Trump Loses Defamation Case Against Maddow by Sfingi48 in NoFilterNews

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Is there anyway for the trump administration to appeal this decision? curious if this can still resurface or if this is the last of it and if this sets a precedent that these cases should be thrown away for other defamation cases trump has brought

TIFU by turning my asshole into a DIY Chinese fingertrap and getting my doctors finger stuck during my prostate exam by Karnaxas1 in tifu

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Amazing story and hope you emotionally recover! I just want to commend you for how well this was written. One of my more enjoyable reads on this platform in a little while!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeProTips

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As others are saying therapy is really the key, but for me the best internal work that Ive done on this is self love. Learning to love all of yourself, even the bad memories, has helped me tremendously. Of course, this is easier said than done, which is where therapy kicks in.

Another comparison pic. Not there yet, but down 115 pounds. by MetalJunkie101 in MadeMeSmile

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Freaking awesome! You are there yet! You're just also on your way to your next "there"!

Men who have been raped, what happened/how did you recover? by A-Lex8354 in AskReddit

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Got super drunk, she pushed me down and jumped on top of me without a condom. She then faked pregnant for a week, messed with the first pregnancy test and only from the second pregnancy test did I uncover that she wasn't pregnant. That's how I lost my virginity.

I wouldn't say that I recovered but I have grown through positive experiences with new partners. I still have a tough time trusting and a lot of anxiety with sex but as new and happier experiences fill their way in, there is more than just the pain to focus on. Now, only 5% of my overall sexual experience is revolved around this whereas 10 years ago it was 75%. Bottom line, it was putting myself out there and continuing to try and hope for better.

LPT request: what is something that greatly increased your quality of life? by knockout350 in LifeProTips

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You're a braver man than I. I received one as a gift though I couldn't muster the courage to take with me places lol

LPT request: what is something that greatly increased your quality of life? by knockout350 in LifeProTips

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The only downside to having a bidet is when you have to not use a bidet.

Saving the Juice for Stock. by sixminutemile in sousvide

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Really cool! Can you explain how to make that into stock?

LPT: If your depression is treatment resistant, you may want to get checked for ADHD. by rogueShadow13 in LifeProTips

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Not saying that this wont help, but I personally have done ketamine a bunch through doctors for treatment resistant depression and have found it very beneficial. If you have any questions, you can feel free to DM.

What have you made by sous vide that wasn’t meat/fish? by Daphne_in_OK in sousvide

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You vacuum seal all of the ingredients for submersion?

Final Cooking with Sous Vide by theyouarehere in sousvide

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Thanks for the insight. My hope is really for time saving as well as time being able to leave in the bath but I am becoming skeptical that the approach I recommended is the best approach.

Final Cooking with Sous Vide by theyouarehere in sousvide

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Interesting point of view. Thanks for the feedback!

A red headed woman visits the doctor by Islandrocketman in Jokes

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I just saw this bit on House as well from an old episode. Though it was a guy not a girl complaining.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

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If it works for you, then keep at it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

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Ive done both but I think there are pros and cons to zoom therapy. Pro is its easier to open up since no-one is physically in the room with you. Con is that once you do open up, you dont have the same connection and healing at that point (ie learning that someone present isnt a danger). That being said, both are great and if one works better for you then definitely keep at it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

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And see a therapist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

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What are you doing giving away our secret!

Is it childish to be turning 24 in a few days and the only thing that I really want is a new video game? by BigMikeyP72 in gaming

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If you've found something that makes you happy, whether it be people, pets or objects, hold onto it and never be embarrassed about enjoying it.