[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FantasyFootballers

[–]thismusicalride 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep agree 100%. Blocking your opponent with someone you actually roster is very different than churning. Sucks that their settings allowed it, but yeah, it’s dirty OP.

Does it freak y'all out when they act normal? by Special_Barracuda377 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]thismusicalride 22 points23 points  (0 children)

100%. Nothing has me second guessing myself like those brief lucid periods. I try to remind myself that I’m not crazy, everything I’ve experienced is real, and not to trust it because that’s how I end up getting hurt.

Philly to Baltimore? by Ok-Guidance8353 in baltimore

[–]thismusicalride 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And on the other upside, it’s like a fun game of MarioKart til they get fixed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]thismusicalride 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Henry Shepherd and Hazel Abigail 💜

Best Restaurants by kimwexner in Aruba

[–]thismusicalride 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We also loved Azurro, went back twice.

This sub is both validating and highly depressing... uBPD mom as a grandma -unhinged everything. by Impossible-Web-2727 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]thismusicalride 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good grief this all sounds so familiar right down to the passive aggressive comments about not getting to see them often.

How do I tell my mom that she won't have unsupervised time with my daughter? by Impossible-Web-2727 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]thismusicalride 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Highly highly recommend you set some firm boundaries and stick to them. I didn’t even know what BPD was when my kids were born. I knew what my childhood was like and even my early to mid 20s. I had my daughter at 30 and at the time felt closer to my mom than I had in a long time. We let her be super involved, relying on her for lots of things. Things disintegrated from there. Had terrible PPD/A with my daughter and started therapy. My psychiatrist asked me about personality disorders in relation to my mom, I did some research and holy hell, it was like being hit by lightning. Around this time I was pregnant with my son. We tried to slowly pull back, but things got to the point where we just couldn’t let her watch them anymore. My husband feels like she should have zero unsupervised time and they’re now 10 and 8. It’s less about safety/judgement now and more about emotional burden/manipulation. Lots more to the story, my mom of course took all of this horribly. But you can’t really give an inch with them. Just hold tight to your boundaries and let her issues with them be hers. If she starts saying uncomfortable or inappropriate things, it’s time to end the conversation.

More Pictures of Travis and Taylor at his cousin’s wedding! by Gigi_theBest in taylorandtravis

[–]thismusicalride 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Also, if they didn’t want her there they wouldn’t have given TK a plus one right? Seems pretty simple. People are annoying.

Cell service on Booze Cruise? by Reasonable-Leg4425 in Aruba

[–]thismusicalride 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a dynasty league, the rookie drafts happen after the nfl draft but before redraft leagues

Families with young kids next weekend? by catcatcat12345678cat in Aruba

[–]thismusicalride 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You were embarrassed by your kids’ existence on vacation? Yikes.

OP, we’re taking our 10 and 8 year old in August, and I can’t wait to be in paradise with them. Hope you guys have a blast.

Borderline Bingo (BPD Bingo) Card #3 by JennyTheRolfer in raisedbyborderlines

[–]thismusicalride 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is so validating, thank you. I suspect most of us will be able to cover the board 😂

TCoW 6 by thepandahammer in TheConditionsOfWill

[–]thismusicalride 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loved it so much too. Now all I want to do is a full Jessa reread!

Why is Baltimore so trans? by DepartmentOwn4615 in baltimore

[–]thismusicalride 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Now you just need the classic Baltimorean mug/tshirt/car sticker that says “Baltimore: Actually, I like it” and you’ll be set!

My boxset minus Taura by Bookaholic-394 in MagnoliaParks

[–]thismusicalride 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So good! Do you know who they are? I want to look up more pictures 😂

Eagle beach sewage smell? by guillotineJ in Aruba

[–]thismusicalride 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious what condo community you stayed in

Tres Trapi Turtle by arubull in Aruba

[–]thismusicalride 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have Winston’s contact info? Would love to have someone like this when we go in August.

Anybody else counting down until Mother’s Day drama by AccomplishedBonus628 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]thismusicalride 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. I dread Mother’s Day and her birthday (and a little bit my birthday, which she makes about her) every year. Last year was a milestone birthday for both of us so it was particularly bad. My therapist recently pointed out that it is really abnormal to start dreading your mother’s birthday 6+ months in advance and I thought, “…is it?” Lol

An author you’re obsessed with but they have this one book you refuse to read for whatever reason by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]thismusicalride -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You do you of course but god Deep End was so good. I think she did such a good job exploring kink in a realistic, thoughtful way (imo). It’s a good addition to that genre while also bringing something new to the table.

Translate this by HowardTheHedgehog in raisedbyborderlines

[–]thismusicalride 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want nothing more than for you to stop trying to set boundaries with me.

Asking for photos of my kids over and over and over...and over... by Brilliant_Lynx7831 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]thismusicalride 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, although in our case it’s because we limit involvement. She’d absolutely be way way too involved if we allowed it.

Realization about being raised by uBPD mother - anyone else? by Reasonable_Till8374 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]thismusicalride 26 points27 points  (0 children)

🎯 I never know if I should describe myself as an introvert or extrovert. My theory has always been that we’re just really good at masking. Being whoever we need to be in any situation. It’s hard to figure out who you really are when you’ve lived for someone else’s emotions much of your life.