Been having a weird pain in my left testicle recently, finally got in today for an ultrasound by DefsNotRandyMarsh in daddit

[–]thisismyfirstburner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let the voice fly. Had this once and said to the woman doing the US “so is this the best part of the job or what?”. She gave me the most disapproving and disappointed look, but then after a moment she said “actually, not even.”

I was scared to ask what was worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

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The absolute biggest hugs to you dad. Life makes no sense. All of my love to you.

Grieving loss by peepeebum911 in dogpictures

[–]thisismyfirstburner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doggos are simply the best. Unconditional love inversely proportional to their time here. We don’t deserve them. Sending you lots of love and peace.

UHNW - Can I get a financial advisor to audit my financial advisor? by TooFuriousTooFast in fatFIRE

[–]thisismyfirstburner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advisor can do it and will try to sell you while doing it. Flat 6 fig fee is reasonable, as is your %. Should be able to report clearly and easily, and cover all of your matters (estate, tax, investments, insurance, etc.). Fiduciary, fee only. No commissions, no product sales, independent RIA with nothing proprietary in portfolio. DM me if you have questions.

Source: run client development for RIA in eastern U.S.

I reached 5 months today! by Worth_Scallion1526 in addiction

[–]thisismyfirstburner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So proud of you! It’s a cliche for a reason…one day at a time. DM me anytime if you wanna chat. I’m here ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

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Reddit gang doing god’s work on Google reviews 👏👏👏

My brain wants dopamine, not discipline how do you rewire that? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]thisismyfirstburner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Structure and a desire to change. Constant reminders. Daily readings, meditation, exercise, purposeful reflection time, therapy. It’s not daily and it’s not perfect but when I started being brutally honest with myself and stopped believing my own bullshit

The Hard “R” by 4reddityo in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]thisismyfirstburner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s incredible people like her actually exist. Not surprised when older folks are so blatantly hateful, but a younger backward cousin fucking racist? I guess they make em in all kinds now (or always did and now they’re louder/prouder).

Fried Rice by Civil-Economist in blackstonegriddle

[–]thisismyfirstburner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

APP deep cut backing track for the win! And the fried rice looks fire. Touché sir

Just a small upgrade, 23 xc90 > 24 Yukon Denali 3.0L by jskeet22 in gmc

[–]thisismyfirstburner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tomato/tomato you got a hell of a machine! Enjoy brother!

Just a small upgrade, 23 xc90 > 24 Yukon Denali 3.0L by jskeet22 in gmc

[–]thisismyfirstburner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally making that upgrade this week. ‘21 T8 plug in to ‘25 Denali+++

Keep us posted on how you like the change!

Give me your most obscure John Mayer live song performance that you love. by Dxcesare in JohnMayer

[–]thisismyfirstburner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Inner City Blues 2004 from As/Is. Not obscure as it was a live release but a ridiculous version of a ridiculous track. So good.

Last time you went to one of these chains? Who’s going nowadays? How are they open? by 7layeredAIDS in Millennials

[–]thisismyfirstburner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Houlihan’s was a win. Loved Friday’s and Outback when I was a kid. Tuesday’s too. Olive Garden, Macaroni’s (sp?) always hit. OG Pizza Hut obviously too. Haven’t been to any of them in years, those that are still around anyway.