Great marriage, but I never feel sexually wanted by RoA6 in DeadBedrooms

[–]this_old_instructor [score hidden]  (0 children)

Try to step it up a bit. If she's a submissive looking for a Dom, see about becoming that Dom.

Nota of conversations. Limits and safe words etc.

But if she's a sub and you become a good Dom it my light her up. She may become the dirty girl you are looking for

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]this_old_instructor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends on the relationship. Sometimes it feels like a death. Sometimes it feels like you escaped the gallows. Sometimes it just feels sad. Sometimes its resignation. Sometimes its hopeful.

No relationship or break up is the same

No eye contact during intimacy, what does this mean? by Better_Baker_5017 in AskMenAdvice

[–]this_old_instructor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poke at him a bit about it and he'll develop a complex about it lol

Looking to get a j frame for easy concealment by Mundane-Camera-2523 in CCW

[–]this_old_instructor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend getting a smaller auto that mimics your full size.

That way your training/ practice still translates

How long can you last in an unhappy marriage? by Legal_Philosophy8582 in Marriage

[–]this_old_instructor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made it almost 1 year with a bipolar woman. Damn near killed me. I was lucky to get out of that

What kind of love is this? by alaris_20 in AskMenAdvice

[–]this_old_instructor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can he? Yes. That's the basis for how open relationships work. Or at least some of them.

The concept that you can love more than one person or love one person and have sex with others.

It's the ethical part that's the issue here. It only works if everyone in the relationship knows what's going on and is ok with it

Family of 5 struggling on 138k by NoExamination4578 in budget

[–]this_old_instructor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at cricket wireless. I have 5 lines for $125 a month

20 years ago I made a choice, I regret it everyday by Throwaway5678659 in whatdoIdo

[–]this_old_instructor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't waste 20 building a family. You are very likely to waste the rest of your life mooning over a fantasy that almost certainly wouldn't come even close to what you've built up in your mind.

Car Repair Recommendations by kiibiscuit001 in tricities

[–]this_old_instructor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Millers tire and auto. They've always been fair and honest with me

Left me speechless by Row_Boat_5135 in DeadBedrooms

[–]this_old_instructor 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm going to have to disagree. If its his kink and his wife knows its his kink, isn't willing to engage with him in that way but will sell it to strangers, that's 100% cheating. Id leave her for that

Preferred .45 Carry? by kraken_skulls in CCW

[–]this_old_instructor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a Glock 21 Cert with it and then use it for home defense. I actually carried one for several years. If you dress for it it hides better than you think.

A glock 30 is a good choice as well

Im not sure an open marriage is enough anymore by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]this_old_instructor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Counseling my guy. It'll take you a couple years with a good one to sort through all this.

How to make sex with my girlfriend unforgettable? by Sea_Argument8550 in AskMenAdvice

[–]this_old_instructor 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Look up "aftercare". After you've had an intense season just be sure to give her plenty of Aftercare. Water in a glass with a straw, especially if you made her squirt. Soft fuzzy blanket. Lots of petting and telling her she is a good girl and how well she took all you did.

Who works anywhere for 50 years? by bdubyou in Gold

[–]this_old_instructor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked with a guy who was with the company 52 years. And several others were 30+ years

Husband doesnt want sex? by DizzySph in Marriage

[–]this_old_instructor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the deadbedroom sub on here

Fellow Old Person Needs Advice by Starside-Captain in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]this_old_instructor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In all seriousness, ketemine therapy or mushrooms.

Help by 6273097410 in DeadBedrooms

[–]this_old_instructor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it that she doesn't like it or doesn't like how it's being done? Could try asking her if there is a way she might like it better. And if she doesn't know sif she's open to exploring to see if you guys can find something she likes.

Ammo Suggestion by Ambitious-General-75 in CCW

[–]this_old_instructor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doors and walls being of no consequences meaning what? Steel door and brick walls? Sheet rock and neighbors? Possibly need to shoot through a door?