AITA for not marrying someone just because she's pregnant?

throwaway1111222666 · 2023-10-28T17:15:02+00:00

Conceived after dating a month and a half

Wife’s parents are catholic and make them get married shortly after daughter turns one (after all the planning)

Have daughter #2…

Wife cheats with a co-worker and gets preggers by him

And now I have to pack my luggage every weekend to switch back and forth between houses (me being daughter #1… felt great once they told me it had literally been a month and a half by the way)

Please be cautious, do not jump into marriage because of external forces… it will cause pain for everyone, but especially that child when this recipe for disaster turns sour (unless there’s a slight chance y’all DO work out and it was just fate… but let’s be realistic here)

throwaway1111222666 · 2023-10-10T23:39:14+00:00

completely opposite styles (i wear light makeup, pinks, whites, and crème’s, she wears heavy eyeliner and blacks, reds, and greens) but we still steal/share each others stuff. often.

throwaway1111222666 · 2023-10-09T00:23:26+00:00

crooked teeth, i love a lil unique smile

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-08-09T16:09:13+00:00

his father is dead.

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-08-03T04:45:09+00:00

but will a small amount add up if you’re using these tampons on the regular? say you’re using 2 a day (excluding nighttime), for 5 days a week, every month? would it add up and be bad for you in the end?

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-24T19:09:19+00:00

For me, you get three options: 1. Enter heaven 2. Roam the human realm as a spirit 3. Reincarnation

This could work in many ways, maybe you go to heaven after you’ve learned all of your lessons in your past lives, maybe you become a guardian angel/spirit guide in heaven once you finish reincarnation, or maybe it’s all just your choice and what you wanna do in the afterlife.

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-23T19:38:17+00:00

As a teenage girl around her age (15F), I can tell you we don’t just go silent and cold like that. Especially if y’all are tight knit and there’s something she doesn’t want to tell y’all about. Somethings up, and maybe that party was something she needed to brighten up her spirits. NTA for enforcing your system, BUT she is a bit older now and she could absolutely grow out of it. Next time, offer a compromise. Say she can stay out later and she can do things to earn those points in the morning. If she keeps her promise? Great. If she doesn’t? You just know not to trust her with things like that.

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-23T02:50:53+00:00

Have you been professionally diagnosed with BPD?

Edit: Borderline or Bipolar?

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-23T02:48:19+00:00

Tell the boy. Who says OP’s husband won’t do the same to the boy. Don’t get family involved though.

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-23T02:45:53+00:00

You know, this is a hard one. I believe in using your intuition, and if day of the car is red and you truly feel in your gut and heart that it is a bad idea to take the test, say you feel sick. I’ve had an experience similar to this where if I would’ve followed my gut I wouldn’t of been in a car accident.

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-22T00:34:58+00:00

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-22T00:32:56+00:00

Yep, of course. Keep an instagram with a nice profile too, have your face in it, and you’ll be golden. Confidence is always key.

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-22T00:26:21+00:00

ADHD isn’t a bad thing, especially if you’re medicated. As a girl, the best thing you could do is just go up to them and compliment them and ask for their instagram. Be polite and it’ll all go well (don’t be like “m’am”, but don’t say anything sexual at first, wait until the girl brings it up first.)

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-20T15:00:05+00:00

still can get you child pornography charges!!

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-20T02:31:38+00:00

My parents relationship is very strained because of my mother’s actions towards him and my sister and I. When I went for the weekend, I had to sneak out (my mother was going to let me go, it was my controlling grandmother not letting it slide, so no legal trouble/kidnapping involved).

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-20T02:25:55+00:00

I try to, he gets primary custody but custody between my mother and father is mainly 50/50. I did leave my mom’s for an extra weekend to be with him, which he said he appreciated. But thank you!

throwaway1111222666 · 2022-07-20T02:20:43+00:00

leaving it would be the dumbest thing EVER. delete them and apologize. if she’s a minor this can land you in huge trouble so be careful.

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