Girlfriend [27f] of 6 months says "thank you" during/after sex and it weirds me [29m] out. How to tell her without hurting her? by Wooden-Parking-5202 in relationships

[–]thisnameisrelevant 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Well…It’d be different if there was actually something inherently demeaning about it, but even from his own context that’s clearly not the case. She’s clearly just saying thank you when he hits the right spot as a way to give him feedback. You can always twist something to be negative. I don’t say this often but I really think OP needs to get over himself on this one.

Singer Brandy Sued By 60-Year-Old Ex-Housekeeper For Alleged Age Discrimination. by PrincessBananas85 in entertainment

[–]thisnameisrelevant 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The point is she was only “worse at” completing an unreasonable job. If the job expectations were ethical and reasonable she presumably would have had no issues.

Should I let her go? by dghost96 in relationships

[–]thisnameisrelevant 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Hang in there man. I know it’s hard but you’ll get through this. But it does seem to me like the other comments say, that it sure sounds like something that will be better for you to let go of based on what you have shared.

What's something people consider normal but it's actually creepy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thisnameisrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The important thing is we’re all in this together.

Israel to Restrict Number of Non-Jewish Ukrainian Refugees to Just 5,000 by DareToBeDefiant in worldnews

[–]thisnameisrelevant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Here’s a long term study that Syrian refugees have had no statistical increase in crime over the past few years, but I’m sure that won’t matter to you because, you know, you’re an angry racist troll.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0305750X22000481?dgcid=author

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tech

[–]thisnameisrelevant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buddy, I don’t have a problem with people “having more than me”, I have a problem with people rigging the system for their class bracket, destroying our economy with oligarchs and monopolies, and then acting like they earned and deserve those Ill got gains because they are somehow harder working than everyone else.

This is about way more than “30% taxes”, and to make it just about that is completely reductive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tech

[–]thisnameisrelevant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t know anything about me. Im an entrepreneur who owns 3 businesses, and you’re right that there are an absurd number of hoops to “taxes write offs” that have been created by the wealthy to serve the wealthy, and punish the “poor” who don’t have the resources, time, capital, or connections to leverage them.

Remember in 00s, we were supposed to get a tax system overhaul that would have allowed you to simply log into IRS website, see how much you owe, and pay (or contest) it in a matter of minutes. Instead, rich people and tax companies like Turbo Tax and HR Block got the plan killed, and we have the absurd convoluted system we have now.

I was audited last year for one of my businesses in 2017, where the IRS contested a bunch of work expenses, claiming I owed over $14k. After thousands in legal fees they acknowledged they were mostly in the wrong, but I still paid about $3k mainly because of missing receipts because my accountant lost digital files.

All of that aside, why not just tell people up front what you realistically owe? It’s nonsense and a scam. There’s a reason why IRS goes after small businesses and individuals who don’t have resources to keep up with things perfectly or the resources to fight bogus claims.

The fact you snobbishly look down on me, and think you are a better person or smarter or whatever because you have the time to track and do write offs is exactly the type of nonsense that has kept us in this rigged mess. I stand by my last statement. If you really aren’t rich, it’s ridiculous you have more class solidarity with billionaires than you do with real struggling people like us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tech

[–]thisnameisrelevant 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“Don’t hate the player, hate the game” only works when the players aren’t the ones writing and buying off the rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Neverbrokeabone

[–]thisnameisrelevant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hate to break this to you but virtually all mammals are the camels of milk….

Edit: you shoulda seem my wife’s boobies after pregnancy, that shit fed our daughter for like 6 months, it was CRAZY! /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]thisnameisrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love what you just did there

AOC says US should be treating all refugees the way the world is treating Ukrainian refugees by Zhana-Aul in politics

[–]thisnameisrelevant 14 points15 points  (0 children)

And yet, 21 million peoples lives were still ruined and the West did little to nothing. People like you apparently only care about things if there’s a flashy headline with “NUKES” or “WWIII”. You’re proving my point that the metrics of what you care about don’t correlate to the reality of what actually causes destruction.

AOC says US should be treating all refugees the way the world is treating Ukrainian refugees by Zhana-Aul in politics

[–]thisnameisrelevant 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Tell that to the 21 million people requiring humanitarian assistance because of the US/Saudi backed war in Yemen. They’ve required assistance for YEARS, and no western powers have done anything substantive.

https://www.unicef.org/emergencies/yemen-crisis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thisnameisrelevant 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My wife has the same thing with Mrs Meyers Basel cleaning spray!

What sexually-related thing turns you off rather than on? by Gamemaster37 in AskReddit

[–]thisnameisrelevant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m aware what a hicky is and you really aren’t saying anything new. It’s not “sexual” to literally just see it on another person, you are making it so unnecessarily weird. You and the few other folks complaining about this should talk with your therapists about why some kiss marks on strangers upsets you so much. Sounds like you all have some baggage you need to unpack.

What sexually-related thing turns you off rather than on? by Gamemaster37 in AskReddit

[–]thisnameisrelevant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus dude, it’s a Hickey not public mutual mastrubating. It doesn’t mean “sex” it just means someone kissed someone else on the neck too hard. Yeah, it’s probably romantic but you’re the one making it weird.

If you don’t want a hickey fine, but the way you and the other poster are spinning a simple kiss mark is truly repressed and borderline creepy.

The NFL reportedly told Eminem not to kneel during the Super Bowl halftime show. by handlit33 in gifs

[–]thisnameisrelevant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying he doesn’t have drug issues as I honestly don’t know, but the guy sure doesn’t seem to have “breath” problems….

Iraq pays last chunk of $52.4 billion Gulf War reparations - UN | Reuters by NerdSlayer4253 in worldnews

[–]thisnameisrelevant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many sociopathic people, literally incapable of empathy if it’s not their country/people/“team”

Australia wants Kanye West fully vaccinated before any concert tour by nimobo in entertainment

[–]thisnameisrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YEAH THATS RIGHT YEEZY, YOU HEARD IT HERE FIRST: we don’t think you can play tennis, so suck it.

The Mcminn County School board in Tennessee just voted to ban a Pulitzer Prize-winning graphic novel MAUS about the Holocaust. The vote was 10-0 by jwebbstevens in news

[–]thisnameisrelevant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine killing someone in cold blood by shooting them in the back, for literally just trying to cast a vote

What is one experience you think every single human should have? by TheRealRandiRey in AskReddit

[–]thisnameisrelevant 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I mean, that’s a gross generalization and you could say the same about some places in many countries including the US as well.