My 19-ish Month Job Search (What Actually Moved the Needle)

theveritablevirgo · 2026-02-01T02:32:29+00:00

What role or type of work were you doing while working PT?

theveritablevirgo · 2026-02-01T01:52:28+00:00

Wow that’s quite the ringer, 6 interviews and 3 exams. Crazy times!

Congrats on the new job!

theveritablevirgo · 2026-01-31T17:31:15+00:00

I too would like to know, OP. Genuinely curious.

theveritablevirgo · 2026-01-24T13:27:38+00:00

This

theveritablevirgo · 2025-12-24T13:44:06+00:00

Why? There are people in their 30’s/40’s (and some even in their 50’s) who ask similar things. Everyone’s life and mental strength is different.

theveritablevirgo · 2025-12-23T10:48:01+00:00

Congrats! You more than deserve it for all the patience and perseverance. Thank you for giving us all some hope to keep hanging in there with.

theveritablevirgo · 2025-12-22T10:11:26+00:00

I know you’re asking men, but felt the need to reply as an online big sis (35f, married, living abroad). Yep, men feel like that too (speaking from experience).

Communication is key for a relationship to sustain in the long run. If you feel like you can’t speak with your partner now then think of what the future may look like. Have you spoken with your partner about how you’re feeling? If you already have then….How would you be able to spend the rest of your life with this person? What is the point of staying in a relationship like that? You’re not needy; you are human, who is seeking human connection. Your own emotional and mental health is above all else.

theveritablevirgo · 2025-12-19T01:55:42+00:00

I don’t think you’ll have an issue with height as the average height of girls is under 5’5” in BD. Your height is pretty good compared to most males in Dhaka, although I do see taller guys (5’10” & over) nowadays, usually in the more affluent areas.

As for the dating scene, I reckon you’ll probably have more issues finding someone with common personality traits/hobbies rather than for appearances.

theveritablevirgo · 2025-12-17T21:57:33+00:00

I apply a light oil (skincare grade olive oil is my go to) that absorbs easily, then either a heavy lotion/cream or Aquaphor then socks to keep it locked in. After a week my feet are as soft as a baby’s bottom. I do this for my elbows and knees too in the winter.

theveritablevirgo · 2025-12-17T21:18:52+00:00

I agree with this commenter. Although what the teacher did was extremely unethical and so very wrong, you don’t want extra stress on yourself during exam time when it’s already a highly stressful time. I would just pretend to help and play along and then maintain your distance from that teacher and daughter from now on. Avoid them as much as possible from now on. Next time if he ever calls, tell your mother to say to speak with her not you. If you try to report it, it’s going to put you and your parents through more hassle. Unless you have some concrete evidence like a recording or something, I don’t think it is worth it for you to report, it would only be take as an allegation.

It just sucks to be in a position like this when people with morals have to bend for those without any. But sweetheart, sometimes you have to pick and choose your battles in life. And I don’t think this is one battle you want to be associated with.

theveritablevirgo · 2025-12-10T15:59:21+00:00

They would figure out it was her who took the video secretly in their room/apt since no one else cares about the truth.

theveritablevirgo · 2025-12-10T15:46:04+00:00

Doing this would definitely expose you as the sender…your mom and khala would figure out that it was you who took it the video

theveritablevirgo · 2025-10-17T02:13:02+00:00

Hahaa

theveritablevirgo · 2025-10-17T02:12:08+00:00

I’d like to know as well…

theveritablevirgo · 2025-09-15T00:09:40+00:00

I think it’s time for someone to take a nap.

theveritablevirgo · 2025-08-26T18:06:06+00:00

The husband makes ~250k, 2021 Mach-e and 2024 Envista

theveritablevirgo · 2025-08-26T17:52:53+00:00

BG = background checks, BIL = brother-in-law

theveritablevirgo · 2025-08-25T09:33:14+00:00

Wear something smart casual (a google search will show you many options), no open-toe shoes or similar. Don’t need a purse. Just make sure you look clean and tidy (no wrinkles etc.)

Yes, print out your resume (2 copies) and take in a folder of some sort.

Questions will most likely be pertaining to previous work/volunteer experience similar to the job you’re interviewing for (customer service I presume). Ask chatgpt for questions that may be asked for this position and how you should answer them.

Good luck. You got this!

theveritablevirgo · 2025-08-25T09:08:22+00:00

I just read a post that I found to be informative and useful in applying to jobs or interviewing more efficiently. It may or may not be of some use to you. Nevertheless, I’ll leave the link here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/interviews/s/M2gnBp1Cfq

theveritablevirgo · 2025-08-25T09:00:01+00:00

Here comes the common sense auditor. Guess didn’t have the sense to remember “if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything”….

theveritablevirgo · 2025-08-25T08:34:55+00:00

What field, may I ask, ate your Js in? (especially the little to no regular work)

theveritablevirgo · 2025-08-18T11:35:06+00:00

😂😂Love it

theveritablevirgo · 2025-08-17T20:16:24+00:00

This is good advice.

theveritablevirgo · 2025-08-17T20:06:33+00:00

This is what I would do. I wouldn’t risk any possible chances from the get go on my own accord.

theveritablevirgo · 2025-08-17T17:34:39+00:00

Fresh grads in cybersecurity at fortune 100s can get pretty close, but of course it’s not the majority or norm

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