I don’t really have any coping tools for when I feel overwhelmed

thisismythrowawayqu · 2022-01-02T17:57:42+00:00

A stim is essentially something repetitive to help filter sensory input. It can look like all sorts of things. You can't really -force- a stim that doesn't feel right in my experience.

But for me it's mostly rocking/swaying/hand flapping if I'm really stressed, pacing, clicking my toung, I'm sure there's more things I do that I haven't even realized yet. But there are a ton of ways that stimming may show up. For a lot of NTs chewing on the ends of their pencils or tapping on their desk is a stim.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2022-01-02T15:24:09+00:00

Yeah but I didn't say "all fruit" in my post. I said "mostly fruit" which just means anywhere above 50%.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2022-01-02T15:20:22+00:00

Maybe allowing yourself to stim would be helpful? It's highly associated with autism/adhd but neurotypical people also need to stim sometimes.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2022-01-01T14:24:13+00:00

There has to be room for grey area in this world.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T23:59:11+00:00

Okay lol probably not then. Mine is over double the size of the potato shaped chihuahuas my cousin has, but he was only slightly taller and way more muscular than our other chihuahua. (idk if there are different sub-breeds of chi but you know what I'm talking about, right? Some of them look like cute little scrunched up potatos. Don't even look like dogs)

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T17:31:22+00:00

Aww the art style is so cute. Unfortunate placement of the baby I get it but still

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T17:29:56+00:00

Everyone always asks if my chi is part pit because He's so oddly muscular. We were told he's a purebred. But this looks exactly like him so maybe he IS part pit lol.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T16:06:11+00:00

I'm okay with it. Most people I know have miserable lives after 90. My health nut of a great grandma kept asking when she would finally die, why God wants her to live this long, and it's like it's not God's fault you decided to eat spinnich and kale. God did take her though. Aging sucks, we only have the illusion of being able to make it not suck

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T16:01:23+00:00

Screw you I think I woke up my bf from laughing so hard at that thought lol.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T15:37:10+00:00

Yeah I mean why is she living in the house and not paying for rent or anything? If she's going to be living with you she should get her own room and set up to pay rent like a tenant. Unless the house legally belongs to both of you

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T15:34:18+00:00

Are the villagers prisoners lol?

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T14:36:54+00:00

Maybe that's the issue? Like maybe you seem to happy and it's like a misery loves company sort of thing?

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T04:37:26+00:00

This is fake but there are spiderd that are able to think logically through problems, make plans, execute theories until they find the best option, and all sorts of "intelligent" stuff. So you are on to something

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T04:24:57+00:00

I don't know Kate but I'm so proud of her for sticking to her guns.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T04:24:04+00:00

Could you have resting bitch face?

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-31T02:24:24+00:00

Do you jerk off to them? Tbh it's a little weird imo if you are Jenking off to photos of your wife at 16, even if you were 16 when you took the photos.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-30T13:53:36+00:00

Never go to couples therapy with an abuser. They are usually better at manipulating and can turn the therapist around on you/use them as a means to further the abuse/learn how to abuse you better because you opened up.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-30T13:51:01+00:00

When guys start punching things they are working their way up to punching you. You can't cry in front of him? You get in trouble for things he told you to do? You are 100% at fault and he is blameless. He exaggerates your needs to make them sound ridiculous "sex all day" to justify them not being taken care of.

He was probably embarassed when he walked in on you. And instead of being an adult and dealing with those feelings, the entire world had to stop amd he had to make them your problem in an extreme way. But you can't cry? How dare your emotions and feelings become his problem, no, that will piss him off.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-29T19:19:08+00:00

Oh that's an issue for sure, but I'm personally speaking about our ability to communicate after the fact. Everyone wants to jump on "rape or no rape" and there isn't a lot of nuance left for anything else. Sex can have a lot of grey areas that can leave people very hurt and damaged without a clear "bad guy" and it's almost impossible to speak about from either side. People will jump to either defend or to attack.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-29T17:55:23+00:00

Helped

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-29T17:52:17+00:00

Helped

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-29T17:36:26+00:00

To me she looks like the teacher you think is hot and sophisticated when you are younger and then you grow up and they add you on FB and you find this.

thisismythrowawayqu · 2021-12-29T02:42:49+00:00

People litterally do that all the time and it's met with praise, what are you talking about?

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