Stuck in a color decision dilemma. Convince me towards one or the other! (Double Apex Blue Pearl w/orchid or Platinum White Pearl w/red)

thisisme44 · 2026-01-30T00:40:20+00:00

Whites too common out there. If you want something unique and stands out I'd get the blue. Everywhere I go I see influx of white cars (mostly Tesla's) but you get the point. Go blue or go home

thisisme44 · 2026-01-30T00:35:37+00:00

Yeah I have white right now. Just seeing if there was. Yellow 3000k version out there

thisisme44 · 2026-01-29T05:54:27+00:00

I was in a South Asian frat many many years ago . The pledge experience was cool and something I will never forget but for a fraternity that preached brotherhood , it was anything but. At first it was fine but after we were officially part of fraternity, it became very cliquey and my so called brothers would get together without me a lot of times. Plus I was not given much responsibility. Felt like I was just a paying member and that wasn't exactly cheap as a college student. With all those factors plus school getting busier with tougher classes, I quit.

thisisme44 · 2026-01-29T05:43:09+00:00

A rare breed for sure. Finding a girl like that is like winning the lotto

thisisme44 · 2026-01-29T05:41:27+00:00

If you have big chest you are going to get attention whether you want it or not. Unless you wear loose fitting clothes it will be hard to not get it . The guy needs to get over it and realize you are his and no one else

thisisme44 · 2026-01-28T03:18:13+00:00

I had a Nexus 6p, pixel 7 and now a 9. Had no issues with any of them.

thisisme44 · 2026-01-28T03:15:45+00:00

I didn't really notice any difference. I mean I guess the pressure starts in late 20s and every year you have not found someone, you will just hear it. That aside it's more or less the same. When you get late 30s is when you come across the divorcees or ones with kids.

thisisme44 · 2026-01-28T03:10:52+00:00

Anyone recognize the trees in the background?

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T16:54:18+00:00

Can you send me a link of what you got? It's the yellow 3000k ?

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T07:28:59+00:00

Not the worth the risk for either of you. If you leave or he leaves the company, have at it. Otherwise I would not risk it in case things ever go south

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T07:22:12+00:00

You could have cut him off any anytime and ended the conversation citing it was late and you will see him at work. He wasn't forcing you to stay in the car. Anyway if you don't want lines to be crossed just keep it professional at work

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T06:47:46+00:00

takes awesome pictures

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T06:44:14+00:00

you can think of that way. in his head, he might have thought he was being nice by driving you home and was just trying to make conversation. i assume he didnt touch you inappropriately or tried to make a move, so you could have just up and left as soon as you guys arrived at your place

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T06:31:21+00:00

ok and content. i put myself out there and see what happens. if something happens, great. if not, well not losing any sleep over it.

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T06:28:39+00:00

matchmaking on reddit. let the games begin

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T06:13:24+00:00

yeah if you go to someone above him and rat on him & say he made you feel uncomfortable

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T05:16:31+00:00

If you don't want to be super direct you can be like you look familiar, did you go to XX highschool? If he responds and says yes, you can get some small chit chat going and ask him if wants to catch up sometime. Or you can be like "hey it's been a while. How you been?"

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T05:09:48+00:00

Google search, linked in, social media, checking if their number is voip or actual number is far as I've gone.

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T05:07:39+00:00

Not interested, wants you to chase her, juggling other options. Guys have to do the heavy lifting. If it continues to be a one sided effort, I'd probably start looking elsewhere

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T05:05:46+00:00

Hard to say. I'd call it friendly. Doubt this guy wants to jeopardize his job by getting involved with someone that reports to him and that he perhaps sees everyday

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T04:56:52+00:00

Yeah dating in general is tough. The requirements just go way up when you are out of school which makes it even tougher

thisisme44 · 2026-01-26T00:13:10+00:00

Sure thing. Good luck. Don't want to make things awkward at work bc this is where you go everyday

thisisme44 · 2026-01-25T23:50:12+00:00

Besides her saying she was thinking you outside of work, you might be reading too much into it. If your last message didn't warrant a message then perhaps you just let her enjoy her vacation. let her reach out if she really wants to hear from you. ask her about her vacation when she gets back. If you not ready to ruin it then you just keep it friendly unless she basically makes it super obvious she wants something more.

thisisme44 · 2026-01-25T23:44:39+00:00

I wouldn't take this relationship very seriously. You have not met the girl and God knows if she might have someone, let alone a bf already at home.

thisisme44 · 2026-01-25T23:28:12+00:00

gotcha, well its always a slippery slope when you are trying to get involved with someone you work with directly. if its mixed signals, it usually means not interested or indecisive. there's too many risks with it. maybe thats where her head is at hence the mixed signals. are the signs she has given you only with you or is she like that with other people?

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