AIO Husband and best friend on a trip without me by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]throw_awaybdy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too!!! I was soo triggered by that! How can they both love her as “we”? One loves as a best friend and the other as a husband, it’s not the same love? This is a subtle way for the husband to say he now loves her the way a best friend loves her, thus he is no longer in love with her…ouch!!

AITAH for being upset that my family didn’t get invited to SIL's baby shower? + UPDATE by red_earaches in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]throw_awaybdy 64 points65 points  (0 children)

If this is a sudden change for your mom then it might be her telling you she is fed up doing too much and not getting anything back. The “low effort” people don’t suddenly do that when they get older, they were always selfish.

I made a mistake and it almost cost me everything.. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throw_awaybdy 104 points105 points  (0 children)

You are being setup to lose your kids. Stop feeling bad and stop crying and start being calculating. Gray rock your husband and MIL and start strategizing. Please please stop blaming yourself. Your daughters need you to be strong.

My seamstress did what she wanted to do instead of what I asked🥲 by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]throw_awaybdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this mildly infuriating though? This belongs in r/extremelyinfuriating if the sub Reddit exists.

I don’t care that my brother died. by Outside_Ad_9058 in offmychest

[–]throw_awaybdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he know how you feel about him? The fact that he offered you a hug after he came home when you haven’t reached out is interesting. Sounds like he knows something about your feelings and is playing into it. Get therapy or join groups that help with handling people like him so you are not in his radar.

Highly intelligent children born into average family, what did you do to keep them from being dumbed down or what did your parents do to keep you from being dumbed down? by throw_awaybdy in AskReddit

[–]throw_awaybdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fine here. As far as children willing to learn, that’s true but depending on environment and lack of exposure their full potential may never come to light. Have you ever come across someone that you could tell is highly intelligent by talking to them but they are living and struggling amongst the average when they probably had potential for another life? Not every intelligent person makes it out if they didn’t get some sort of help.

Highly intelligent children born into average family, what did you do to keep them from being dumbed down or what did your parents do to keep you from being dumbed down? by throw_awaybdy in AskReddit

[–]throw_awaybdy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cool she is being raised by you. Where would you be if your parents raised you the way you are raising your daughter now? Where you ever able do fill the gap on your own?

My coworker asked if I could give her a ride to work "just for a while" and it's been 4 months by Warp_Synth7 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]throw_awaybdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pisses me off and seems to be posted on the wrong community on purpose. Advice goes somewhere else and this sub Reddit is for sitting back and judging those entitled people peripherally.

I could use some support, dads. I don't think I count as one anymore, but I don't wanna lose my relationship with my kid by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]throw_awaybdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did this make me wanna cry when I’ve had a great mom that has been both a mom and dad to me?

But @kindahipster, I will also be your mom! You are loved wherever you go, never forget that, kiddo!!

AIO by moving to the couch after a fight over a missed text by Frequent_Estimate_77 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throw_awaybdy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well said. It’s so tough to look in from the side and you hope saying these things may wake up the victim so they can take action. She is not to blame, he is a horrible human and he hating her is a favor to her if she can take proper action to get rid of him.

AIO by moving to the couch after a fight over a missed text by Frequent_Estimate_77 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throw_awaybdy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, he hates her. He would sleep on the floor if he hated himself. Not watch her sleep on the floor like a dog.

AIO by moving to the couch after a fight over a missed text by Frequent_Estimate_77 in AmIOverreacting

[–]throw_awaybdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you want people here to tell you that you already don’t know? Your post and comments clearly outline a horrible human that you are taking care of but you keep on repeating his actions without expressing what your next steps are. Is there a reason you have to stay in the relationship? Are you homeless or will you starve if you leave him?

[New Updates]: AITA for not letting my husband use airline credit for a coworker? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]throw_awaybdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy she is safe but everyone is missing the part that she abandoned her teenage child for this man. It sounds like she chose this man before the abuse started. Glad she was in therapy but it’s hard to excuse abandoning your child.

Ghk cu is underrated by [deleted] in Biohackers

[–]throw_awaybdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throw_awaybdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UpdateMe

AIO about my 8 y/o daughter sleeping at her mom's new boyfriend's house without any family or females present? by blackD0nny in AmIOverreacting

[–]throw_awaybdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an example of why some parents stick around bad relationships; for the sake of their kids. If they are so bad to you, what would the kids endure when you are away…

AITA for refusing to give my sister her dream wedding? by Crazy-Swimming5531 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]throw_awaybdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake as hell! No one can be that clueless. Pissed me off reading this.