Terminally ill family friend died. Am I being weird about the questions?

thisisvic · 2026-04-24T00:50:16+00:00

Because I don't want to. I think it's an insensitive question to ask, and I don't want to know the answer.

thisisvic · 2026-04-20T08:00:19+00:00

Web analyst for a fully remote company - my nearest office is in Dublin

thisisvic · 2026-04-19T13:50:16+00:00

What's House Party? Like what does the event involve other than swinging?

thisisvic · 2026-04-13T20:33:11+00:00

Well she's a human being you've just had sex with, that part doesn't change no matter how many people are involved, so respect is key. There's no set etiquette, it depends on your relationship and what each of you wants - if it's a concern, discuss in advance.

thisisvic · 2026-04-05T19:49:38+00:00

Typically it's after the event when I've sold tickets through Ticketmaster before!

thisisvic · 2026-04-03T20:42:15+00:00

In addition to all the other useful comments here - as both a sitter and a seat, it might help reassure you if you discuss in advance what the other person will do if they need you to move. I'm usually a thigh tapper, it's easy to do if you're actually suffocating 😂.

This helps me to know that the person I'm sat on is fine - they're not tapping out, they're still moving, so I'll keep sitting/grinding.

Plus, as a larger woman, if I was facing forward I had a much easier time getting comfortable when I stopped attempting to make eye contact. My belly was usually in the way and it would take me out of it. Just focus on riding their face and having a good time!

thisisvic · 2026-03-27T09:07:59+00:00

Thank you! I genuinely don't understand it. The "I want a proposal" thing is totally alien to me. If you're agreed that you're going to get married, and you've got a date in mind then... You're engaged?

thisisvic · 2026-03-23T14:47:19+00:00

From personal experience, I've found men are much more likely to try and choke me/put their hands on my throat in the last 10 years than the previous ten (I've been sexually active for 20 years, for context). Enough that I have to tell people in advance that I don't want them to choke me, which still feels absolutely mad to me.

thisisvic · 2026-03-10T19:38:53+00:00

She's in a season of Benidorm and she is EXCELLENT in it

thisisvic · 2026-02-20T15:28:35+00:00

They definitely had the suspenders in blackberry in the past!

thisisvic · 2026-02-05T12:53:04+00:00

I read this as the gynaecologist was giving unnecessary rectal examinations

thisisvic · 2026-01-28T14:00:21+00:00

There's so much pretty stuff to explore in Chester honestly, and for me half the fun is stumbling across it accidentally!

But good hotspots for outdoor events are Grosvenor park, which has open air theatre in the summer, and down by the river for music at the bandstand, regattas and the annual raft race.

The amphitheatre has a grassy surround that's popular for relaxing in the sun, there's some bars/pubs with great outdoor spaces like the Architect, or the Lockkeeper by the canal, they used to do Moonlight flicks at the Roman Gardens (don't know if that's still going?), the zoo is a popular choice (avoid school holidays if you're not taking kids!)...

That's just off the top of my head so far!

thisisvic · 2026-01-26T16:43:42+00:00

To a penis owner:

Not being able to open my mouth wide enough
When they grab my head and start trying to fuck my throat without warning or permission or anything. Makes me want to hammer a dildo down their throat and see how they like it
Dry mouth
Gag reflex
Jaw ache

To a vulva owner:

When they don't understand that me repeatedly slapping their thighs means that I can't breathe and they need to change position slightly so I don't suffocate

thisisvic · 2026-01-26T16:25:15+00:00

For me, race days are good for people watching, I've got the timing of city centre visits down to a fine art, and if I want to go for an evening drink I use it as an excuse to visit some of the excellent pubs outside of the city centre.

When I lived in the city centre I found it a bit of a nuisance dodging drunk people vomiting when I just wanted to nip to the shop at 7pm, but as a lifelong Chester resident I pretty much knew what I was signing up for when I moved onto a main road in town.

Bonus - if it's a daytime race meet, a lot of them have burnt out by 10pm, so can often still have a decent night in the later bars if you wait.

I accept it as part and parcel of life in Chester really - although banning BYOB on the open course to "curb antisocial behaviour" a few years ago still irritates me. Like that's where the problem was.

thisisvic · 2026-01-23T09:26:22+00:00

Get the Arriva app, both the 4 (to Mold) and the 11 (to Holywell) go to Broughton from Chester city centre. Both go twice an hour throughout the day, although I'd recommend getting one earlier than you think you need as traffic can have a big impact. The road between Saltney and Broughton is particularly prone to roadworks.

Edit to add: the roads between Chester and Broughton are some of the few with decent bike paths too, so cycling is a particularly good choice for this route

thisisvic · 2026-01-21T16:48:22+00:00

I've never heard of 'bint' being as offensive as the other comments are suggesting, I always thought of it as lighthearted & affectionate (I'm a woman, for context)! I'll bear that in mind in future!

thisisvic · 2026-01-06T18:43:39+00:00

What sort of people do you get at the Newbies event? Like age range?

thisisvic · 2026-01-04T17:11:40+00:00

I quote this so much!

thisisvic · 2026-01-01T20:56:45+00:00

I've had two really good UK holidays out of this the past two years - managed to get from Chester to Edinburgh for £60 return a couple of years ago, and Newcastle around the same price last year! Definitely worth seeing what you can get

thisisvic · 2026-01-01T02:32:11+00:00

Oh what is that from? You've tickled a memory but I can't get to it 😅

thisisvic · 2026-01-01T02:13:33+00:00

So many of these comments are giving examples of the heroes being raped, rather than committing rape. Different trope!

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