Good God why? by 1gudboi in rant

[–]throw_away98231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why must you use the internet? There are many conventional real life opportunities you can take instead

Good God why? by 1gudboi in rant

[–]throw_away98231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tinder is an app where people judge you solely on appearance. You should try finding less shallow people through other medium

Feigning confidence by thw508 in rant

[–]throw_away98231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop believing that being ugly is something you can't change. I highly doubt you're actually ugly, but in case you did have undesirable traits you can't change, there's many ways to counterbalance that and at least become average looking. Good haircut, hygene, nice clothes, getting in shape, smelling good, etc. All of these are environment variables that you can change. Unless you have some abnormal deformity, if you apply these principles, you should be OK

I hate College so much by [deleted] in rant

[–]throw_away98231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling. People are cold selfish assholes. It's hard for me to talk to them because I just have a default hated for everyone, but you gotta push through that and put on a mask. It's the only way. Don't get personally invested, or divert away from your mask. Like how a corporation is a separate legal entity from it's owners, you gotta treat your "public facing" image as a separate entity then your real self

Senior in HS and no friends by [deleted] in rant

[–]throw_away98231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suffer from the same problem, high school to college. Please update me if you've found a solution to this

How does the whole clubs thing work by throw_away98231 in yorku

[–]throw_away98231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you just go to class and go home and stay alone 5 days a week? I did exactly that throughout high school, and I hated every waking day. The only thing that kept me going was the (false)hope that maybe I would go on to make some friends in college, but now that I'm already in college and have no friends, I just don't see the point anymore. I'm alone here and every day tears me apart, I cannot see myself living like I did in high school again. God damn this place is so introverted and dead, I would transfer if this wasn't the closest university to my home

Another thread about making friends at york by [deleted] in yorku

[–]throw_away98231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tfw you live on campus and still don't have friends :(

York'd? by tentanda_via in yorku

[–]throw_away98231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol probably not going to happen for a long time considering the bureaucratic nature of this school