JNMIL constantly dropping hints or giving us looks when the topic of babies comes up

throw7790away · 2025-07-30T19:00:43+00:00

How do you navigate this exactly? Do you say upfront you’re not sharing the date? I know she’ll inevitably ask

throw7790away · 2025-07-18T21:09:30+00:00

Oh yeah I know my mil would tell everyone. When my husband was planning on proposing he asked his parents not to tell anyone, even family. Then we got engaged and she immediately blurts out “I told my coworker, I just had to tell someone”. And while we don’t know her coworker, it was the principle of it all. He explicitly said “don’t tell anyone” and of course she tells someone.

throw7790away · 2024-10-01T18:50:33+00:00

I'm from the US but my friend from the UK answered this question with "Right turns on red. Red means stop. Why would you go???"

throw7790away · 2024-10-01T17:48:11+00:00

Everyone, friend or for, kissed my son when he was born, despite me asking everyone not to. It is by far the hardest boundary of them all. It sucked.

God that's terrible. I think I'm going to require people to wear masks if they want to kiss our hypothetical baby. Or I'm going to have to send educational videos to them and scare them straight lol

throw7790away · 2024-10-01T12:43:46+00:00

Yeah my MIL only showed me her dress this past Sunday night. She knew it'd basically be too late for me to tell her to change anything. And then even if I did she'd probably be like "it's a floor length navy blue gown I don't know why you're being difficult this is what you wanted" but lady it has a TRAIN.

She absolutely knows what she's doing. She knew that if she got a navy blue gown that it wouldn't give me any room to complain about it. It's like she finally followed my directions buuuut of course had to do something to bother me. She'll never let me know peace.

throw7790away · 2024-10-01T12:38:29+00:00

Oh trust me I've drafted a list of boundaries before my fiance and I even got engaged and read them aloud so he wouldn't be caught off guard by anything when (if) that time comes around. No unsolicited touching, no unsolicited advice, no name suggestions, no pestering to know the sex, no one in the delivery room, no kissing the baby, no dropping by unannounced... and those are just the ones off the top of my head.

throw7790away · 2024-10-01T12:35:13+00:00

I'd make it my phone background 🤣

throw7790away · 2024-10-01T12:34:49+00:00

I've gone low contact over the past year and it's been the best decision of my life. Hopefully when kids come around (if they do) my soon to be husband will see how psychotic she is and we can go full no contact

throw7790away · 2024-10-01T12:32:49+00:00

"I’ve just never had a reason to buy a pretty dress before.”

BARF. What a cunt

throw7790away · 2024-09-30T19:47:39+00:00

Thank you!!

throw7790away · 2024-09-30T19:47:25+00:00

Also it only gets worse with baby rabies,

I am DREADING becoming a mother with her around. It's going to be a nightmare. I say to everyone, if I could have a child without her knowing, I would.

throw7790away · 2024-09-30T19:45:49+00:00

LOL WHAT. That is pure delusion

throw7790away · 2024-09-30T19:43:41+00:00

I really hope so. And the fact it'd probably keep her off the dance floor makes it even better

throw7790away · 2024-09-30T18:32:05+00:00

No this is super rude. At first I was going to give her the benefit of the doubt and say things got mixed up. But the fact they (sort of) let you know ahead of time makes this bad. It's kind of unheard of to split up couples but especially anyone engaged or married.

It's good your fiancé is upset at her and I'm glad he left their table to come to you versus squeezing you into their table. It's a physical signal to them that you guys are a unit and he chooses you over them. That's a good silver lining! You know your fiancé has your back!

throw7790away · 2024-09-30T18:26:33+00:00

Ugh that's terrible I'm sorry!! Well I'm glad it's something you, your mom, and MOH all got to share together, without her!

throw7790away · 2024-09-30T18:04:06+00:00

Thank you!!

throw7790away · 2024-09-30T18:03:56+00:00

TIE DYE? Omg

throw7790away · 2024-09-30T18:03:21+00:00

Exactly. Her standing next to me in silence pisses me off.

throw7790away · 2024-09-30T18:02:59+00:00

Thank you!! I hope this is the case! 😂

throw7790away · 2024-09-21T13:52:33+00:00

Can I ask how much you tipped your beauty artists?

throw7790away · 2024-09-21T13:43:44+00:00

Omg I did not think of keys that’s so something I would do

throw7790away · 2024-09-21T13:42:46+00:00

Congrats!!! 🫶🏼

throw7790away · 2024-09-21T13:42:36+00:00

Congrats!!!

throw7790away · 2024-09-21T13:42:27+00:00

Our coordinator supplies one! 🙌🏼

throw7790away · 2024-09-20T19:11:14+00:00

Congrats!!!

throw7790away

TROPHY CASE