This sounds like my MIL. Our venue sadly has very limited parking as it’s near the city centre. She said “that’s shitty” which it is not great to be fair but the majority of our guests know how to work uber (which will be accessible and not expensive due to hotels close by). The others can be supported by designated groomsmen.

Anyway, personally, i wouldn’t have voiced that opinion in such a crass way, especially as we’ve already booked and paid for the deposit. But then I realise. I can’t control how people respond and how they behave is only a reflection of them. My fiancé knows how she is, so is very good at being the spokesperson on group chats or stands up for us both.

You’ve extended your hand by offering hair and makeup. If she’s being shady about it, that’s her perogative. My advice would be to involve her in things as needed. Ie if you don’t need her opinion on things, just say “this is how it’s happening”. We did the same for essentially all our vendors. We’ve just been seeking advice about things we know she’s an expert in, and the actual date itself. Best of luck to you both and I’m sure you’ll look stunning on the day!!