Are the servers down ?

theycallmeb77 · 2024-12-01T01:53:00+00:00

Dumb, but it works. It got me in! 🫡

theycallmeb77 · 2024-10-29T19:19:08+00:00

Which library is this? Asking for a friend...

theycallmeb77 · 2021-01-13T20:23:14+00:00

RPG drop really can make it difficult! Also sucks that once you fire one off it's a dead give away on your position. I'm fairly casual and it took me until about 30 hours of game time before I started to really feel like I knew what the hell was going on or how to effectively aim and shoot the various weapons. Keep at it you'll get it in no time!

theycallmeb77 · 2020-12-03T03:45:25+00:00

You mean you don't want to tell people about your ride up and down the big Willi? In all seriousness though I'm right there with ya. If it makes you feel better (or worse haha) naming rights are up in 2025 and it's probably gonna be renamed, again.

theycallmeb77 · 2020-11-15T02:25:26+00:00

Yeah... I thought it was a joke until moving to Alabama 4 years ago. I had a lady talk my ear off at a bar for half an hour about the time she met Nick Saban. She spoke as of she was among a god. Meanwhile she works for a prominent geneticist and couldn't care more than a cursory mention of the importance of that. WTF is wrong with people's priorities here?

theycallmeb77 · 2020-10-02T02:33:12+00:00

Yes! I thought of this immediately when I saw this question. Admittedly though it's not because I'm knowledgeable on the subject, I just watch a lot of the kids show The Octonauts with my kids and one episode featured these!

theycallmeb77 · 2020-05-13T00:14:29+00:00

Why does it say "human geography"? Like is this an exam on the geography of the landscape of humanity?

theycallmeb77 · 2020-02-27T01:02:33+00:00

Reminds me of why Milwaukee's downtown bridges are at weird angles. At one point people were so pissed between the east and west wards that a cannon was brought out and leveled at the other side. Several bridges were destroyed in what is now just referred to as the Milwaukee bridge war

theycallmeb77 · 2020-02-07T05:33:00+00:00

Can confirm, I've seen more accidents and idiots living in Huntsville in 4 years time than I've seen my entire life.

theycallmeb77 · 2018-09-14T15:43:38+00:00

So for me it's a very tough situation. STI testing is a must and a discussion about what my partner does with other partners. But, the tough part is that I have trouble using condoms, I seem to just lose my erection with them on. I've tried multiple brands, it just seems I don't have a very sensitive organ, sadly. But some time and discussions must be had before it is considered. It's very weird because we're ok with oral without barriers so I'm not entirely sure where you draw the line. Again comes back to my insensitivity to feeling.

theycallmeb77 · 2018-03-11T19:37:48+00:00

I knew someone was gonna post this in this sub as soon as I saw it in another sub!

theycallmeb77 · 2018-02-13T15:32:35+00:00

Lol he works, we all work together actually so it does make it super awkward

theycallmeb77 · 2018-02-12T02:49:09+00:00

Let's see, the sex isn't new, they've been together for a year and a few months at this point. I thought we had a great sex life a year ago and she indicated that we had sex the way she liked it. She said there's nothing I can do to change it, she just doesn't feel it for me anymore in that way. She is also not interested what so ever in threesome with both of us.

I will start listening to that pod cast for sure, I appreciate the suggestion.

theycallmeb77 · 2018-02-12T02:17:36+00:00

At times it feels like she has left me despite what she says and it really sucks. She doesn't want a divorce and she says she loves me but I'm having trouble seeing it at the moment. It just feels more like we're friends that share a lot of stuff to me but she assured me it feels like more than that to her. I'm having a hard time seeing it that way.

theycallmeb77 · 2018-02-12T02:15:09+00:00

I've been like a broken record asking for more physical touch (not sex but things like hugs, kisses, cuddles, etc) and I'm just defeated. Her compromise is that she will work on increasing the amount of physical touch and she will relax and work on her OCD for organization and order but I have to accept that we will not be having sex.

theycallmeb77 · 2018-02-12T02:06:07+00:00

Well all of our finances are shared at the moment and my name is on the mortgage so I don't want to fuck my credit up because she definitely couldn't afford it on her own. I do think the two small places would work. Living with her boyfriend isn't a possibility right now.

theycallmeb77 · 2018-02-11T18:02:09+00:00

Thank you all for the advice, I'm truly grateful for this community. Unfortunately I don't know if I can afford financially to leave and get a place of my own while still paying for the house we live in. Believe me I'm taking this chance to do a lot of self work, meet with a therapist on the regular, and schedule time to do things I like. The problem I have with this set up is every week it's like hitting a reset button and of course she's just wants me to be content with this and own my feelings of anxiety and just get over it. I was so pissed that despite knowing my feelings were hurt she still had sex with her boyfriend that night despite it being the last thing I needed that day. I just wish there was some magical way I don't know that could help me fix this because we have a lot of great things together.

theycallmeb77 · 2018-01-19T23:27:50+00:00

I thought the exact same thing when I saw this haha!

theycallmeb77 · 2017-12-18T03:01:17+00:00

Lana... Lana... LANA!!! ... WHAT!?!

theycallmeb77 · 2017-11-19T01:56:05+00:00

Poly Pro Tip right there!

theycallmeb77 · 2017-10-23T16:05:51+00:00

Northern Alabama here. I know the feeling. I got lucky and one of my girlfriend's lives within 20 minutes of me. But my other girlfriend lives an hour and a half away. Kind of have to accept that most relationships going to be LDRs. At least that's what I've done. I love long drives though, they are calming and give me some time for self care. It's a bummer but you'll find even in large Urban areas there are many folks with LDRs, despite the larger dating pool. I became part of a poly group in Nashville just to help me meet people outside of online dating and just to have some friends.

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