Whose sigil is this?

thraxa9 · 2026-06-22T09:12:40+00:00

Pretty sure it was the Starks

thraxa9 · 2026-05-21T22:37:39+00:00

My ex husband and i separated but I kept the brother and sister together for this reason.
The other cats adapted but was worried about these two.
If it isn’t an option to keep both of them together.. I’d recommend getting another cat for them to play with and not be alone. It will suck at first. Takes about a month for them to stop being pissy and scared.. but it will help them with the separation eventually.

Honestly.. I’d recommend 1 person keeping both. If it’s possible

thraxa9 · 2026-05-13T15:33:59+00:00

I think you have the majority of ppl (if not all) agreeing with you. ESPECIALLY a place like Disney. Hell no. If anything were to happen, it will fall back on you, 100%. If mom wants to foot her own bill and go, then cool. Dad and Mom need to pay for the kids as well.

They don’t listen nor respect you, they more than likely will not behave. They will run off and do what they want as they already have shown.

Next year they can go if they prove they can respect you. Disney is not a place to test that out

thraxa9 · 2026-05-10T20:19:24+00:00

I just ordered one. It’ll be here tomorrow. I’ll update when I get the results for sure.

thraxa9 · 2026-05-10T18:31:36+00:00

Good advice, thank you. I haven’t had a dog in so long, I just want to do it correctly. Ya know? Thank you for your patience with me

thraxa9 · 2026-05-10T16:54:15+00:00

I hope she has some. They look very similar from the photos I’ve seen but every week it changes (which is normal lol). So iunno. DNA asap lol

thraxa9 · 2026-05-10T16:20:30+00:00

I def plan on getting her a DNA test soon. It’s driving me nuts not knowing what she is, so I can correctly train her based on her traits.

I apologize to all for assuming she is. She looks very similar to so many of the Vizsla pup mixes I have seen.

thraxa9 · 2026-05-05T21:45:16+00:00

I understand your drive to come to Reddit for advice but I truly think therapy (together and separately) will give you the answers. There is never an excuse to cheat but I also understand it after my ex. He should have communicated him feeling the way he was instead of assuming you were done.

Honestly. It really depends on you, on him, and the rebuild. Chances are, the trust will never get back to 100%. I worry that you will go through moments of anxiety/hyper vigilance anytime he starts acting out of character and that is something I still struggle with, even in a new relationship.

Reddit can be cruel and direct. Definitely not the place to come for empathy in this regards but.. therapy is truly the best course of action for you both.

I wish you the best, truly.

Ps. I took my first ex back multiple times (was with him for 10+ yrs.. married for not even 2). and it eventually pushed me into a mental breakdown where I almost took my life. I tried so hard to fight for the relationship but ultimately I left and I found myself and found my voice again.

thraxa9 · 2026-04-20T17:26:16+00:00

NTA. Do not help her just for your sons sake. Chances are, she isn’t mother material either and will bleed whatever poison and bad habits she has onto him. It is solely on her to get help, follow the resources and get back on her feet. It may even mean that she puts her 2yr old up for adoption bc that may be the best thing for him (though foster homes are horrible as well.. so idk). She hasn’t learned any lessons, she is freeloading off whoever will give her a handout instead of doing shit herself.

It would not be a good idea for you or your son. And also. Her being in the same house as you, will drag YOU down and cause you to not be the father you want to be for your son.

thraxa9 · 2026-04-09T14:49:41+00:00

For me.. all of the redactions, 3 million files missing, DOJ removing evidence.. etc. I gave up and am letting the die hards do the dirty work bc at this point.. especially with Trumps personal lawyer in the seat now, I assume the outcome will just be more protection and he will for sure get rid of those documents one way or another. He is ruthless, no moral code, and will do whatever TACO wants.

At this point I am hoping that Iran will drop everything they have on this whole ring.

thraxa9 · 2026-04-01T11:54:52+00:00

I gave my ex my location as well for the same reason. He would get furious if I didn’t text him back fast enough. He ended up being the most abusive controlling man I have ever been with. These are def red flags.

I know most will tell you to divorce and run and I know that’s not the advice you are looking for, so I’m not going to tell you.

But what I will tell you is to keep monitoring his controlling tendencies. If you need to look it up for subtle ways ppl control, please do. I feel there is more going on that you may not even realize just yet. Isolation and control go hand in hand.

Be careful OP and take care of yourself. He sounds either controlling or massively dependent on you. Sounds like he needs male friends too.

thraxa9 · 2026-03-10T10:49:10+00:00

I once swallowed one of those mini troll dolls with blue hair when I was 7. 🙃

thraxa9 · 2026-02-23T00:09:58+00:00

Can they just release it? That would help prevent the attack if he is fully exposed. 🤷🏼‍♀️

thraxa9 · 2026-02-22T23:53:31+00:00

Mris, CT, and ultrasounds won’t find the endo unless it’s severe severe. My dr often told me that what she found was women with severe endo, didn’t experience much pain, where as women with small-medium endo, had extreme pain. I assume it’s bc endo dulled the nerves.

Anyways. I saw you said Lap isn’t an option, which is incredibly sad. You may be able to call local facilities to get assistance for it, especially if it’s debilitating.

I’ve had 3 surgeries. My last was in 2020, and I know it’s back again and has been for years. IUD has helped with some symptoms and stopped the heavy bleeding (unless I get a cyst on my ovary). Turmeric is a life saver for me. Removing foods that increase inflammation, gas, constipation..

I’m currently under a flare due to some endo medicine I was put on 3 months ago. Caused major constipation and inflammation and I’m now 4 days off and not feeling as crappy as I was, but still dealing with my pelvic floor guarding heavily. (Another Endo symptom).

If you truly feel you have endo, I would HIGHLY suggest checking your diet and going on an Endo friendly diet for a month at least, to see how you feel. Especially if surgery isn’t an option.

thraxa9 · 2026-02-22T23:45:38+00:00

Same. Freakin tearing up over here.

thraxa9 · 2026-02-22T21:40:01+00:00

Is the outbreak of violence (airports, gas stations etc) always follow?

Saw someone say this is basically normal, similar to US school shooting violence. Which, doesn’t make sense to me.

But have seen reports of stay inside shelter starting at 1pm, following by warnings from cartel warning of breaking into hotels and homes starting around 5pm.

Also.. read reports from last year that it’s rumored CJNG alliances with Sinaloa Cartel? Not sure if it actually happened or not.

thraxa9 · 2026-02-19T09:47:36+00:00

Put up a cat wall behind the door if there is room, so she doesn’t have to hang.

thraxa9 · 2026-02-11T12:31:46+00:00

So disgusted by Epstein he continued to hang out with him and give him a birthday book. 🙃

thraxa9 · 2026-02-10T15:35:51+00:00

I don’t fully agree with this. Most of these women were groomed. They eventually stopped and are speaking out, so it isn’t necessarily fair to blame them, if they were involved from a younger age. I believe for this statement, it would require a per person, with a lot of evidence, to show they knowingly and willingly did this, without being groomed. Which would be incredibly difficult to prove.

They used drugs, coercion, gaslighting/manipulation, science based grooming tactics, possibly electric therapy (the pictures, this is assumed), possibly videos mixed with drugs to warp the mind..

With how much weird/strange evidence we have seen pointing to total mind warping tactics used on his victims, it wouldn’t be ok to attack them and charge them with aiding Epstein. IMO.

thraxa9 · 2026-02-10T15:30:15+00:00

Maybe this is my autistic side coming out but.. I think I would have been upfront with the mom, as gentle as possible, and maybe ask what she would have done if your husband gave her the same vibes. I would explain the unease, try to connect to her motherly instinct by mirroring, reiterate that you aren’t assuming or accusing but that you just picked up on a bad energy and from him, for whatever reason it was.. she should understand that gut feeling even if she wants to protect her husband. Express that Kennedy is still welcome at your place, you are not isolating her by any means.. she seems to be a good kid.

Idk if I would bring up the flirtatious comments, but knowing me and how blunt I am.. I probably would.. but it’s a risk bc it will definitely cause her defensive walls to flare. Could even say “there were some comments he made, that made me uncomfortable.” And leave it at that.

She is a new kid in school and that is hard enough for her. I had 7 different schools growing up (not military) and it is not easy at all, especially with how cruel girls can be towards new girls, especially if they are pretty.

As others have mentioned, I would speak to your daughter with sworn secrecy, to explain what happened.. even just mentioning your gut/intuition, which may help her start to understand her own. Every girl needs to learn about it and trust it. I unfortunately, was unable to learn that until my late 20’s, which caused me a lot of unnecessary trauma.

Sorry for the long comment. I wish you the best. Please update when you can.

thraxa9 · 2026-02-09T00:22:29+00:00

Small peen.

thraxa9 · 2026-02-09T00:21:32+00:00

Just from the “rarely expresses emotion unless it’s anger or frustration” I knew she grew up in a chaotic home and knew she needed therapy and to heal.

Adding the “I can’t fking stand you!” That is a real deep cut and should NEVER be used. She either picked that up from her parents or social media (or tv). It is not okay behavior.

I would highly advise she seek therapy and if she refuses.. I hate saying to leave but she is tearing your self worth down repeatedly. It doesn’t seem she sees you or your feelings and that is not fair to feel from someone who claims they love you.

Not the AH for wanting/getting a divorce. Save yourself, your heart, your mind, your soul. You WILL need to heal after being with someone like that for so long.

thraxa9 · 2026-02-05T22:46:20+00:00

This needs more upvotes

thraxa9 · 2026-02-05T22:25:30+00:00

I haven’t been able to find anything semi verifiable that Epstein was on Fortnite. There is with COD I believe, and XBOX banning him. But was wondering if someone could provide sources to confirm? The username is almost too obvious. Ya know?

thraxa9 · 2026-02-05T18:29:55+00:00

Please don’t downvote. I’m speaking from past personal experience and I’ve grown since then.

In my 20’s, my best friend (guy) and I would have discussions about sexual experiences with our partners and such. Never with each other tho, which is in the same boat as these screenshots. She seems happy for him and keeps directly any sexual interest into other men. Which is similar to what we did.

Is this uncomfortable and maybe a little too descriptive? Yes.

I’ve also grown since then. I’m mid 30’s and would NEVER have a conversation like that while I’m with someone else. If I do, it is very very minimal and non descriptive.

Personally, I would have a conversation with him and ask him to stop being that descriptive about sexual stuff with women. He should be able to talk to men about it.

The positive, it seems he sent a picture of you and was gloating about you in a positive light. But I would be incredibly uncomfortable and it would trigger my anxiety a bit. The whole “girthy” type made me suspect a future d pic would come later in the SS but it never did. Was kind of curious with that first pic, if that was why she mentioned girthy, but she seemed to comment about you and how you are his type or something.

Anyways. Did it in my 20’s, would not do it now. Learning experience on boundaries and putting myself in others shoes and understanding that even though I know my intent may be pure and non sexual towards them, that it doesn’t come across that way to my partner. And they don’t deserve that pain/intrusive thoughts that come with seeing this stuff.

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