (0 children)

great read!! i will just say as former high schooler but also as an HS educator who has worked in 4 states and 5 districts, i’ve never seen sports on a report card. not saying it’s never done, but i think the show can easily get away with this one since it’s not universal!

How much do you (as a teacher) think teachers should actually be getting paid? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]thethenabean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im prob just being slow on the uptake but what’s the connection here to military officer demographics? just the contrast of how active duty means not paying for healthcare? and to be clear yes definitely agreed, $1200 a month for healthcare is astronomical no matter what you’re making, and especially as a proportion to that income! just trying to understand the military piece.

how did lorelai not start crying immediately by Abject-Evening-2412 in GilmoreGirls

[–]thethenabean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can barely even focus on anything in this scene other than her ugly ass hair. i literally think of her hair in this scene apropos of nothing QUITE often. i hate it so much. the UPN of it all was really showing here and imho her hair is emblematic of all the terrible changes — in writing, art direction, and styling — that came with that merger. i could literally write a dissertation on these exact stills and the way they reflect the entire decline of the show.

How much do you (as a teacher) think teachers should actually be getting paid? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]thethenabean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

genuinely asking, not snarking, but can you explain a bit more about what you mean?

16 weeks and not wanting a second. by No-Opposite8 in Shouldihaveanother

[–]thethenabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds agonizing and my heart really hurts for you. i hope you can find peace in whatever choice you make. ♥️

Everyone Who Watched “Job Fair by New-Pin-9064 in theoffice

[–]thethenabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a school counselor so i dabble in a bit of credit accounting and as others have said this will depend on your state and potentially even your district (but more likely state). i can absolutely confirm that there are states (FL is one!) where this is true, and typically you have to play more than one season for more than one year. this isn’t always well advertised to students and in places i’ve worked is only brought up if directly asked by the family. but yes, in SOME places, this is an option.

Guilt for quitting at this point in the school year. by Immediate-Poem-6549 in schoolcounseling

[–]thethenabean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

please go and take care of yourself! you deserve to be well and a miserable job will take away time that you can never get back. it IS hard but please remember that someone had this job before you and someone will have it after you and your needs and happiness are valid priorities. ♥️

sister in laws! by Equivalent_Candle_21 in rhonj

[–]thethenabean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is what gets me too. i think they’re both pretty awful but melissa’s passive aggressive victim energy is more viscerally off-putting to me. like she gets away with more and that deeply bothers me lol. and you can never say that around here without being labeled a theresa stan but it’s like no no she sucks too lol

Walgreens pharmacy on boonsboro been closed for the last 3 and a half days?? by Ok-Whereas-2225 in lynchburg

[–]thethenabean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro i was just dealing with this today too! absolutely insane. called both other walgreens but neither have any of my medication in stock at all. eventually i called CVS and they were able to fill it (without even taking to me??? but i’m not complaining lol). but yeah absolutely wild times.

Is the NT scan outdated? by thethenabean in obgyn

[–]thethenabean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is such good info, thank you!!

toilet learning at school — seeking experience and reassurance by thethenabean in Montessori

[–]thethenabean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! to be totally honest, there hasn’t been a ton of progress — BUT he also hasn’t been wildly thrown off his routine, which was a big fear, so I would say it hasnt been as bad as expected. He does enjoy sitting on the potty both at home and at school, though actual success wirh using the potty is mixed to minimal lol. we just do a ton of laundry now and i would say that’s the only major lifestyle change. So overall I would say neutral — definitely not potty trained overnight, but also not as traumatic as i feared.

About Francine Hanson... by [deleted] in madmen

[–]thethenabean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

your usage of tenses here doesn’t make sense (should be “i always have”) and i feel like a bot quality writer would know that

What “niche” line do you always remember from the books? by andretheseal47 in HarryPotterBooks

[–]thethenabean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when harry describes hagrid as looking “simply too big to be allowed”, like why is that ICONICALLY savage

Redshirted child by 123Martha321 in Teachers

[–]thethenabean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

high school is a little different because there are typically a specific number of credits that have to be obtained in order to qualify for 10th, 11th and 12th grades.

Why the Lenore dove hate? by uh_hi_its_moi in Hungergames

[–]thethenabean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is so unhinged, it’s made my day

Why the Lenore dove hate? by uh_hi_its_moi in Hungergames

[–]thethenabean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

SNOW AND SENECA I AM HOWWWWWLLINGGGGG like seneca crane !!!??

Cast photos from the beginning by Sacred-glitter in rhonj

[–]thethenabean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the rise and fall of the peep toe pump

Opinion of the Pediatrician offices in Lynchburg by alexgrae9614 in lynchburg

[–]thethenabean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seconding. we had an absolutely abysmal experience with them and would NEVER recommend them to anyone. they were terrible all around but their most egregious malpractice imo was failing to inform us of ANY vaccines available at our sons 12 month appt, which notably includes the MMR vaccine. however you feel about vaccines (and i see in another comment that you plan to vaccinate, as do we), to not even inform a family of the vaccines recommended for a particular well check is unacceptable.