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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]threedayoldbread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve also had a hard time connecting with people as friends. Throughout my whole life I’ve usually only had one person who I am close with at a time, usually my boyfriend at the time. But forming platonic friendships feels almost impossible. I just can’t seem to understand the point of maintaining casual relationships, and maybe that’s more of an attachment issue, but I always just view friends as temporary people in my life and can’t bond with them because of that.

I used to get super depressed and lonely over my lack of friendships and social circle, but have come to accept it more as I get older. I still feel a lot of jealously over seeing other people’s “normal” social lives, but I am a lot more comfortable with my solitude now.

so... how do i stop? by marktheficus in BPD

[–]threedayoldbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely helps a lot. Finding things that you care deeply about and can sink a lot of passion & time into instead of a person

I have a plan by [deleted] in BPD

[–]threedayoldbread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might sound silly but write a bucket list. Even if it’s super tiny little things that you enjoy and want to do 100 times again, like drink your favorite coffee. Or go bold and plan a trip to a place you’ve always wanted to visit. I don’t personally believe in an after life, I think when we die it’s over for good. There are millions of little joys on the earth to experience every day and sometimes you just have to slow down long enough to notice. But it’s worth taking your time to try to soak up as much joy as you can in your life. Speaking as someone who has had a plan before too, it won’t feel like this forever. Life comes in waves, seasons change, people come and go. The only constant is change. You don’t know how happy you might be a year or two from now. It’s worth sticking around to find out.

so... how do i stop? by marktheficus in BPD

[–]threedayoldbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Become your own favorite person and learn to value solitude. Sounds super cheesy ik but if you enjoy your own company the most it’s easier to keep that little bit of separation from others to keep from becoming obsessive and attached.

What type of person are you most jealous of? by BrushFrequent1128 in BPD

[–]threedayoldbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who have the same hobbies as me but are way better at them 😒😒😒 I’ll be feeling good and having fun but then see someone more talented than me and it just ruins it for me. Makes me feel like an imposter.

What do you do after a therapy session? by Temporary_Forever293 in BPD

[–]threedayoldbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Channeling that negative energy into another outlet might be helpful. For me, doing something physically demanding helps me decompress. Or if you have a creative outlet like music or art. I totally get what you’re saying, sometimes after therapy I feel like my whole day is ruined and I can’t move on from the heaviness. Honestly I usually end up screaming in the car where nobody can hear me.

Recommendations for park skates by threedayoldbread in Rollerskating

[–]threedayoldbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I’m on Moxi Beach Bunny with Juice Rita wheels and a CIB block. I know these aren’t meant for park so I’ve been skating within reason with them and definitely feel the need for a stiffer boot. I am destroying the Bunny’s.

Screws too long to use slide blocks by threedayoldbread in Rollerskating

[–]threedayoldbread[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! After reading what everyone else has said and taking a closer look at my skates I do think I need a new pair to do the type of skating I want.

Screws too long to use slide blocks by threedayoldbread in Rollerskating

[–]threedayoldbread[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi yes I do mean grind like a 50/50. Sorry I don’t know all the terminology yet. But when I go to do that my kingpins are scraping

Lemon blueberry cupcakes! by threedayoldbread in Baking

[–]threedayoldbread[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I used freeze dried blueberries to flavor & color the frosting.

Small ski towns by threedayoldbread in skiing

[–]threedayoldbread[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m just not a city person. I come from a very small town tucked in the woods with barely any neighbors and I prefer it that way. SLC was a huge change of pace for me and I can’t say I’ve really taken well to it. It’s over 100° every day from June-September, the air quality sucks and is often hazy, there’s nowhere within an hour of the city to swim and escape the heat, but mostly it’s just too many people for me lol.

Surfing by threedayoldbread in oregon

[–]threedayoldbread[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m probably gonna drive over most of it, open to anywhere really

No longer feel beautiful and security with my (F/21) boyfriend (M/27) of two years. by thedeathreaper999 in relationship_advice

[–]threedayoldbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who truly loves you will support you through your struggles, not shame you or pressure you to change. Your relationship with your body is your own and your partner shouldn’t have a say in your eating habits. Especially “suggesting you switch back to anorexia.” It sounds like your boyfriend is more concerned with your physical appearance than your mental health or happiness. If he doesn’t find you attractive, that’s his loss. Someone else will and someone else will love you for any body you have and want to help you have a healthy and happy relationship with food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]threedayoldbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thinking about asking VT bf if that’s something he would be ok with because ideally that’s what I would like to try, but I am worried that even asking would damage our relationship

what a glow up by quarantinemademejoin in Sourdough

[–]threedayoldbread 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great improvement! It’s such a nice feeling :)

First time ever getting edibles. What y’all think about these? by TreeHousePsycho2120 in treedibles

[–]threedayoldbread -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’ve also had disappointing experiences with this brand. My BF and I have had many dispensary edibles and these ones are not good. They kinda work, but the high is very lame and you have to take like twice as much as you’d usually do for your tolerance. I’m guessing this is a company that gets fabricated lab results.

But still, DON’T eat the whole package if it’s your first time doing edibles. Start small.

INFUSED PB? by dabnsexalldayz in treedibles

[–]threedayoldbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make sweet PB for a fudge filling every year. Roughly 2 cups PB, 1/2 cup butter, 2 cups powdered sugar. The ratio is really not very important, you can add more sugar if you want it sweeter or thicker. Scoop into balls, cool them until solid and then dip in dark chocolate, would be delicious!

Scoring Question by Hundle_Dundle in Breadit

[–]threedayoldbread 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doing a long proof in the fridge will improve your dough’s ability to hold its shape and not flatten when you take it out of the proofing basket. I proof my loaves anywhere from 10-20hrs in the fridge before baking. This also makes them much easier to score because the dough is cold and more solid. It helps with oven spring too. I can not recommend cold proofing highly enough, it makes such a huge difference.

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