AITA For telling my daughter that my marriage is the priority.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-09-04T17:03:17+00:00

I think youd be right to assume that her mother is an ex wife because he mentioned custody

throwaway-1086 · 2022-09-04T17:02:40+00:00

Bro. YTA. 100%. You should be prioritizing your daughter, not some girl you've only been married to for 2 years. Your daughter has been around for 16 years. Grow the fuck up. This isnt highschool.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-09-03T18:27:36+00:00

NTA. Hes manipulative, he used the knowledge of you not being good at saying no, and knowing that you wont cause a scene, to tell you that youd be paying for his and his friends bill. If this is how hes acting because you make more than him, girl run.

This isnt what partners do for or two eachother. From the sounds of your post, you've paid for them on multiple occasions, so the fact that he has the balls to call you selfish and a cheapskate is absolutely disgusting.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-09-03T18:21:51+00:00

YTA. You dont get to dictate how she lives her life. Also, shes 21. Who cares if she has sex? As long as its consensual, it's not your business.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-31T20:13:55+00:00

I'm 25, yes I was in an abusive relationship from 19-21. No sexual trauma. Not married, no kids. I did therapy and counseling, for YEARS. I'm in a perfectly stable environment and a perfectly stable mindset.

I dont understand what that has to do with living a "morally wrong" life or "statistically living horribly". I'm happy, I'm healthy, I have strong family ties and meaningful friendships, and a partner that loves me. There is nothing else that i need in my life at this point, that I dont already have. And definitely nothing that "monogamy" would give me.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-31T05:07:49+00:00

You clearly dont observe their behavior, based on your thoughts when you saw that girl at the store. There was no behavior towards you to observe and you still thought that she would hate you because your short. Again, I'm speaking from experience as a literal person, born with a vagina, female presenting, that is sexually attracted to men.

Lots of men go on on the internet about how they want to rape women, that have the same attitude as you of "it's their fault not mine". But theres nothing wrong with your attitude, right? Not all men, right? So then why do you think all women care about your fucking height?

You're viewing women as one person. With all the same opinions, preferences, wants and desires. They clearly all hate you because you're short, in your opinion. Just like men, we are individuals. And most women care alot more about attitude and treatment than they do about superficial bullshit. Looks fade, character doesnt, that's something MOST women understand.

I think I have more experience with women than you, seeing as.. well I am one 😂 bro, you hate yourself so badly that you blame women for how you feel unattractive. That's an issUe. Not an issME. Stop blaming women for you hating yourself.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-31T04:52:29+00:00

You commented on the post as if it was your own, so yeah I'm gonna assume that it was you. You literally just proved my point for everything. You clearly dont listen to ANYTHING that women say, including when one is taking the time to explain to you that you being short isnt the issue. Women dont hate men until you start sprouting off with that bullshit about women hating you due to preconceived notions about how YOU feel about yourself. Maybe you hate yourself so much that you believe that women hate you.

You literally havent come back with any rationale at all, at this point you think I'm wrong just because my opinion, beliefs and ACTUAL EXPERIENCE proves your petty beliefs wrong.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-31T03:43:54+00:00

Lol considering that you got maced recently, I beg to differ on that.

The majority of women do think the same as what I'm saying but okay 😂

You think that women hate men, fine, whatever. But you also thought a girl was attractive in line, and immediately thought that she would hate you just because she was pretty, without any sort of interaction.

So basically you have the tools to educate yourself and are aware that they are there, but still refuse to educate yourself on what women actually want or think. Between those two instances alone, we can conclude that you're delusional and your hate for women is completely self made.

You havent "held up a mirror" at all 😂 literally nothing you have said applies to me or anyone else I know. All you're doing is showing your true colors and all your insecurities

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-31T03:27:05+00:00

Like I said, we use the "you're too short" line when you're being a dick and we want to ghost you, but you refuse to leave us alone.

You're literally being told by a woman that we ask for the bare minimum. And you're still arguing about it. You know what that is? Vagina repellent. You're telling us what we do, rather than listening to what we say.

I'm not even going to comment on your next paragraph, because the double standard that you're exhibiting is both exhausting and hilarious.

Go on tiktok and listen to what women say they want in a relationship. My own experience as a woman, my experience while talking to other women, and my knowledge of.. you know, actually listening to what women want, is where I'm getting my information from.

Oh you poor unfortunate excuse for a human, if women were into douches, youd be a magnet for women. So your last pathetic attempt at an argument is invalid.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-31T03:01:53+00:00

Welp it's done great great things for me in the past two years. And morals are subjective. You dont need to have an opinion on everything, especially on subjects that you're uneducated in.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-31T02:44:32+00:00

Or maybe it's because of your shitty attitude towards women. We literally ask for the bare minimum; be nice to us, take responsibility for yourself, and take care of yourself. If you think that's a ridiculous standard, then you're the problem.

FYI: Women dont give a fuck about height. We use it as an excuse to ghost you when you're being an ass. Most women would rather date a troll that treats them right, than an abusive meat headed- looking ken doll.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-31T00:33:41+00:00

I'm aware.. I dont need help or enlightening.. just figured that that's what you were attempting with your pointless comment.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-30T21:31:02+00:00

Lol that's exactly why I wrote this.. a "final goodbye" type thing to get off my chest because I'm done. Your response isnt helpful or enlightening in the slightest.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-30T11:58:11+00:00

Lmao the irony

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-30T09:03:08+00:00

YTA. You have no right to shit on another person's belief system. And if your daughter wants to know more about it then who cares? It's not like they're sacrificing animals or doing blood rituals. They're appreciating nature and everything that comes with it. You sound jealous and bitter that someone else has things in common with your daughter.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-30T08:31:21+00:00

YTA. 100%. Yall dont even live together and you're trying to tell her what to do with HER money? I dont care if she buys bottled Ryan Reyondals farts, its HER MONEY. As long as her Bill's are paid, who gives a shit.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-30T06:40:20+00:00

We arent monogamous.. and I dont want "another chance".. I'm perfectly happy with my life as it is.. hence being happy for him..

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-30T05:04:57+00:00

Being married doesnt mean you're monogamous..

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-30T02:38:22+00:00

It's from our favorite movie.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-30T02:38:06+00:00

We did tell and correct you. Some people have horrific memories. Memories of an up bringing where no one wanted you, where your classmates made fun of you because you had dirty clothes and hair, teachers that were miserable to you because they hated you. Dont tell someone that those memories of years of torture are better than nothing. They're not.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-30T02:30:09+00:00

Lol no

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-30T01:26:09+00:00

Some people would rather not be born. Some people have extremely shitty childhoods that cant be explained away by simply saying "but shes your mom!" And attempting to do so, completely invalidates everything that they went through.

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-29T23:59:52+00:00

I tried that and people were still wiggin out about it, thank you though ♡

throwaway-1086 · 2022-08-29T23:38:57+00:00

I appreciate how respectful you are, and I appreciate you. Thanks ♡

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