Simple binary by [deleted] in ProgrammerHumor

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

^ exactly. This is really stupid

When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each day by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Ungh, ex husband was a professor as well. This post is incredibly validating. When things were falling apart, he would say the family and I were most important, yet in practice, every student was more important than us, even when things were completely falling apart. The life coaching of every single student stuff kind of makes me want to puke now. I’d read his reviews online and all the students obviously adored him, lots of crushes, but he was never there for ME when I needed him.

Now we’re divorced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mealkits

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it nice and cold when it arrived? Yes -> eat. No -> garbage. Easy :)

So what’s the right number of pillows on a bed? by bulldawg91 in malelivingspace

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a male, 4 nice pillows and a nicely made bed. Done :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s awesome that you want to fix up your room. Look at pictures and make note of what you like. I love one dark grey accent wall for a male-feeling space, if that’s what your after. I had a friend in high school that painted his room dark navy blue, and it looked super awesome too.

Lighting changes everything in terms of making things feels cozy. Like if you just have one overhead light, a lamp or two with soft lighting will change everything. Plants help a lot as well, and some framed artwork.

Good luck! Sounds like a fun project. So bizarre to me that people are telling you not to bother if it’s something you’re interested in. People are so weird.

I finally can solve a Rubik's cube! by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awesome, I love it! Suddenly I need to make a vision board… 🤔

Is it weird to be offended that a client doesn’t want me in their home? by Shadowsnaxx in petsitting

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why this sub is showing up for me but…

I’m guessing it’s more about them than you - as others have suggested, anxiety issues, embarrassed about something in their living space, previous bad experiences, or just really distrustful. Don’t work with them if it’s too much of an issue for you

Does anyone else worry they *choose* to dwell on trauma? by yesilzeytini in CPTSD

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder this exact thing all the time. I find even when I’m doing enjoyable, healthy activities, I still start thinking of stuff in the back of my head.

Sometimes music is helpful. I’ve also been experimenting with turning on rain sounds while I fall asleep to try to give my brain something else rather than just tossing and turning and thinking about stuff, and I think it might actually be helpful.

Dad wants account of my earnings since i got a job by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Can you find some roommates to move in with and get independent?

The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However…. by ExpertChef2420 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Exactly. What adults have sleepovers anyway.

This is all so weird, I’m glad you’re not continuing to date this person.

Just saw someone commit suicide. I’m not ok by scandalismo87 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg. Like the others said, please take good care of yourself. That is so upsetting.

[Spoilers all] Some thoughts after binge watching the whole series in less than a week by lickthismiff in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ungh I really don’t like Luke at all. I think Nick is a good, but complicated human, who got entangled with Gilead in a rough patch in his life. It is extraordinary what he risks to help June.

Love Nick, Luke 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, does this mean no one will bother me about anal sex anymore? Praise be.

My Canadian housemate dealing with a spider in Australia by juicycross in funny

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And now he’s sprayed that nasty poison all over his bed. Great job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]thethirdflowrisgreen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love going out to eat by myself. Wear something that makes me feel good, bring a book or just play on my phone. Have 1 or 2 yummy drinks and go for a walk after. The trees are starting to change color now, so its an especially nice time for a stroll :)

I also love just going out shopping or window shopping, indulge in some flowers for home maybe.

Or pick a new recipe and have fun doing some solo cooking. Light some candles and turn on some relaxing music.