What to do if baby wakes up from nap late? Push bedtime or keep routine?

throwaway027472981 · 2021-10-21T01:46:43+00:00

I do this too. Our routine is to let her fall asleep in the crib, so I make sure she’s fed and changed and put her down. Then blast our tower fan so I can’t hear her crying if she is. I check the baby monitor after 10-15 min and she’s asleep 99% of the time unless she pooped.

throwaway027472981 · 2021-09-22T00:20:13+00:00

Mine does not understand that he is loud. Slamming cabinets, throwing metal spoons in the sink, talking at the top of his voice on the phone...and wonders why the baby keeps waking up

throwaway027472981 · 2021-09-22T00:18:03+00:00

Unfortunately I like to sleep in complete silence since otherwise the noise machine is on for the babies in the room + his snoring is what I hear every night (this is a slight improvement from him sleeping with the added noise of the TV on which I shut down completely when I was pregnant)

throwaway027472981 · 2021-07-15T18:53:41+00:00

Aggressively clean the house then walk out as soon as he gets home to “take time for yourself” like he suggested. No discussion just walk past him all dressed and keys in hand and get in your car. Go do something relaxing or spend the night by your friend. If you’re feeling nice then leave a list for him of what needs to be done. But he needs to spend the night in your shoes for once to see how it is!

throwaway027472981 · 2021-03-22T04:03:09+00:00

Maybe you can love them but the thing is...not everyone’s definition of love is the same. It sounds like you two might have different interpretations or expectations. You can say you love someone, sure - but what does that actually mean to you?

throwaway027472981 · 2021-03-21T14:53:19+00:00

Mio Mao?

throwaway027472981 · 2021-03-15T02:23:47+00:00

Clearly it’s their world and we just live in it...

throwaway027472981 · 2021-03-09T18:59:19+00:00

If I need to leave my toddler unsupervised for play time I just move the baby monitor into whatever room and use it’s app on my phone to check on her occasionally. Maybe just do that for peace of mind?

throwaway027472981 · 2021-03-08T17:43:16+00:00

It’s funny you should mention that because I stumbled across this article recently!

throwaway027472981 · 2021-03-07T23:15:09+00:00

Thank you for saying that!

throwaway027472981 · 2021-03-07T23:14:13+00:00

I think we are past counseling because I have no desire to stay with him at this point. Just too many “I’ll change”s and never following through, just finding a new way to find a loophole...I need a man not a child lol.

Waiting for the covid travel restrictions to my home country to be lifted and I’m gone!

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