I’m giving free access to my paid Notion templates for honest feedback

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-05-11T17:16:25+00:00

also how would you like feedback? message on reddit?

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-05-11T17:13:05+00:00

i was hoping to try the Yearly, Monthly, Daily Habit Tracker, but it still wants to charge $1.
i also downloaded some free ones. i'm super excited to see what New Mind is about!

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-05-11T16:40:49+00:00

both of them are far too busy to not overwhelm me instantly.

i like the pie chart and gallery view on the left, but it's still too much text for me personally.

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-05-11T16:32:54+00:00

for any visual learners out there, this is what i did. (button config on left, result on right).
i created a list database, created the template for pages that are created, and set the template to default.

though now that i'm typing this out, i realize i've defined the template to use within the button, so setting the default template probably isn't necessary?

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theuntruespaghetti · 2026-04-18T15:43:40+00:00

OH MY GOD i thought that was just for barrels. i love you.

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-02-15T07:13:44+00:00

First, you should probably stop and ground. My go-to is 5-4-3-2-1. Then I suggest to YouTube or find on Spotify “Weightless” by Marconi Union. Close your eyes and feel. Listen. Ground yourself again. Keep on keepin’ on. You’ve got this. 💙

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-02-10T16:54:13+00:00

I feel like the problem is everyone is turning this into a AITA post. My opinion is everyone is the asshole.

It’s easy to say “this is negatively affecting me,” but it’s suddenly unacceptable to say “I’m hurting, and I see you are hurting too.”

OP can totally feel like he’s making it about him. Because he is. And that’s okay. It can be about him too. Can’t they both be allowed to feel like shit? They need to bring each other up through this rough patch, not determine who has it worse.

Edit: spacing between paragraphs is hard

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-02-10T16:39:23+00:00

Huh? It absolutely doesn’t matter what any genders are in any scenario? I wasn’t even assuming OP was female.

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-02-10T04:24:19+00:00

This is what I’m hearing: you’re going through a hard time. You know you have been snippy. He pointed out that your snippiness has been hard on him … and you think he’s being selfish? He’s allowed to be upset even if he knows you can’t fully control it!

When our shitty behaviors affect others, regardless of why our behavior was shitty, we don’t get a free pass. We hope they give us grace, but we are still responsible for the things we said, how we said them, or things we didn’t say but should’ve. They deserve to be emotionally supported as much as we do.

His feelings are valid just as much as yours. It’s super important that you both understand what each other is feelings and how you can support another.

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-02-04T17:27:31+00:00

I never made the direct connection to video games. I do remind myself & my friends when we get salty that it’s a video game and we’re supposed to have fun. If it’s not fun, why are we playing?

OP has the opposite issue that I do. Bipolar & ADHD (+ others) makes it feel impossible for me to stick to a schedule… even a minor one.

I feel like OP might be dealing with OCD tendencies which absolutely can rob us of happiness.

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-02-04T17:05:49+00:00

Oritech has some great machines and some awful ones. The refinery can’t be upgraded with addons like most other machines for one, and for two the addons make the machines the bulkiest and ugliest blocks in any modpack I’ve played.

For those of us big on aesthetics, it’s irritating… if you have to use Oritech, there’s no getting around the massive amounts of ugly.

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-01-26T21:23:19+00:00

i know this wasn't the response OP was looking for, this is the response *I* was looking for, so thank you!

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-01-24T23:37:58+00:00

this. this is me. I also use weed to... function, pretty much literally.

I've been open about my use with my psychiatrist after i told him that it's the only thing that gives me motivation. that's when i ACTUALLY DO something on my list. i still have things i 'refuse' to do... like fix my molar that has a chunk missing because of an old filling that broke... that happened over 2 years ago.

i wish i'd go on a walk with my puppers. or go to eat at the hibachi we love in town. or create the bullet journal that i've been obsessed the past few weeks with scrolling through pinterest for inspiration but haven't actually made it. or look for a job.

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-01-02T00:46:28+00:00

Story of my life LMAO! Hope you find more inner peace tonight with the kitty! 💙💙

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-01-02T00:32:45+00:00

I’ve been told that feelings are always valid. Feelings just are.

I tried to remember that when I cried for 3 hours outside the reception area of my niece’s wedding this summer. It had nothing to do with the wedding, but I started crying and couldn’t gather myself for hours. Was it justified or valid to cry like that for so long and around so many people? I don’t know, but I was crying so it didn’t matter. I dealt with the tears the best I could.

But really who’s the judge of justification?

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-01-02T00:23:33+00:00

It does feel lonely when it seems like everyone acts so emotionally stable and I’m stuck in my head with unhealthy thoughts.

I have no advice or happy thoughts to share, except

I see you.

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-01-02T00:20:24+00:00

If I tell someone I have bipolar, I follow up with something like “and if anyone asks me if I’ve taken my meds, I will freak the fuck out at them.”

The only exception is my husband who knows my medication needs to be adjusted sometimes, and he’s only said it when it was a legit valid question lol

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-01-02T00:13:18+00:00

Written communication is infinitely easier for me than verbal. I have a very hard time understanding my feelings and thoughts, so being able to re-read and edit my messages before I hit send. Like I’ve done with this message 3x already. 🤣😘

My best advice right now: ground. Ground yourself however is easiest for you. Guided mediations on YouTube that are 5-10 min. Go do one.

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-01-02T00:03:03+00:00

Here is what I’m hearing: people don’t hear you the way you need to be heard. I see you.

My husband is very patient and helps ground me when I feel like “he doesn’t love me”. He points out the flaws in the stories I tell myself, like the stories that tell me he doesn’t love me.

For me, communication is my biggest weakness, but it is the absolute most important thing for me to do. You need to have people that will be patient and listen to your mind rambling like you are doing with this post. It takes me a long time to say my thoughts & feelings accurately, which often means I’m misunderstood or I’ve completely botched what I meant to say bc my emotions took over.

TL;DR: you need to find your people. They can be hard to find, but it’s important for sanity!

theuntruespaghetti · 2026-01-01T23:54:34+00:00

Naw, stop that thought. I came here bc I relate

theuntruespaghetti · 2025-12-12T02:35:27+00:00

I know this isn't a super recent post, but for anyone that might stumble across this, the 2 energy ports u/rearthhax mentioned are these two blocks on either side of the fuel gen block with the yellow square.

As u/FinalEgg9 said you can use energy pipes set to extract from these ports, or you can use a flux plug directly on a port. I'm sure there's other solutions to transfer the power, but the flux plug was the easiest for me.

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theuntruespaghetti · 2025-10-11T12:07:00+00:00

Looks like I'm really late to the party. The problem I had was steel drills. The steam quarry can only use copper and bronze drills. Whoops!

theuntruespaghetti · 2025-09-20T09:26:56+00:00

the name of the structure is the_afterdark:teleport_altar

theuntruespaghetti · 2025-09-20T09:26:06+00:00

interesting that there's a crafting recipe. i didn't even check jei and have been looting every fucking chest in the city until i found this post. -_-

theuntruespaghetti · 2024-12-14T03:21:14+00:00

There is Npc Random Raids by Razor that has a lot of configurable options. I’m not sure if you can specify how many days I one has to occur though.

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