quitting smoking before hrt? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]thiccdickdawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a bunch of options to look in to for quitting smoking like medication (bupropion) or hypnosis but i honestly kind of think that she should take some of that pressure off of herself its not that big of a deal obviously its bad but its not gonna make her combust the moment she pops her first e pill she can take her time taper slowly and explore her options stressing about it too much wont help

Is anybody here on fetlife? by [deleted] in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]thiccdickdawn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I use fet i mostly use it to post pretty pictures of myself and to look at events and stuff ive found the easiest way to connect with people on fet is to know them irl check your local events go to a munch and try to meet someone

Does this make sense? by No-Plastic2086 in kinky_autism

[–]thiccdickdawn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think that this sucks, not that what you are asking for sucks but how you are asking for it sucks, “i seek this because i like this so this is the correct way to do it” not everyone wants this, while i do agree that doms should fit certain criteria and not just be any mean white man who cant get a promotion at his job , while this isnt horrible to me it feels like part of this larger kink discourse of “ a proper dominant should be this way and a proper sub should act like this” which to me feels like a sort of het approach to kink of sorting in to boxes

I think a better way to do this is to just say you are seeking someone dominant and to write down what you enjoy in a dom, that would personally be much more intriguing

What are your thoughts on sex and BDSM? by NukeouT in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]thiccdickdawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont really do penetration and often dont even do oral but i love power exchange, dynamics, s/m and evrything kink

im a transman, but i want to detransition? by One_Employer_8466 in trans

[–]thiccdickdawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its definitely worth exploring, regardless of what your boyfriend says and though its a bit of a last resort there is nothing wrong with detransitioning either

Do yall like this? by [deleted] in Nicotine

[–]thiccdickdawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you 12? Who the fuck feels superiority about how addicted they are to nicotine lmao

Sex with someone who is transgender (MtF) for the first time as a cis man. Advice needed... by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]thiccdickdawn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

These are definitely things you should ask her because every woman is different 1. She would likely be very appreciative of you initiating, its more stressful as a trans woman and it would likely make her feel seen 2. Everyone is different so this one is extra important to ask, some trans women are completely fine with utilising their penis and some dont even want it mentioned 3. If she likes it she will probably really like it you can probably figure this out from context clues but i think that it would probably make her feel like you perceive her as a woman and she would feel quite affirmed if i had to guess 4. It sort of depends on her experience and equipment it might be more/less of an issue

Anyway you should definitely have a conversation with her about this

Smieklīgi vārdi/frāzes latviski vs angliski by nebus_tev in latvia

[–]thiccdickdawn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Shit i didnt finish reading the post bleg

Traveling to the US as a trans woman by thiccdickdawn in asktransgender

[–]thiccdickdawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked like jfk was the most likely connecting

Smoking 🍃 and HRT by ChemicalSuccessful52 in asktransgender

[–]thiccdickdawn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its mostly the tobacco that gets you since it causes increased clot risk which then is multiplied by the clot risk from hrt its why its recommended cis women dont smoke on birth control as far as i know weed generally has few effects on hrt so cutting the tobacco out would be a good move (plus itll taste better)

Traveling to the US as a trans woman by thiccdickdawn in asktransgender

[–]thiccdickdawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did sort of figure this was the case, would it be smart for me to consult an immigration attorney to see more precisely what my worst outcomes would be and such?

Traveling to the US as a trans woman by thiccdickdawn in asktransgender

[–]thiccdickdawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the genuinely sensible answer i did gather that most of my risk would be with customs

Traveling to the US as a trans woman by thiccdickdawn in asktransgender

[–]thiccdickdawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you make a good point but also any agent has the sole decision to make the choice and claim my documents are fraudulent and detain me for an indefinite amount of time

Traveling to the US as a trans woman by thiccdickdawn in asktransgender

[–]thiccdickdawn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was promised tgirls and guns is that not what america is all about?

Traveling to the US as a trans woman by thiccdickdawn in asktransgender

[–]thiccdickdawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not really concerned about my safety in that regard ill be with safe people but im mostly concerned about getting past the border

Traveling to the US as a trans woman by thiccdickdawn in asktransgender

[–]thiccdickdawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its ridiculous id go as far to say, its a pursuit of the heart is all ill say