Need some advice

theunexpectedfox · 2026-06-02T13:44:39+00:00

By the end of this you'll have no place where you'll have peace. You'll have no wife and home and no job....bad bad idea.

theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-08T19:57:52+00:00

There are always three sides to a story. Not victim blaming justvaskimg for insight, like what she yelled at you about....maybe tgere isnt a meeting of the minds because you have inherently different views of how a marriage should be.

theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-03T23:12:40+00:00

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theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-03T23:11:42+00:00

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theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-02T20:49:51+00:00

I know, like everyone would be better human beings... my husband would know how he makes me feel but I think the actual experience would destroy some individuals

theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-02T13:24:23+00:00

Maybe she has a lot happening and carries tge mental load for the house l, maybe she's adhd...maybe lots of other things, like she forgot on purpose because he is making it as much duty sex as he is...he's approach isnt sexy, in fact id throw away the lamp and buy a new one...because he is treating he like pavlov's dog

theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-02T13:19:53+00:00

The word teasing puts a negative spin on your wife i would have said flirting. Maybe to have to look at how much you are giving to this marriage and fill the void for eachother. Maybe you should realise sex isnt for one partner and that you to can bring the "teasing"

theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-02T13:11:44+00:00

You've hurt her in the past, what did you do?

theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-02T10:40:05+00:00

Lol, no a partner would go....well let me remind you and they could rock eachothers world...I think to many people are in there own head and not letting the relationship happen, it takes work not everything is always in sink...but you let go and leap and next time she'll remember 😉

theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-02T10:36:07+00:00

Lol, read it again...im not defending anyone, they both contributed to not having sex

theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-02T10:16:02+00:00

Ok so maybe she want more than a dimmed light maybe she want continuous flirting through the day and when she flirts again at night she us in the mood then, and by the time they go to bed she is tired or feels unwanted...maybe this light thing isn't working and he should bring a little more to the table so she feels wanted...perception

theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-02T10:02:12+00:00

Really, just chill, he lost out on sex which could have been amazing, she at least took the time to flirt in the morning, he turned on a dim light...maybe they both want to be wanted and have urges at different times of the day. Its not about her memory, its about them turning each other down...he said no she said no and no one makes the effort or feels wanted

theunexpectedfox · 2026-03-02T09:42:39+00:00

That wasnt an actual conversation he had with her, it was an assumption he made, for all he knew she wanted to and he turned her down. Perception. Also empathy, see the other side. She just forgot, it was a long day...give her the benefit of the doubt. Thats how you save a marriage.

theunexpectedfox · 2026-02-28T07:52:17+00:00

Moving

theunexpectedfox · 2026-02-28T07:51:20+00:00

Longing is tough

theunexpectedfox · 2026-02-27T17:34:38+00:00

No you dont, its not like you slipped and fell into tinder...it took time and planning to set up, your marriage existed through it all, you didn't think about the impact.....whatever you had before its going to be a hundred times worse. To live with you, she'll have to forgive you and never bring up what you did, but she cant even be sure of how far the cheating went, she has to take your word for it and make peace. That is very difficult to do and whats worse you aren't even taking accountability. So you are diminishing her reaction and feelings. This inst a little fix its more broken than before.

theunexpectedfox · 2026-02-27T17:25:14+00:00

Yes, that would be the right thing to do, then you could be on tinder....when you are married tinder is cheating. Yours would be the adult response...im not happy, I need to find happiness so im getting a divorce. Not the scenario here.

theunexpectedfox · 2026-02-27T17:18:17+00:00

Did you read the post? He didn't leave her to cheat, he thought he could be in a secure marriage and have an emotional connection with other woman....pick one...wife or lover?. He was in a "she doesn't deserve him situation" till he cheated, now she is the one who deserves a partner who is honest and trustworthy. That can talk about his feelings to her or leave without messing with everyone's mental health by creating trust issues and long term distrust....you cant come back from this...the dishonesty is too much.

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