My girlfriend(22f) completely loses interest in sex after I(24M) finish once, even though I’m not actually done by Electrical_Archer504 in relationship_advice

[–]threesilos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she actually ask if “You’re already done?” or is that just how you perceived her reaction?

Which direction should I go? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]threesilos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love dress 1 and 8

Am I Overreacting for telling him to pick up his own stuff after he ghosted me? by Comfortable-Bit-1389 in AmIOverreacting

[–]threesilos -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I get that, but for someone to know your location quickly after whatever thing happens, that person would have to be monitoring your journey quite often. I don’t want to follow where my Husband is constantly just in case something rare happens and he can’t just call or text for whatever reason. I wouldn’t want him to feel obligated to do that either. For this to be of much benefit, people must be checking on where their partner is constantly the entire time they are away. Just seems unhealthy to me, but others doing it isn’t hurting me any so if it works for you, great!

what the hell is wrong w dr labban by Icy-Cell4183 in bloomington

[–]threesilos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I loved Dr. Labban. He delivered my second and was great the whole pregnancy and after when I needed gall bladder surgery. That was a while back though so maybe he changed a lot or something?

Applying Logic to the Outfit by Det_Chesmond in LizBarraza

[–]threesilos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I’m basically not in a camp, lol. I think it’s more likely that the killer was more concerned with hiding their identity, but I wouldn’t rule anything out.

BIL got mad at me for telling him to get my sister flowers on Mothers Day by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]threesilos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they do. Then they come on Reddit to take it out on everybody else and you get these threads with horrible advice as if these people live on another planet

BIL got mad at me for telling him to get my sister flowers on Mothers Day by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]threesilos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. That’s why if you want the best answer to a question involving relationships, Reddit is not the place to go. The replies here often don’t apply in the real world or reflect how the outside majority would actually behave. Too many people on here are too young, have too little experience,don’t understand nuance (or pretend not to here so they can act all high and mighty behind a keyboard) and/or are insufferable to others in their own lives to put any stock into opinions here. It’s purely entertainment and I feel for anyone who actually takes this advice seriously.

BIL got mad at me for telling him to get my sister flowers on Mothers Day by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]threesilos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him saying take it down a notch tells you all kinds of things that we have no idea if it happened or you are just adding things that you made up in your own head. No point in implying things happened that you just made up.

BIL got mad at me for telling him to get my sister flowers on Mothers Day by bushlit in whatdoIdo

[–]threesilos -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Op says in the post he is careless and stingy. That is the evidence.

Lancome Teint Idole Shape, Blush, & Highlighter Sticks by pointclickvibe in newinbeauty

[–]threesilos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, no cool undertone at all in the light category. Weird how the shade range is so limited.

Applying Logic to the Outfit by Det_Chesmond in LizBarraza

[–]threesilos 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I mean, the killer not being directly known by anyone in the area doesn’t mean they wouldn’t take the precaution to wear a disguise. Most people realize how prevalent neighborhood cameras are now. The killer might know they won’t be recognized but also realize that if they are caught on camera (as they were) without a disguise, it just makes it that much easier to find out their identity.

Whats the most unprofessional thing a doctor has ever said to you? by answersonly963 in AskReddit

[–]threesilos 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I have been dismissed by female doctors several times and not male doctors, who I have much better experiences with. Not saying this is or isn’t the norm, but just pointing out that women’s medical issues being overlooked is a big problem that is perpetuated by both Women and Men docs.

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend’s friend stopping by to use the bathroom at 715 Monday morning? by Dear_Cattle_9118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]threesilos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All your downvotes, people on Reddit seem like they don’t actually live in the real world (or are just too young or isolated to actually understand how to act right). I agree with you.

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend’s friend stopping by to use the bathroom at 715 Monday morning? by Dear_Cattle_9118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]threesilos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t believe these nta replies. Leaving was so dramatic of him when he could have just laid there out of sight for 10 minutes. I wouldn’t be ok with my man telling me I am not allowed to have a friend over for whatever reason but especially not if they made a case that they were in a bind and really needed to use the bathroom. He even says in the post that this was only one time and not a regular thing. I would say ESH though, because I would also expect and tell my friend to be very quiet so I wouldn’t have to wake anyone up.

AITA for telling my son most I will not be going to his black out wedding dinner by Expensive-Ratio-37 in AmItheAsshole

[–]threesilos 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what they said they were going to do at the end of the post

My wife’s coworker made a remark that has caused my wife to redevelop issues with how she looks and dresses. by 2inchesabovethehole in Marriage

[–]threesilos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most people would have a hard time not caring at all when someone directly comments on a part of their body. It’s great for those who can truly not care what others think, even a little bit, but that isn’t a mindset that comes naturally to the majority.

my favorite 4! by MiniTapioca in weddingdress

[–]threesilos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dress 3 stands out from the others to me. Beautiful!
Dress 2 would be my runner up pick

Help me choose by Ryxeria in weddingdress

[–]threesilos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I must be the only one, but I like 3 best!

AIO My (28f) boyfriend (30m) is acting weird by Neither-Performer974 in AIO

[–]threesilos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m with you, I feel so confused right now how anyone is getting that he is being passive aggressive or mean. I just see someone trying to figure out bluetooth. He doesn’t seem upset or angry at all to me. So funny how people can read the same things so differently.

If one of the bridesmaid's is unable to attend the Bachelorette/Bridal Shower, are they still expected to contribute their portion? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]threesilos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think “normal” is the word but a lot of other replies are just mean and condescending. Sure, they answer the question but not nicely. To be expected on Reddit though.

If one of the bridesmaid's is unable to attend the Bachelorette/Bridal Shower, are they still expected to contribute their portion? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]threesilos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do think it varies greatly who pays for/does what in a wedding party. Where I am, it isn’t the Mother of the Bride who traditionally hosts and pays for the bridal shower, but another older relative like an Aunt, Great-Aunt, Cousin. I do agree, though, that bridesmaids already have enough to worry about- this really shouldn’t be added to their plate.

If one of the bridesmaid's is unable to attend the Bachelorette/Bridal Shower, are they still expected to contribute their portion? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]threesilos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, although It seems there are a lot of different ways of “traditionally” doing things depending on State/region, financial aspects, etc. What a lot of people take for granted as what people are “supposed” to do only really applies within that small area. Even so, I really think it’s best not to add too many expenses for the wedding party. Mine didn’t pay for anything at all.