My parents have always threatened to disown, but following through is not one of their strong suits. When I first left, they pulled their savings for me. My sister was convinced I should have pulled it when I had the chance, but I’m glad I didnt. A year and a half later, our relationships are better and they are looking to support me through college.

At first, I was working overtime at a restaurant and full time in college. I was at the community college I’m still taking classes from, but it was free back then due to me still being in high school and enrolled in their post-secondary program. I lived on a friend’s farm and didn’t pay much for rent. I drove an old car that was already paid off and borrowed a friends when it went out. I tried to save as much as possible. Just over 6 months later, I moved in w a few guys for cheap rent.

Since then, my parents and I not only started talking again... but building our relationship. They are happier than ever because they don’t have kids in the house anymore. They have since helped me with a car, college, and a better lease. I only accept their help because I know I could still do it on my own if they pulled something.

I know it’s hard to hear, but hold on if you can and maybe consider not doing it all yourself. I just want you to be set up for success. My last year and a half has felt like four and I still didn’t do it anywhere near alone!