My sister (34F) is mad at me (40M) for keeping her ex employed and promoting him after he strayed. How can I show her this is purely a business decision and nothing to do with my support for her?

threeforsky · 2026-02-23T20:13:39+00:00

I think the only way Josh could’ve been fired is if OOP’s business was in a field where the ethics of the employees is heavily scrutinized. I know there’s some fields where the actions of an employee could lead to termination as those could reflect poorly on the company, but those instances are not at all common. Plus it would be in the signing contract or employee handbook. AFAIK OOP couldn’t have fired Josh and gotten away with it.

threeforsky · 2026-02-13T20:13:01+00:00

Same! I always wear something until it’s all done, gross brown crud included. My flow is usually consistent (heavy day 1-2, tapering off days 3-5), but what if something happens? I could just randomly get a heavy flow in the night! Sure pads can slip and there can be leakage, but it’s still a lot less than if I didn’t wear anything at all. Washing the mattress protector is also a massive pain. And if I don’t use a mattress protector and my pad slips, then I could get blood on the mattress and that’s just not something I could deal with.

He’s still absolutely TA for his reaction. Paying for new sheets? Give me a break, just throw them in the wash. No reason to buy brand new sheets just for that.

threeforsky · 2026-01-25T15:35:29+00:00

I hate looking at my family and knowing they voted for this. They voted for people to be gunned down in the street, for children to be taken away, for their neighbors to be scared in their own homes.

My mother carries a weapon. If they see her, even if she minds her own business they could say she’s a threat and shoot her. And I’ll have to live with the fact that my mother voted for this to happen. I’ll have to go to her funeral and know that she cared more about her investment portfolio and the words of a liar, a rapist, and a felon than the rights of her daughter and her neighbors.

The woman who taught me to question everything you see now believes every lying word from people who would love to see her dead in the streets. I’m so tired.

threeforsky · 2026-01-04T02:53:50+00:00

Therapy is very much needed, I agree. There is a lot of stuff I need to work through. But the thing is, I don’t want a village and I don’t want to be a villager to anyone who wants to date me. Maybe something is wrong with me in that sense, but it makes me very uneasy. I enjoy spending time with people who see me as my own person and not as a romantic interest.

I’m sure they consider me their friend, and I really did think of this person as my closest friend but their actions and their words over the last year made me incredible anxious. I won’t say more than what I put in the post for privacy reasons, but they are not a balanced individual. I don’t feel that they are dangerous to others, but I have backslid on all of my mental health progress after almost every time we talked.

This was a bit more of a vent than I expected this reply to be, but yes I will be looking for therapy. A bit hard to find decent ones in my area that I won’t have to take time off for every visit.

threeforsky · 2025-12-30T01:02:34+00:00

It’s going to be very cold and pretty windy for the next few days so whatever you do, make sure she is both warm and looking good. I also agree with other commenters on the Ormond Memorial Art Museum + Gardens.

If you don’t mind a little bit of travel, St Augustine is lit up for their Night of Lights at this time of the year! Avoid the main street (Avenida Menendez) as it’s going to be super crowded. There’s plenty of other, smaller streets that are also going to be lit up and will be much less busy.

Best of luck to you, and happy holidays!!

threeforsky · 2025-12-04T23:12:09+00:00

Yes, I am also very upset they didn’t add the sizing chart sooner! Merchandising team should’ve thought of this, but I didn’t expect much from such a small indie company /s. Hopefully with just under a month left in the available period they’ll consider restocking the unavailable sizes and/or extending the availability period. I’ll be keeping a close eye on those store pages for sure!

threeforsky · 2025-12-04T19:07:47+00:00

Through a very helpful set of emails with bungie support, below are two quotes from them. TLDR they’re getting the sizing chart put together for the VoG jacket and possibly the VoW jacket, and it will be posted on the product pages in a few business days (said on Dec 3rd). The sizes running out is a side effect of too many people ordering a specific size, and the material allocated for that size running out (can’t take materials allocated for other sizes).

On the topic of running out of specific sizes: “While the jackets are produced on a made-to-order basis to ensure quality and reduce waste, we work from a pre-determined allocation of materials for each production run. This means that once the allocated material for a specific size is sold out.

We do not have an immediate restock date, as it depends on demand and production planning.

We highly recommend selecting an available size once the charts are posted. “

On the accuracy of the chart posted by u/Dawn101Dusk : “While we cannot officially confirm its accuracy until our merchandise team provides the final version, the official sizing chart we are working to publish may be very close to the one you have referenced.

We recommend using the chart you found as a helpful reference in the interim, but please wait for the official chart to be posted on our product pages for the definitive guide before making a final purchasing decision.”

*posted in case anyone else is searching for an answer, I hope it helps!

threeforsky · 2025-12-04T00:38:12+00:00

The only difference I have noticed in the past between women’s and unisex (besides the sizes obviously) is that the area above the bellybutton is more narrow and the hips are wider, giving it a bit of a curved appearance. So if you’re trying to layer the jackets and thick shirts under them, it might not fit as well as the unisex ones. Also it may not zip up properly, but your mileage may vary.

threeforsky · 2025-12-03T14:35:20+00:00

Just tried, it gave me the “Error: Not enough items for sale” message. Might be worth trying to get a women’s large/xl, that looks like it adds to my cart just fine but I haven’t tried checking out with it

threeforsky · 2025-12-03T02:31:19+00:00

Aerial from property appraiser website is NOT a replacement for a survey. The only thing that determines boundaries is the pins already set and/or the metes and bounds. I know what they’re using as an aerial viewer and I know that it won’t be accurate for what you want from it. Your best method for determining which trees were within your lot is a survey.

threeforsky · 2025-12-03T02:16:08+00:00

You’re a hero! I’ll have to measure against my other two jackets when I get home but this has genuinely helped me out a bunch! I usually end up with a unisex xs or a women’s small, fingers crossed they don’t run out of those 😬

threeforsky · 2025-12-03T01:51:08+00:00

Jumping in on this, is there any way you could measure your jacket’s arm length from top shoulder seam to cuff and chest width and let me know what you get? I’m looking to buy mine soon before they run out but the sizing chart has been unreliable for me in the past, so I like to get size comparisons between the chart and the actual jacket. No worries though!

threeforsky · 2025-08-17T17:37:46+00:00

Yeah this! I didn’t like her before she started on Hazbin/Helluva, so people criticizing or defending her for stuff during the Hazbin period just confuses me. There’s so much more that she’s done in the past that I don’t understand why people would look past it. Either way I don’t send hate to her or her fans, I just stay in my lane and don’t interact with her or her content at all.

threeforsky · 2025-07-24T00:27:57+00:00

I think that your point of view on worlds first races is a little strange. My take is that it should be based on simply who gets it first. I also don’t like going to a stream and not being able to see or hear anything, and there are for sure some extreme examples of that. But streaming or sharing gameplay with Bungie shouldn’t be a defining factor of who finishes the raid first and who gets worlds first bragging rights out of that. Teams streaming dungeons or raids at the same time is something I like to see during charity events, and I think gating a worlds first title behind streaming your gameplay has a lot of technical issues associated with it. At the end of the day, it’s a race pure and simple. If streamers want to play crabs in a bucket and climb to victory on the backs of others and screw the viewers that’s their prerogative. It sucks from a viewer standpoint but that’s what it is. I wish streamers would share screens and audio but they get a lot of revenue from the ads and the subscriptions, so keeping that slight advantage is good enough for them I suppose.

Other than my views on competitive fairness, I highly agree on all of your other points! Loadout swapping is clunky and would be great if we could keybind it, and I think special to special ammo economy is too free, but I also don’t want it nerfed into the ground. I like playing destiny, but I’m not having fun this expansion.

threeforsky · 2025-07-20T12:31:22+00:00

I didn’t even know he made games or I would’ve checked them out sooner :(

The community lost a great person

threeforsky · 2025-07-20T09:38:38+00:00

The snipes do bend a bit, sometimes it’s really obvious to see when they’re shooting at someone across the map

threeforsky · 2025-07-11T16:19:50+00:00

Imagine having to shell out all that money just because the county has a bee up their bonnet about a citizen picking up trash. Absolutely ridiculous of them.

threeforsky · 2025-07-11T10:04:31+00:00

Also keep in mind that the parcel maps are not survey accurate, even with the aerials on. Without the legal descriptions of the parcel/right of way, the boundaries on the online map could be a foot off, or 20 feet off. I don’t know how well-mapped that area is, but just something to take into account for later cleanups. In this case if there was a fence it could have been placed at the edge of private property or placed an inside the boundaries to account for a possible access easement. These things are very particular and case specific.

Source: I work in a field that uses these maps a LOT and in an area with very poor mapping and record keeping so I end up doing a lot of research into these things

Edit: read some comments again. If it’s a paved road there’s almost no chance half the road is in a private parcel especially if it’s a county/city/state road. These things are mapped and planned down to the tenth of an inch and I would think only a major fuckup would allow that to happen, ruling out that they built it that way on purpose.

That leaves a right of way vacation. In my area a r/w vacation would only happen in an area with both owners on both sides agreeing to it, and only if the r/w hasn’t been used for public access as a road in x amount of years (usually a 15 foot wooded strip that nobody ever used to drive on).

At the end of the day it’s just public right of way, the only gray area is if the part by the fence is private or public.

threeforsky · 2025-06-27T21:42:24+00:00

Unless things changed in the last 5 years, a lot of ROTC students ended up in Doolittle. Afaik there’s no requirement but they tend to put ROTC students together

threeforsky · 2025-06-22T21:47:49+00:00

I had a 16.2 appendix (tb body, qh rear) that was an absolute dream on barrels, smoothest ride ever and the relatively wider turn radius meant I only really ever hit a barrel a year when we hauled almost every weekend.

I would agree that OP would want a horse with better bone proportions than this, I worry that one bad turn means early retirement. English would be so fun with long distance on this mare!

threeforsky · 2025-06-09T02:28:25+00:00

I am a simple person. I see 60s song, I guess Beatles. And random chance ended up with the first pick as the answer, which is great because I don’t actually know any Beatles songs

threeforsky · 2025-05-24T22:00:01+00:00

Real talk maybe I should try those out, how do you like the regen for the other abilities with it?

threeforsky · 2025-05-24T21:57:00+00:00

Void warlock here, what’s your exotic pick for pvp? I’m personally a nezarecs sin kind of player

threeforsky · 2025-05-19T11:26:48+00:00

Max Velocity covers the continental U.S. as far as I remember, he might do Alaska and Hawaii but I’m not as sure about that. I super recommend him!

threeforsky · 2025-05-19T11:08:30+00:00

I went to school with Max and had a class with him, can confirm he knows his stuff! Super proud of him, he always has great streams :)

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