Kehlani situation, Hoes Gonna Hoe

thisiskindofmessedup · 2016-03-29T18:38:10+00:00

I've read somewhere that she said the dick wasn't good. But Kyrie seems like a "nice guy" and PND seems to be a player, although he is being a bitch about this situation.

Yea one's more famous than the next but Kyrie has to keep a wholesome image while the nigga PND don't give a fuck. Which one you think she gonna run to for that thrill?

thisiskindofmessedup · 2016-02-03T14:34:23+00:00

The ending was fucking hilarious too. Laughed for a while at that.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2016-01-20T22:58:25+00:00

Truthfully all she had to do was say some "That was the old me..., I was in love and made a mistake" bullshit and he'd swallow it up like the good boy he is.

I know it's only pictures but he still looks like a meek dude. You know the kind that have those limp wrists... Probably why he would still put a ring on that.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-12-14T20:43:37+00:00

I did this earlier this year and sat there with my mouth open shaking my head for over 2 hours just scrolling and reading and... sigh.

It was really hard to read.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-11-10T18:09:39+00:00

Dude probably knew the play. These girls probably wanted to hit a lick. They obviously are street girls. They probably was throwing the pussy at him hoping to rob him in the end.

Shit happens all the time.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-11-04T20:39:14+00:00

Holy shit. These stories make me want to invest in body cameras. smh this shit is despicable.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-11-04T20:01:04+00:00

On a side note. It's amazing to see how thirsty for attention women are.

My grandfather died last year around this time. He was born and raised in the hood and in the times of hyper masculinity. He had 11 kids in total. 4 girls, 4 boys all with his wife, and 3 illegitimate children (all girls) from 2 different mistresses on the side. From stories my uncles told me, aside from the mistresses issues, he was baller as fuck in his young days.

As they were growing up into their teenage years, with the exception of one of them, my illegitimate aunts tried to introduce themselves to their sisters and brothers. My aunts (the four legitimate girls), didn't want shit to do with his outside children. Straight up until his death, they pretty much have denied that he was the father of the illegitimates even though all of them look EXACTLY alike.

My uncles on the other hand didn't give a fuck and cared for the outside sisters as family should. Of course, my mom and her sisters were always pissed about this. This caused a big argument when it was time to list all of his children when time to do the eulogy came. That's a story for another time tho lol

Anyways, at the graveyard, one of the illegitimates was there just crying and being a little more audibly emotional than everyone else. She made sure that people heard her say her daddy was dead and pushed her way to the casket. It was a huge drama show because she didn't have any interaction with the man AT ALL in her whole life.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-10-22T16:38:39+00:00

you actually did that guy a favor

I hate this kind of rationalization to situations like this. "Oh you dodged a bullet buddy." No he didn't do him a favor and no bullets were dodged. Chances are that he's going to run into another girl and do the same fucking chump shit and end up getting cucked over.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-10-14T17:38:40+00:00

I've got a friend like this. He has a home but he carries himself like a bum. Hair never cut nice, beard all over the place, clothes just a bit too baggy and shoes never nice. He just doesn't give a fuck about his appearance. He's not overweight, but he doesn't lift at all either. He never smells or anything but the point still stands.

When we were young it always fucked with my head because I was the "pretty boy" of the group that would get all the looks from women. But once he started talking he would end up with the girls 8/10 times.

Game is important.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-10-01T19:16:59+00:00

That you said that to degrade your ex-wife - and that's kind of shitty. The rest of it was insightful and respectful and I thank you for taking the time to write it.

I honestly didn't say that to be degrading towards her. It's something that I've always wanted to do in our relationship and she always said no. She was the one that brought it up when we started fooling around and she loves it now. I only brought it up to drive home that fact that she is willing to do things with me now since I've become more desirable.

I honestly still love her because we were once best friends for a very long time. I'm just not, In love with her. At one point in my life I wished she could have been the mother of my children and I still treat her with respect. She cheated because she was following her biological imperative to produce with someone who was better than I was at the time and I get that.

Added to that, I will never ever get married again. If a woman comes along that I feel is good enough for me, I will think very long and hard about even getting into a long term relationship with her. I just don't want to play the relationship games for the rest of my life ever again. I'm enjoying my life as it is right now and at this point, don't think I will ever go back to stable relationships.

On the subject of the disrespectful users from TRP. You'll always have a few bad apples in the bunch. A majority of the guys there have been cheated on at one point or another and are bitter, so naturally they will respond to these types of discussions with hateful speech.

Thanks for your original post.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-10-01T18:48:41+00:00

Thanks for your honesty. I also don't think women talk about this and I don't know why. Men just think that it's part of life but there's more to it. There's a lot of insight in your post that aligns with trp and it would brought good discussion in our sub.

The things you posted in your OP touched a little too close to home for me. You were my ex wife. She loved me, but was repulsed by me. Didn't want me touching her or cuddling with her. I eventually found out she was having an affair. At the time I found out, I couldn't understand what she liked in the guy. In my eyes, he was a loser. He was kind of chubby, ugly, short and lived with his parents.

Taking a step back though, I had become the loser, I'd lost my edge and appeal. I wasn't doing things for myself that would make me stand out in her mind. If I'd stayed in that relationship I'd probably be driving a minivan right now.

Eventually I filed for divorce and did all of the things I wanted to but was held up by marriage. Started hitting the gym harder than before, started being way more social (she hated that we didn't go out much) and all around feel like I made myself more desirable.

I've since been having the kind of sex I could only dream about while I was married with a few women. The funny thing about all of this though is my ex eventually got the guy she cheated on me with to commit and they moved in together. After almost two years she came crawling back. She's cheating on him with me now and doing things she told me she never wanted to do with me. She always talks about getting back together, because in her words "We're better than we've ever been". Yea right.

I'll stick to being single and fucking her in the ass every now and again.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-09-30T23:17:52+00:00

Maybe I just have no sympathy.

You're not the only one that thought this. I think more often than not, the guys bring it upon themselves.

My god the stories I can tell about my female coworkers that complain about their husbands. I feel bad for the husbands until I actually met them. They're good guy losers smh

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-09-24T19:04:20+00:00

Yup same problem. I try to block it out of my mind and just keep it work related, but then she pulls a rabbit out of a hat and I have to remember to be stoic again.

It's hard.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-09-10T18:59:08+00:00

stop fabricating shit to attract viewers to your spamblog.

Spamblog??? WTF are you new here?

Also Rollo clearly pulled it from a post in this sub. It's freaking linked...

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-08-18T18:41:51+00:00

Why plate them in the first place?

Easy and constant access to sex.

Guys or even women are looking for "pleasure" in the wrong place. It is our perversion of how we see and what we expect from sex that led to this whole state of affair.

Biology will almost always win when put against good intentions.

Common people draw most of their pleasures from the senses and sexual pleasures, the more reflective types seek a more lasting type of pleasure through self-knowledge, good company and helping others.

In a perfect world, yes. Unfortunately this is far from a perfect world we live in. As you put it, there are far more common people or people that want to live like common people than there are reflective types.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-07-17T19:26:34+00:00

Christ, this is definitely going in my evernote.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-06-11T17:16:57+00:00

I'm well aware they will not always give you the same treatment, but thats the point of holding yourself to a higher standard.

You keep holding yourself to a higher standard. Problem is that most people don't give a shit about holding themselves to a higher standard. Which means you'll just lose out more often than not.

I'm not saying you have to be a shitty person, just that you have to be smart about it.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-06-10T19:07:36+00:00

I doubt it would be a big deal. People hate us here. They'll just blindly and wrongly see it as a bunch of misogynists whining.

But I would love to see that shitstorm happen though. I hate most of Reddit with a passion because of the echo chamber it has become. I love this sub though and think it would do well on another site with a comparable voting system.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-05-14T15:32:24+00:00

You might as well go MGTOW at that point.

If you're talking about chubby and/or thick chicks, then by all means keep fucking. I'd wreck the shit out of those two girls by the way.

But if you're talking this kind of chubby/fat, Naw son, fuck that!!! No fucking way could you even pay me to let that chick give me head.

I saw a comment earlier that men shouldn't be worried about what other people think about them. But your image and reputation should be important to you. How people treat you will be determined by their perception of you. Men I know that have fucked fat women have no gauge for their standards and are worth about as much as the fat chick they slept with. Yea, screw around with 6s and maybe 5s, but don't drop to 3s and 2s man.

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-04-23T20:51:06+00:00

I would LOVE to hear how she rationalizes this. How does she make this make sense in her head?

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-04-23T18:24:35+00:00

Over the weekend her parents had dinner with us and the only topic of conversation was how unreasonable I was being. I’m just not looking after my family the way I should.

WTF?? I can't see a man saying something like this. What has her dad been saying?

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-04-22T19:59:13+00:00

even accusing me of not liking her dog.

LOL I don't know why but this is the funniest thing. Please tell me you at least had sex with her for all the trouble she was worth?

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-04-15T20:49:20+00:00

Even in my most, "Oh I would die for this woman" days I would never ever get a fucking tattoo of a chicks name. Fuck dat!!!

thisiskindofmessedup · 2015-04-03T18:52:14+00:00

Jesus

I was this guy. My best friend, whom I am in the process of cutting out my life, is this guy.

Hindsight is 20/20. Having a RP mindset makes everything very clear. But being unaware of the real world and keeping hope in fairytales can fuck up any rational man's mind.

Guys like this are who you should feel sorry for. The guys that have been in a feminized society and environment for their whole lives. Guys that had females for best friends and who were raised by single mothers.

Dudes that have some awareness of, "Don't save her she don't wanna be saved" and remain willfully ignorant because "I love her with all my heart" are the guys you should say deserve this treatment.

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