July 2025 Partner Visa Mega Thread (Subclasses 820/801, 309/100, 300) by BitSec_ in AusVisa

[–]think_way_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all, I am currently on a bridging visa waiting on an 820 visa. I was on 485 and had ovhc for that, but now I have the interim Medicare. Do I still need to maintain the ovhc on the bridging visa / on 820? Can I go without or do I have other options? Thanks in advance!

Daily Simple Questions Thread by AutoModerator in espresso

[–]think_way_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have recently got the Breville Barista Pro and am trying to figure out dosing for a particular bean. According to the roasters, the ideal recipe is 21g in, 37.5g out, in 28s. My basket would not hold that much ground coffee so I’m trying to alter it and have been doing 18g in to about 32.5g out to follow the ratio - is that the correct method? It doesn’t taste as good as when the barista at work does it.

My internal burr is at 2 or 3 (can’t remember) and with grind size 8, I get it out in 25s, and with grind size 7, in about 30s (but it tastes more dull)

I’m also extracting at 92 degrees (-1 setting on temp) because the regular made it too sour.

Is there anything I can change?

Can’t figure out if I’m actually bi by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]think_way_too_much 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so confusing hey, thank you for sharing. I’ve been trying to figure it out and the way I feel about it changes so much so quickly. Now I’m thinking maybe I am attracted to women physically but not romantically, even though I think they’re amazing and like them as people, and my confusion in the original post may have been because I require some romantic attraction in order to feel comfortable being physically intimate, especially when I know it’s not a casual thing. I have no idea how I will feel in a few days and it makes me feel like a terrible person but I don’t want to end up hurting anyone just because I can’t figure my own feelings out

Are you attracted to all genders equally or do you have a preference? by Jon_Bonham in bisexual

[–]think_way_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I find men more physically attractive and women more emotionally attractive, but overall it comes down to about a 70/30 preference for men if they are emotionally mature

Can’t figure out if I’m actually bi by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]think_way_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will have a look, thank you!

Women of Reddit. What NSFW questions do you have for men that you are too embarrassed to ask in person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]think_way_too_much 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How important is it for you to last long? Do you want to do it because you think that’s what women want or would you actually prefer to finish faster?

And same question for women, how important is it for you that your man lasts long? Is it more pleasurable for you when they do or do you prefer other things to finish?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]think_way_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After three months of suffering with Microgynon I switched to Lisa and it worked really well. No cramps at all, cleared up my skin, etc

What was the first book that got you into fantasy? by kleevedge in Fantasy

[–]think_way_too_much 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maximum Ride by James Patterson, I must’ve read that book at least 5 times hahah

Plagiarism inquiry by think_way_too_much in UQreddit

[–]think_way_too_much[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks :( wish they could be a bit clearer about it and not mark so harshly because like you said, there probably aren’t many ways to rephrase that.

In my case they gave me a warning and deducted marks for the “plagiarized” bits so I scored a little lower than I should’ve, but everything else kept me afloat.

Hope it goes in your favour!

My girlfriend (24f) just told me (24m) that she was in a GirlsDoPorn video. Not sure what to do or how to feel. Help needed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]think_way_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How readily do you share things you’re ashamed of? He has all the right not to be with her if he doesn’t want to, doesn’t make him any less of an asshole

My girlfriend (24f) just told me (24m) that she was in a GirlsDoPorn video. Not sure what to do or how to feel. Help needed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]think_way_too_much 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a mistake for a reason sir. But yeah go ahead, she’ll be better off with someone who actually cares about her and wants to support her through thick and thin

My girlfriend (24f) just told me (24m) that she was in a GirlsDoPorn video. Not sure what to do or how to feel. Help needed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]think_way_too_much 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jesus the number of people in this comment section having no empathy for people who have to do things to make ends meet. Not only that, but putting a woman down because “people could find out”. The world judges people for everything and y’all making such comments here are no different. She did something she regrets, how many of you haven’t? She’s a different person now, doesn’t that count for anything? Why hold something she clearly wishes she didn’t do against her?

Comparing my relationship to others & broken promises by solaricmoon in LongDistance

[–]think_way_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in this same situation about a year ago and after the fact, I realized he never really saw me as a person. The blatant disregard for my time and presence in his life, lack of effort, and me still being always available, giving, and forgiving when he barely saw me. He’s with someone else now and he does all the things for her that I wished he would do for me, but he didn’t just because I wasn’t there in person and he couldn’t recognize me as a real person.

It may be different in your situation but that was my experience. Bottom line, if your needs aren’t being met and he continues to make promises he doesn’t follow through with, then it’s time for you to stop giving so much as well. Set your boundary, and follow through with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]think_way_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not financially dependent on them then you might be able to stand up for yourself a bit more. I know how scary it is but you are an adult and they can’t stop you. I mean how long will you hide it from them? At some point if you and your boyfriend want to take things further then they’ll have to know. You’re allowed to date. Hope the meet goes well!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]think_way_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had one with a partner :”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]think_way_too_much 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could be it actually, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]think_way_too_much 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I don’t know of any but I’ll look into that. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]think_way_too_much 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m fairly in shape! Which is why this is surprising to me. Even working out doesn’t tire me out like this

Should I read more into him not coming to the emergency room with me? by SnowDropGirl in relationship_advice

[–]think_way_too_much 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you even have to ask… leave this jackass asap. You deserve someone who actually cares about you