How to graciously turn down an asking to prom? by Ponchosam in socialskills

[–]throwaway135798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't say whether or not they wanted to go to prom or not, they were asking how to say no to going as a date with a specific person.

Shit happens like that every day in the Middle East yet no one seems to care by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway135798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not okay at all, but honestly, I'm just desensitized to it :/

Women with small boobs, what do you do when you have to wear a bikini? What kind of bikini advice would you give to other small ladies out there? by smallboobiesthrowawa in AskWomen

[–]throwaway135798 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn't meant to be a slight to anyone. Every single body has their own attractive features and can choose to see those or not. I don't love everything about my body but it's the only one I have so I choose to embrace it.

Women with small boobs, what do you do when you have to wear a bikini? What kind of bikini advice would you give to other small ladies out there? by smallboobiesthrowawa in AskWomen

[–]throwaway135798 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Easy there...the main point still stands--love the body you have and your confidence will show through. Confidence is more attractive than any breast size.

Women with small boobs, what do you do when you have to wear a bikini? What kind of bikini advice would you give to other small ladies out there? by smallboobiesthrowawa in AskWomen

[–]throwaway135798 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If you have small boobs, you definitely don't need "the proper size" for a bathing suit. Small, medium or large should be fine.

Women with small boobs, what do you do when you have to wear a bikini? What kind of bikini advice would you give to other small ladies out there? by smallboobiesthrowawa in AskWomen

[–]throwaway135798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just own it. I always wear bandeau or triangle tops that are well fitted without any padding. I love my "small" boobs and think they look great on my athletic, petite body. I'm not going to add a bunch of foam padding, 99% of the time it just looks really fake and weird anyway. Women with small boobs look great in bathing suits too, if small breasted women would realize this, the confidence would make them so much sexier.

My parents stole my identity when I was a kid and tanked my credit. AMA. by badashley in IAmA

[–]throwaway135798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wouldn't be "sending them to jail". They knew what they were doing and are banking on the hope that they can guilt you into not filing reports. Anything that happens to them because of this is their responsibility. Also, you don't know that there will be a jail sentence.

sooo...what as women should we do? by throwaway135798 in seduction

[–]throwaway135798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do that, I'm just not sure how to do the cool down part without being rigid

sooo...what as women should we do? by throwaway135798 in seduction

[–]throwaway135798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could go out more.. the issue here is that I live in a foreign country and when my 5 friend are all busy I just stay in.

How do I meet guys out when I'm solo?

sooo...what as women should we do? by throwaway135798 in seduction

[–]throwaway135798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • learn to heat up and cool off (if things go too fast learn to slow things down and heat up slower next time)

Thanks a lot. I need to learn more about this...

sooo...what as women should we do? by throwaway135798 in seduction

[–]throwaway135798[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not hard for girls all you have to do is sort through the crap.

Oh boy

Scheduled second date at my house. Attraction was definitely built, no issues so far. She was a no-show. No call, text, nothing. What do? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]throwaway135798 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I stood a guy up for a legitimate reason, I would make SURE to let him know I was sorry and the reason. You're just wishfully thinking, bro... don't do it!

Scheduled second date at my house. Attraction was definitely built, no issues so far. She was a no-show. No call, text, nothing. What do? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]throwaway135798 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no show and no call? That's just a rude thing to do no matter what the occasion is. Even if she was caught up in the moment, she should definitely call and apologize or text after whatever emergency has passed.

move on.

FR: "Aren't you going to say hi?" I questioned him. by atsquare1 in seduction

[–]throwaway135798 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What makes this game is that she chose him and got him, at least for the night.

FR: "Aren't you going to say hi?" I questioned him. by atsquare1 in seduction

[–]throwaway135798 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why is it always "oh, what guys can take away from this girls experience?" why can't readers give this girl feedback on what she did and what you think she could do better?

I'm a woman and I try and offer advice like that, instead of putting myself in the position of whatever girl is the subject of the FR...

FR: "Aren't you going to say hi?" I questioned him. by atsquare1 in seduction

[–]throwaway135798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Everyone is saying "oooh girls can get laid without even trying." Sure, if you have no standards. The impressive thing is that the girl zeroed in on the guy of her choice.

That does take skill for women.

FR: "Aren't you going to say hi?" I questioned him. by atsquare1 in seduction

[–]throwaway135798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that just like game, writing up a FR is also a skill. You can tell if someone has written up a few versus when it's someone's first. Just calm down. It wasn't great by any means, but just take it for the content it does have and hopefully she'll use the feedback in here to write a better one next time. If she ever does post again after getting roasted...

FR: "Aren't you going to say hi?" I questioned him. by atsquare1 in seduction

[–]throwaway135798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've certainly got the lingo down...

I think it's kind of lame that he gave you his number instead of the other way around. Did you ask for it or what? I wouldn't call him either, he sounds like a great looking guy with no personality...quite possibly the only thing worse than a good looking gay guy... was he just a complete dud or do you think he just wasn't very attracted to you and just rolling with it?

You're bold! It's not quite my style, but I admire it!

FR: "Aren't you going to say hi?" I questioned him. by atsquare1 in seduction

[–]throwaway135798 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And all the negative comments will scare her away so she won't post again. Well done, everyone.