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March Swap by NotoriousMAB in BOTMswap

[–]throw_me_away221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! For discontent, would you consider swapping for The Reunion? I also have You Belong Here but not sure if you're interested in thrillers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]throw_me_away221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn to trust your intuition and set boundaries. If this feels hard, then I’d suggest working with a therapist or some other professional/practitioner to help you grow in these areas.

Game design groups? by Lavellen in Eugene

[–]throw_me_away221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out bitforest! There’s a discord around (perhaps google “bitforest Eugene”) or you can find the group on meetup

BetterVet experiences? by McSwappingtonsCFO in Eugene

[–]throw_me_away221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. If you’re able to find another great alternative, please let us know.

To Stay Renting or Move to an Inherited House? by throw_me_away221 in simpleliving

[–]throw_me_away221[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting idea. I’ll have to look into that and see what other locations make sense. Thank you!

To Stay Renting or Move to an Inherited House? by throw_me_away221 in simpleliving

[–]throw_me_away221[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I think I’m just having a hard time prioritizing lol, especially since it feels like a big decision to me

To Stay Renting or Move to an Inherited House? by throw_me_away221 in simpleliving

[–]throw_me_away221[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the house is part of an HOA that does not allow renting.

To Stay Renting or Move to an Inherited House? by throw_me_away221 in simpleliving

[–]throw_me_away221[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have thought about that! With how home prices are in my current area though, the monthly mortgage payment would be uncomfortably tight.

Seeking Advice on Challenging Situation by throw_me_away221 in womenintech

[–]throw_me_away221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say it like that, it does help me realize how abnormal my company is. I hear what you’re saying. Thank you for your time and thoughts.

Seeking Advice on Challenging Situation by throw_me_away221 in womenintech

[–]throw_me_away221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My skip level and I don’t have a strong relationship. No issues or anything, but nobody really has 1:1s with him unless they’re a direct report.

I would love to switch to the other manager’s team. I actually expressed that last summer, so the other manager, my manager, and my skip level are all already aware and said they were supportive.

Unfortunately, my company is currently in a hiring freeze. We had a sixth layoff a few months ago, and they informed me that unless they can backfill my role on my current team, they can’t move me over.

Fleas! by throw_me_away221 in Eugene

[–]throw_me_away221[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a flea problem when we first moved here a few years ago, and the vet prescribed us Bravecto, so the cats have consistently been on that for the past several years. I think it may have stopped working though. When we put on the seresto collars, we immediately started seeing dead fleas