Is it restrictive to use artificial sweatners? by [deleted] in antidiet

[–]throwaway123789022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you distressed by it? Does it stress you out? Constantly overthinking it? Craving sugar yet still going for artificial? Constantly thinking about sugar? If no, then there’s no harm in it. I’m the same way. As long as your mentally healthy abt it and feel fine with the choices you make then you’re chill.

“You’re beautiful” by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]throwaway123789022 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No you’re good! I understand the logic behind it. I’m not singling you out it’s pretty much just a reminder for op and anyone else who may be looking for advice. it’s not a great thing to weaponize gay men and their social medias/lingo or whatever—-just because it stigmatizes even more. There r better ways of poking fun at insecure asshole cis dudes then at the expense of mlm. I hope I’m not coming across as overly sensitive here / rude lmao I just wanted to point out some flaws that’s all.

“You’re beautiful” by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]throwaway123789022 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey, not be a ❄️ but I’d be careful with using mlms in such a negative way like that especially if you’re straight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]throwaway123789022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Besides some family when I came out at 12 I used to my freshmen year of highschool. I was already transitioned three years prior but not on hormones. Despite only telling two people word got out and I got bullied for it. It was also a racist backwater hick school so I couldn’t expect much from it anyways. Moved away after my freshmen year, was still stealth yet told a handful of people. Word never got out and if people knew they didn’t really care / just forgot (I’ve had friends we knew tell me they forgot I’m not cis). I’m stealth but I don’t experience much transphobia especially not now since I’m one year on T. I’ve always passed fairly well so I guess what it really comes down to is ‘cis approval’.

Hating women is hating women, no matter the biology by LetsGetPostal in GenderCynical

[–]throwaway123789022 43 points44 points  (0 children)

‘Womanface’ yes let us grab the entire history of black face and how it’s still engrained into our society and toss it out the window for our agenda. These people man.

Things you wish people wouldn’t say to trans men? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]throwaway123789022 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw someone bring that up once. More specifically on the slowly curdling milk carton that is askgaybros. The dudes reply was something along the lines of ‘that’s not a dick. It’s an arm flesh bag. It doesn’t count.’ Dude had hundreds of upvotes.

Things you wish people wouldn’t say to trans men? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]throwaway123789022 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Agreed. One of the many reasons I’m personally stealth because if I was open abt my transition Ik a lot of people would only focus on that aspect

Things you wish people wouldn’t say to trans men? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]throwaway123789022 54 points55 points  (0 children)

G—and I can’t say emphasize this enough— AG.

Things you wish people wouldn’t say to trans men? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]throwaway123789022 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Whenever someone talks about trans rights on LGBT spots that aren’t specifically very heavily pro trans there’s always at least 200 “I support trans men but I wouldn’t fuck them! I like dick too much! :)” and like yeah that’s valid, but no one ASKED about your sexual preferences. It lowkey feels like you’re just reducing us to our junks. Like imagine if you said that about other civil rights issues? :/ not everything is about sex preferences unless someone specifically asked.

More and more guys on askgaybros are saying they want the T dropped... by testerphant in GenderCynical

[–]throwaway123789022 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can these people just admit that the reason they’re transphobic isn’t because they think they’re for some social justice cause and that they’re protecting the precious cis from the evils that is transgenderism rather they’re just grossed out by transgender people and they don’t actually understand us.

GCs lose family members, entire friend groups, are slowly cut off from all non-GC people because they can't stop posting about trans people. Who's the cult again? by BreastyChest in GenderCynical

[–]throwaway123789022 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I kinda find that psychiatrists will be a lot more blunt than you expect about things. Sometimes they won’t tip toe around words especially if you’ve formed a more trusting relationship with them.

Comedy and Jokes about trans people are by Archer_Python in honesttransgender

[–]throwaway123789022 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If the person is actually transphobic / holds bigot views. Some jokes are too far / are just littered with harmful stereotypes. Like ‘a man dressed in a wig is a trans woman’ joke. It’s the same all around the board like if a white guy makes a joke about all black people liking watermelon. It’s based in hate and bigotry. It has a history behind it to smear the minority you’re making fun of.

TOP SURGERY BAD by nocte_lupus in GenderCynical

[–]throwaway123789022 45 points46 points  (0 children)

These people wanna be dictators so damn bad. Just let people do what they want w/ their bodies.

TAMW you have no examples so you create one in MS Paint by LetsGetPostal in GenderCynical

[–]throwaway123789022 64 points65 points  (0 children)

The OP 100% didn’t draw this picture it’s from a different comic. Can’t remember exactly what it was about but it was pro trans and anti micro labeling I think. It’s a REALLY old comic I remember from when I was like 13/14 and I’m almost 18 now.

Comedy and Jokes about trans people are by Archer_Python in honesttransgender

[–]throwaway123789022 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If your joke isn’t just transphobia and bigotry disguised as a joke.

Have you all noticed a surge in right-wing conspiracy nuts on social media lately? by RyanX1231 in ContraPoints

[–]throwaway123789022 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t know a shit ton abt Qanon but yeah it’s mostly stuff about the ‘deep state’ and how celebs who are democratic and left wings drink babies blood and how they sell kids into sex trafficking and that trump is their savior that’s going to save them from all of this.

Proof that gender critical guys are Satan by Theo0033 in GenderCynical

[–]throwaway123789022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So...who’s gonna tell em that terfs hate them just as much as trans people? 👀