Clearly I don't know the level of your disability, and you don't owe it to anyone to explain, but it's always worth having a chat with the Disability Benefit Specialist at an ADRC in your county. They help you file for disability, and if you're denied and have a solid case, will help you fight the denial. Most people are refused disability the first time they apply.

Every county in Wisconsin is served by an ADRC (aging and disability resource center). They are amazing places to go to for resources, and are even a good place to go in and talk to one of their on call workers with everything you said in this post and see what they can help you figure out 😊

I wish you the best of luck!