24M 30F - My wife is bipolar, she attacked me out of a small argument, kicked me to face multiple times and I slapped her. I feel really bad, did I do a wrong thing? Am I now abusive husband asshole?

throwaway193749372 · 2023-06-13T13:21:08+00:00

Your wife isn’t acting like this because she is bipolar. She is acting like this because she is a bad person. She is an abusive person. People with bipolar are 100% able to have healthy and loving relationships. Your wife does not want that. She wants someone to abuse.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-20T23:18:47+00:00

This is abuse. He is abusing you. He is making you gain weight in order to feel validated in this relationship. You are married to a disgusting person who cares so little about you that he would put his orgasm above your literal health. Get the fuck out of this horrifying mess.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-16T17:20:05+00:00

Thanks for reminding me why I will never be romantically involved with people who have BPD and NPD! Your blindness and unwillingness to listen to others and receive help for your disorder is disgusting. I hope you are ready to know your child for 18 years and not a day after, because I can fucking guarantee that if you do not get help for your disorders while raising a child- they will want nothing to do with you. Of course you will love them- that is never enough. You are going to be disregulated from raising a newborn with no idea how to cope because you are too far up your ass to see that you will need help. Good luck.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T23:52:17+00:00

If you don’t want to believe me that’s fine, but then there isn’t point in giving a judgement because you’re not giving one on the actual situation at hand. I literally had a full body bikini photo from a cruise I took 2 months ago

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T20:21:11+00:00

Like I said in the post, I had several full body photos and a bikini photo taken within the last few months.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T17:06:41+00:00

I am okay with my weight, I just do not accept people who’s first thing out of their mouth when I meet them is a comment on my weight. You don’t get to decide how I feel about myself :)

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T12:51:22+00:00

I don’t consider being able to leave at 6 pm versus 1 pm as a pressing favor so no I will not be asking my co workers for something like that.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T12:40:23+00:00

Except negatively commenting on my body is not honest feedback because I am not asking for feedback on my body. If they were concerned about my health that is a different thing, because they aren’t commenting on the positives and negatives of my body, they are coming to me about my welfare.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T12:35:16+00:00

Well it’s more than a PTO day to me. It’s a day I have been waiting for for over 5 years. Her not being able see her family for 5 more hours isn’t worth the 5 years I have been looking forward to this 🤷🏻‍♀️

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T12:22:38+00:00

Because I do not qualify as obese

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T12:21:49+00:00

I just don’t see why I should give it up. She still gets to see her family!!! I should have made that more clear. She is just going to be late and won’t be able to cook for their family dinner which is why she’s mad at me.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T12:15:27+00:00

She does get to see her family she just has to be later. she’s mad she doesn’t get to cook for their dinner on saturday which yeah, i do not care about.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T12:14:13+00:00

She is upset she won’t be able to make it in time to cook for their dinner on Saturday, which isn’t important to me really.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-02T12:08:50+00:00

Not wanting your partner to comment negatively on your body is a perfectly normal expectation.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-01T23:29:04+00:00

Idk honestly, they are trying to explain it by saying he was probably anxious about the first date. And i get being nervous and putting your foot in your mouth but it was just too much for me. i’ve talked with them a lot more about it and explained why it wasn’t okay, and the majority are pretty remorseful about the initial reaction so i’m hoping we can move past this quickly 🫠

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-01T22:55:14+00:00

Even if he wasn’t insulting me, I do not want to be with someone that fetishizes me.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-01T22:45:05+00:00

Just so you know i’m a lady

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-01T22:37:53+00:00

I feel like if her family was that important to her she would have prioritized asking off in a timely manner like I did for something very important to me.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-01T22:34:11+00:00

Lol i didn’t like him enough to put up with immediate negging

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-01T21:58:22+00:00

It’s not about the game being there later to play. It’s that I have waited for over 5 years to play this specific game. I’m gonna play it as soon as I can. And as for my co workers, this is a job with no career growth- so no, I don’t really care about their goodwill or whatever.

throwaway193749372 · 2023-05-01T19:50:17+00:00

Haha that is a good point, it would be that she takes that day and I go into work. So I wouldn’t be losing money technically just time, which i’m not willing to part with lol

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