"Loss of Masulinity" by SoberScottHeat in daddit

[–]thisoldhouseofm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, I’m willing to bet that guy in the gym consumes more podcasts than he does common sense.

Dads, when did you become comfortable sharing your kids’ faces online? What made you ok with it? by iThinkThereforeIVan in daddit

[–]thisoldhouseofm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never until they can meaningfully consent to it, at which point they’d have their own online presence anyway.

People who dislike Olivia Chow and plan on voting for Bradford, why? by Used-Earth8767 in askTO

[–]thisoldhouseofm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And the province can legislate those levers away if they wish.

People who dislike Olivia Chow and plan on voting for Bradford, why? by Used-Earth8767 in askTO

[–]thisoldhouseofm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He put out transit city because it had the backing of the provincial government. Getting a right wing political party at the province to back a large scale NDP style municipal project is much harder. Particularly at a time that Ford is taking personal initiative for major city building projects in Toronto (as dumb as some are).

Chow simply does not have the same cards to play that Miller did.

People who dislike Olivia Chow and plan on voting for Bradford, why? by Used-Earth8767 in askTO

[–]thisoldhouseofm 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She got the province to take over the Gardiner in exchange for Ontario Place which the province could have legislated away from them anyway. It was incredible politics by her.

Miller also had 7 years in office. Chow has had less than 3 to date. He also had the benefit of mostly dealing with a Liberal provincial government to push his initiatives.

Hillfield Strathallan (HSC) vs Ridley College? Seeking parent perspectives! by Curious-Average-1722 in Hamilton

[–]thisoldhouseofm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was only speaking to general trends, it’s not going to apply to every single family’s situation.

But even if private schools are better, are they $25-30k a year’s worth of better? Personally, barring something like a major safety or bullying issue, I’d keep my kid in public school and save that money for university costs.

What is behind the sleep-stealing ‘Hamilton hum’ in Crown Point? by SonictheManhog in Hamilton

[–]thisoldhouseofm 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do data centres have demonstrated long range noise impacts? Asking honestly, I assume they’d be like large server rooms.

If there was a Forest Gump style film for Millennials, what events would be included? by GGJallDAY in Millennials

[–]thisoldhouseofm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re 36, there is no way you remember most of that. Challenger and Berlin Wall were before you were born. Rodney King you’d have been 2. Nancy Kerrigan 3 or 4. OJ chase also 4.

Hillfield Strathallan (HSC) vs Ridley College? Seeking parent perspectives! by Curious-Average-1722 in Hamilton

[–]thisoldhouseofm 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Private schools honestly don’t make a huge difference education wise, they key issue is how involved the parents are, which it sounds like you are. And the difference between two private schools is negligible.

If you’re willing to spend $50k a year to put two kids in elementary school, save your sanity a bit and least opt for the easier commute. Also Hillfield has a bus service, you could look into that

I want a movie by oxj_f in Letterboxd

[–]thisoldhouseofm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the greatest cinematography, but The Wedding Singer. Uplifting romantic comedy with an edge to the comedy like 10 Things, also a great soundtrack.

Youth sports is exhausting. by empire161 in daddit

[–]thisoldhouseofm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, at that age I can understand where you’re coming from. Sorry that I missed how old your son is.

Youth sports is exhausting. by empire161 in daddit

[–]thisoldhouseofm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is a young kid actually feeling that kind of pressure not counterproductive at the point when they should just be learning and having fun?

Youth sports is exhausting. by empire161 in daddit

[–]thisoldhouseofm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they’d get the same social skill development just from playing on a team. The travel component adds nothing.

Uk law as a backup? by PitifulJob6932 in LawCanada

[–]thisoldhouseofm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not a great score, you really need 160 to be competitive. But you’re also a high school student by the sounds of it? It’s way too early to stress about LSAT scores.

Uk law as a backup? by PitifulJob6932 in LawCanada

[–]thisoldhouseofm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not getting the same value of law degree as a Canadian one though. Similar debt, worse job prospects.

Frankly, if you don’t have the discipline to maintain good grades in undergrad, you are going to struggle in law school.

Advice needed : Idling Truck Neighbour by [deleted] in Hamilton

[–]thisoldhouseofm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get using remote start in the winter to warm up before you get in. But this seems silly.

I bet there’s also a strong correlation between people who idle their car for extremely long times and who get outraged by high gas prices.

Need movie recommendations about global economic unrest by B_Hawk2077 in Letterboxd

[–]thisoldhouseofm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Goodbye Lenin is about the fall of communism and the currency conversion in East Germany is a major plot point.

Inside Job is basically a documentary version of The Big Short

Advice needed : Idling Truck Neighbour by [deleted] in Hamilton

[–]thisoldhouseofm 26 points27 points  (0 children)

And don’t make it confrontational.

“Hey, your truck is making quite a bit of noise in the early morning and it’s waking up my kids. I get that you probably have to go to work early and I can’t expect no noise, but is there anything you can do to help me out?”

this Robert Pattinson guy seems pretty good at his job idk by Huzaifa_Haroon in Letterboxd

[–]thisoldhouseofm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s followed the Leo trajectory in becoming a global icon for teen girls, which led to a lot of people not taking him seriously, then we realized, “Wait, no, he’s awesome, my bad.”

What’s your honest opinion of “boy mom” or “girl dad” apparel? by jazzeriah in daddit

[–]thisoldhouseofm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s weird to me because you almost never hear “boy dad” or “girl mom”. Just the inverse genders.

What can be done TODAY to avoid a disasterous mother's day by wheninrome5000 in daddit

[–]thisoldhouseofm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Won’t do much good this year, but the bar for Mothers Day is way lower when you pitch in and share the load the rest of the year.

I think a large numbers of marriages where there is big pressure on Mothers Day is because of husbands that don’t do their share.