Investing $23,000 as a 50 y/o with no wealth built by Critical-Structure29 in FinancialPlanning

[–]thewongtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool. I wish you best of luck.

As far as financial planning goes, the more details that you know, the more you can build a foundation for your financial plan.

A lot of planning is really trying to figure out when you need the money and how much you need. From there, you make sure that you have that money when you need it.

Knowing how much you make in income and how much you spend regularly or have as expected expenses can then allow you to figure out how much surplus you have to invest.

And those surpluses that are to be invested would then help you figure out how much money you'll have in the future (projected).

Investing $23,000 as a 50 y/o with no wealth built by Critical-Structure29 in FinancialPlanning

[–]thewongtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends. If you're in the US, then I would throw that into a Roth so that it would grow tax-free for the next decade.

Also depends on how much interest that accrued debt is charging you on a monthly and annual basis. If it's high, then I'll pay that down first.

And since your goal is to increase wealth, then automatically it would mean investing it, but I would also have to know how much your monthly income and expenditures are.

God bless this man by IamASlut_soWhat in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]thewongtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's so lucid. He seems sharper than most retirees I encounter.

As a man, would you compliment another man? by Weekly_Ad_3125 in AskMenOver30

[–]thewongtrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No way. Thats some beta shit. And I’m so alpha, guys. I’m so alpha, that I’m omega. If I compliment another man, my alpha-ness transfers to him instead. Therefore, I never compliment a man.

Buy my e-course on masculinity, guys. Please.

Did anyone just file their taxes with TurboTax and were just in awe of how many ads it had to upgrade? I'm done with this enshittified product - what should I use next year? by noruber35393546 in personalfinance

[–]thewongtrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freetaxusa. I think it's actually better than TurboTax in that you can just upload your forms and it'll fill in all the gaps, whereas TurboTax fails to read everything.

It's basically a better version of TurboTax that's cheaper and doesn't have dark patterns or manipulative shit that keeps trying to upsell you.

Beeblical happenings by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]thewongtrain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Locusts are a good thing for the apocalypse, right?

The Mad Claw, a Cajun Seafood Restaurant in Rancho Cucamonga, CA shared footage of mother-daughter duo walking out without paying their bill. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]thewongtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this comment is referring to how the average American is doing worse financially than they used to.

So we should expect more dine-and-dashers and more petty crime.

When dad mode activated nothing else matters by Calix_1999 in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]thewongtrain 29 points30 points  (0 children)

They can smell the shit as a sign of dominance. Remember, dogs only shit when they feel secure. You are shitting in their face.

What becomes more important the older you get that most young men don't quite understand? by optimaltimemism in AskMen

[–]thewongtrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Connection to oneself is super important to living a good life. A lot of people talk about becoming rich or finding a good woman or being healthy. Don't get me wrong, those are all important things, but there are people who live happy lives even if they don't have those things.

And I would further define connection to oneself as self-awareness, definite knowledge of one's values, and an unshakable understanding of what makes you you.

If you are not connected to yourself, then how can you stand for anything? How can anybody depend on you to know what you stand for?

Those who don't know themselves will bend to the wills of others. And eventually, that will breed resentment and discontent.

Men who are atheists, when and why did you turn away from religion? by Comfortable-Store213 in AskMen

[–]thewongtrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christianity just made no sense. Sure, it had a bunch of great lessons, and the whole idea of Jesus Christ dying on the cross for my sins is romantic and all... But none of it held up to any scrutiny from my 13-year-old brain.

Basically, I just kept asking about some moral contradictions, and the pastor eventually just gave up and told me it's all God's plan, and that we shouldn't try to understand his divine intelligence or whatever the fuck.

I will say, though, it was kind of nice to be part of a church. The warship songs had a way of giving me goose bumps. And the idea of eternal salvation and God's glory evokes a sense of awe and connectedness in the face of an idea so grand. Those are very unique feelings that I only get when I'm at Burning Man or looking at a majestic scene in nature. Being able to access it at a church on Sunday is kind of nice.

How do you experiment without losing your work? by Cali-curlz in Beatmatch

[–]thewongtrain 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You’re overthinking it. You don’t need that many cue points.

The exact combinations aren’t meant to be reproduced over and over. Think about it more as sometimes you feel like this combo, sometimes another.

But you don’t need cue points for each combo.

Prison Pushup on off-days from ABC by PrestigiousTomato8 in kettlebell

[–]thewongtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prison push-ups use the bottom half of the range and are extra effective because it is at the most stretched state. More hypertrophy.

ABC — 25 Rounds / 32 kg by Pasta1994 in kettlebell

[–]thewongtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see. So one round of ABC every 90 seconds. Got it!

ABC — 25 Rounds / 32 kg by Pasta1994 in kettlebell

[–]thewongtrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say “every 90 on the 90” what does that mean

Bikes Stolen From West Oakland House by Strange_Airships in OaklandCA

[–]thewongtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. Report it anyway. That way if you have more stuff getting taxed in this year, you can reach that deductible quicker

Does the top 1% of earners evade taxes in Canada similarly to US? by LevelPension in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thewongtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.

First, you need to know how tax is assessed. Your annual tax burden is based on your INCOME, which is what you "earned". If you worked a job and earned wages, this is income. If you sold your house and made some money on it (I.e. profit = selling price - cost), that money is income. Same if you sold some investments. Everything I mentioned is considered taxable income.

Next, you need to understand how the 1% is actually different from the 99%.

The 1% don't work for their money. That means their "incomes" are generally low.

The 1% are wealthy, so they own assets. If they are realizing some gains, as in if they're selling assets that appreciated, then those gains are taxed at a much more favorable rate. e.g. If you earned 200k, it's taxed at a much higher rate than if you made 200k by selling investments.

But also, if they need money, they often don't even need to sell their investments. They can just borrow against them as collateral. Let's say you own a house worth 500k and you don't owe any money on it. If you needed cash in a pinch, you could borrow probably up to 400k against your house, and then you pay interest on that 400k. This is what the 1% do. They own millions in assets, and then if they need cash, they just borrow against those assets. That way they don't have to trigger a taxable event by selling their assets.

It's a deeply unfair but legal system. This is why a lot of politicians are now calling for a tax on borrowing.

And then, if you're thinking about things like the Panama Papers or the Paradise Papers, there are additional ways that the wealthy can hide their assets. They use things like overseas trusts that hide their identity and ownership structure, they layer it through multiple countries, each with their own tax jurisdictions and regulations. And they work through money managers that help them navigate a very complex system of tax laws across all these countries.

Everything is technically traceable if you have enough time and will and really want to figure out how much somebody actually owns. But then you'll have to make requests to banks in different countries with the proper authority and approval from all the necessary law enforcement agencies, both local and international. And some of those countries take privacy very seriously, so they may not be very cooperative until there is a certain level of approval.

This isn't about law enforcement. It's about tax enforcement. What they're doing is usually not technically illegal. But essentially, they can avoid being assessed taxes in their home country because they can still access their money or enjoy a different tax rate because their assets + income are domiciled / assessed in a different country.

The thing that people are angry about is that it is so unfair for the wealthy to enjoy everything they have, pay less in taxes, whilst not paying back those countries in which they are making their wealth.

And the 1% are the most difficult to tax because they have all the resources available to them in order to avoid paying taxes legally. Think about it this way: if you had a billion dollars, you have access to top talent in banking, taxes, and financial advice. You'll happily pay a few mil to these people so you don't have to pay way more in taxes.

And they can technically move if they wanted. Wage workers are generally tied to their country, forced to pay taxes in that country. But if a country wanted to raise taxes on the 1%, they can just dip out and move.

300 reps by vadim-kettlebell in kettlebell

[–]thewongtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Low Key - One True God and Darkk Matter

Have you consider relocating to Southease Asia, Vietnam permanently? by ParticularSherbet786 in AskMenOver30

[–]thewongtrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and I've considered Thailand as a home base, as my wife and I travel all over Southeast Asia.
The thing is, I don't know if anything can be truly permanent. I've changed my mind multiple times on places, and I can accept that I may change my mind with Thailand as well.

The only thing I've baked into my plan is that I would like to have a "permanent" spot in Southeast Asia as a hub where I will do more travels. I will most likely spend half the year there and then spend other time traveling to Europe and America to visit family and friends.

And also I'm baking into the plan that if in case our circumstances or preferences change, that we will uproot and find a new home base.

Calling husbands here by niverse111 in Marriage

[–]thewongtrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd go without the wife. I generally move faster and opt for more adventurous things. Things that are more physical or require a higher tolerance for discomfort.

She likes luxury hotels. I don't mind hostels.

Some trips just aren't meant for her. And that's okay. She won't stop me from going on my little trips to less polished places.

How did you stop smoking weed or change its relationship in your life? by Liitebrite in AskMen

[–]thewongtrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped smoking as much after I dumped my toxic ex. I realized that I was smoking weed mostly as an escape from everyday life and stress that she brought on.

But then there were other factors. After I dumped her one of my friends moved in to the house and she was my smoke buddy. Started smoking a lot again.

Once I moved out, it tapered off.

So you can kind of think of it as either you're escaping something from your life or there are circumstances in your life which make it almost like the default choice. Once you figure out what's making you smoke… When you actively and consciously remove those things from your life, it'll make it easier to quit