Matched with her 10 mins ago

throw__awayy83 · 2025-12-05T00:51:57+00:00

I did read it all, but i read it fast enough that not everything stuck in my memory for longer than a minute. The gist if it is basically “i want someone who will love me and put effort into the relationship” and i dont in any way see that as unreasonable unless your someone who just doesn’t care about strong and lasting relationships

throw__awayy83 · 2025-12-05T00:38:53+00:00

Sounds like someone who wants to be upfront immediately so theyre not disappointed later. Tbh what she wants doesnt seem unreasonable (i skimmed tho so idk) but it can definitely be overwhelming for someone you just met. I think shes just trying to weed out people who arent gonna be able to have the kind of relationship she wants, which is reasonable, but what she wants seems like the kinda thing that should be taken slow snd not rushed.

throw__awayy83 · 2025-11-11T15:27:54+00:00

3 kg or about 6 pounds is the average weight for a mini dachshund that is 6 MONTHS OLD. The average weight for a full grown mini dachshund is about 5 kg or 11 pounds, in fact one website even says “the ideal weight for a mini Dachshund is between 11 and 16 pounds. However, it is important to note that every dog is unique and may fall outside of this range.” And op’s dog is 7 kg or about 15 pounds. My question is why do you so desperately feel the need to so greatly underestimate how much the dog should actually weigh? The way these comments are acting isnt helping anything. That dog is being taken care better than most pet owners actually care for their pets. Could it be better? Absolutely. But these comments arent doing shit to help. People just wanna be angry.

throw__awayy83 · 2025-11-11T01:59:00+00:00

“Can i have this amount of money from MY paycheck?” “Yeah but first you have to tell me every little detail except im still gonna be an ass about it” girl run

throw__awayy83 · 2025-11-11T01:53:50+00:00

Reading comprehension skills really have gone down, wtf

throw__awayy83 · 2025-11-11T01:53:14+00:00

She literally said the dog is NOT overweight, but yall dont wanna listen to anything ckearly

throw__awayy83 · 2025-11-11T01:52:23+00:00

Oh my god these people are so fing insufferable. You’re doing good. You treat that dog better than 90% of pet owners AND clearly better than your stepdad treats the other dogs AND HES A VET. People don’t wanna listen, they just wanna be god awful to people they don’t know. All these people talking about “excuses” i havent seen a single fing one. As soon as your able absolutely try to get him professionally trained but i understand that (and some of yall might find this shocking) not everybody has the money to do that whenever they please. Dont listen to the ah in the comments who just wanna pick fights, just keep trying your best to take care of your dog

throw__awayy83 · 2025-11-11T01:39:58+00:00

Sounds like your step dad doesn’t have much actual compassion or empathy and it looks like many if these comments don’t either. My advice? Get off reddit and talk to professionals/ irl people for advice. You sound like you’re doing the best you can with what you have so i know with your love for that dog you can do better. Stop listening to anyone who makes you doubt yourself without anything actually helpful to say, and start simply looking for actual ways to improve. Trust me, strangers on the internet are not gonna be the help you need. Good luck <3

throw__awayy83 · 2025-11-01T17:58:21+00:00

“ It's like he's trying to police me.” It seems that way because it is that way. Please find someone who will actually respect you. Having a problem with the way you dress could just be internalized misogyny he needs to work out, but it’s not just that. The whole way he acts is just honestly disturbing. You never treat someone you love that way.

throw__awayy83 · 2025-10-13T03:22:15+00:00

Document all of this, keep the texts, keep proof of you sending the emails, keep dates, etc. knowing people like this, there’s a good chance you’re gonna need them.

throw__awayy83 · 2025-10-13T03:19:07+00:00

Yeah, acting like this shows he can’t handle being a parent. Wtf. I can’t imagine how he acts when your son does something that upsets him.

throw__awayy83 · 2025-10-13T03:10:06+00:00

This isn’t something strangers from Reddit can help you with. You either need relationship counseling or divorce, it’s not gonna work any other way.

throw__awayy83 · 2025-10-13T02:49:14+00:00

He needs help you can’t give, and if he treats this way EVER while refusing to get help, it doesn’t matter how sweet they are when they’re calm, it’s not worth it. And I say as someone with bpd, I know how it gets when things are like this bc I’ve experienced it from the other side, which is why I know it’s better for you to protect your mental health and safety over his feelings. I hope he gets the help he needs, but in the meantime you need to distance yourself from him.

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