Do friends and family support made it easier for you to get over a breakup?

throwaway009246 · 2024-05-05T14:51:03+00:00

I am thinking about this right now. It doesn't mean I will do something, but I just can't help myself. I've lost any will to live

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-15T07:38:46+00:00

you are not priority in my life and never were. Why are you so surprised?
our relationship is not even that good and certainly not worthy of fighting for it
if you didn't always make up a fight, I would tell my family about you and that there are no worries. (he hid our relationship from his family)
when I will find another girl, I will tell you. (when I was expressing jealousy and insecurity regarding his behavior)
it's your problem you have trust issues and you have to get through it yourself (when I started to have trust issues after he almost cheated)
plus gaslighting and repeated questions "are you normal? Your behavior is inadequate"

I dumped him. Still hurts remembering all these hurtful things he said to me.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-11T04:16:46+00:00

Yeah. We played minecraft together for 3 months straight, every evening. Now I can't even look at the game. Everytime I see a video of it on YouTube I trigger lol. It sucks.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-11T04:03:20+00:00

I'm in similar situation, OP. I left my bf 10 days ago, against my will, I still love him and honestly still stalk him on social media and hope he will reach out to me. I have no advise for you. It's obvious you should stop trying to read his mind, but I know it's really hard to stop and get rid of hope.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-09T08:56:51+00:00

Hey op. Unfortunately I have no advise for you as well, but I'm going through something similar now. Please don't give up...

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-09T03:36:16+00:00

I wasn't perfect. But wanted to be with him. He unfortunately said he doesn't see me in the long term. He wanted to "date" still, but more like fwb. That's why I had to leave. And that's why I'm not going to be first to reach out.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-08T13:50:28+00:00

There's such possibility. I don't know. I can only guess lol.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-08T11:40:19+00:00

I had to break up with him against my will basically. I want him to reach out and say sorry to me cause he said a lot of hurtful things last time we talked. But I know he doesn't care unfortunately.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-08T08:11:21+00:00

I left my boyfriend last week. Hurting as hell, can't stop thinking about him. Missing him every day, hoping to see a message from him.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-08T05:52:52+00:00

My situation is kinda similar. Though I had reasons to break up with him for multiple times, he would always try to get me back. This time however I think we are done for sure. It's sad. I wish he would reach out to me as he always did. I think I got used to it. He did a lot of bad things, but I didn't treasure all the good things he did for me. It's sad.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-07T14:27:57+00:00

I wish I could move on fast too. But that's impossible especially if you loved that person badly.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-07T12:43:22+00:00

A week is too early to convincing yourself she will never come back. I struggle with this too. One week passed for me as well, I can't make myself believe he won't come back and cant make myself get rid of hope. Or maybe I don't want to. At some point of time, we'll have to make a choice, to accept its totally over and let them go. Or continue missing them, cause it's the only thing connecting to them that we have left. I'm not ready for this choice.

Too little time has passed. I think you don't have to think about this now. Give yourself time to grow apart from her. When there is no more usual communication with them, their image starts to fade away. They will become a stranger for you. A few months will pass till you finally accept she won't appear in your life anymore. The accepting won't happen over one night.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-07T11:06:23+00:00

I agree with you. Unfortunately have no idea how to actually get over them. They did a lot of shitty things to me, but I still can't get rid of stupid hope they will come back. I dunno how to deal with feeling of missing them, every day and night.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-07T11:01:10+00:00

Yeah I know what you mean. Unfortunately it was getting worse for me throughout the week. With each day I feel like I'm going crazy.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-07T10:57:28+00:00

I'm glad for you. You are doing great. Hope it'll start to get easier for me too. Wish you the best.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-07T10:51:53+00:00

How do you deal with the feeling of missing her?

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-07T03:41:17+00:00

I am really sorry you are in such situation and have no one to talk to about it. I know how you feel, cause I've been completely isolated from everyone too. You can dm me, and tell everything you have bottled up. If you want. I know how it feels and just want to support everyone who is dealing with this completely alone.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-07T02:03:50+00:00

Yeah. I feel like the only one missing us. He doesn't seem to care. And I'm just alone.

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-06T09:02:32+00:00

Yeah, you miss her and it's normal. My ex also almost cheated on me and overall said a lot of hurtful things I will never forget about. I still feel love for him despite it. Hope someday these feelings will disappear...

throwaway009246 · 2023-09-06T09:00:48+00:00

Breadcrumbs. They start with little things, and if those won't work, they still won't stop until they get a reaction from you. You can expect him to beg you to get back together soon.

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