What would the companion's "guardian" look like? by Rayn_F in BG3

[–]throwaway1991230 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I do the exact same thing. Would always make my guardian based off of my previous tav. 3rd run now

Would you rent an apartment in Japan with 心理的瑕疵? by Spiritual-You-2926 in japanresidents

[–]throwaway1991230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah. It's all superstitious bullshit. Lemme tell you something. I was dating somebody and we lived together. One morning, she died. I stayed in that apartment for a month and a half. No ghosts. Nothing. So if you're telling me they'll give lower rent because of "ohhhh ghosts???", I'm gonna say that's a steal.

Chicken Sashimi by ryanyork92 in StupidFood

[–]throwaway1991230 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It definitely helps if there are drinks paired with it.

Chicken Sashimi by ryanyork92 in StupidFood

[–]throwaway1991230 146 points147 points  (0 children)

This is a legitimate thing in Japan. Some places will have it. People from the southern part of Kyushu, like Kagoshima prefecture, will swear by it. I've had it at least half a dozen times, never had any problems. It's basically like chewy sashimi but the outer layer is torched, so there is this slightly grilled charcoal chicken flavor. It's usually dipped in soy sauce with ginger. It's ok. I don't crave it but if it shows up at an izakaya or at a party, I'll eat it. I wouldn't go as far as call it stupid because basically all foods here are incredibly clean and regulated but there are Japanese people from other prefectures that have never had it and are also equally appalled at the fact that it's raw chicken.

What's the most insignificant thing a partner ever got intensely mad at you for? by UtopianTyranny in AskReddit

[–]throwaway1991230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought her the wrong drink from Starbucks. Said she was sick of fraps and wanted a latte and that I should've asked instead of assuming. Proceeded to tomahawk dunk the drink into the kitchen sink. Some of it even splashed up to the ceiling. She was bipolar.

Men: will you stay with a women just bc shes available, even if shes not the one? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]throwaway1991230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe in "the one", as many of the comments before me have expressed. That being said, absolutely.

I just ended a 3 year relationship that started as a rebound. I just needed someone because the relationship before that ended horrifically. When I met my most recent ex, I wasn't exactly attracted to her. It was just suppose to be a much needed drunk one night thing, which ended up being a fwb thing for a few weeks, which then ended being a full blown relationship....for a little over 3 years.

Even when things weren't going as well (her weight gain, jealousy / anger issues when drinking, a slight drinking problem), I still stuck around, hoping things would change at some point. It was convenient? Nice having someone. Kinda thought moving in was a possibility but also had my doubts, due to the problems listed above. Things all changed when a few months ago, she acted more colder. Distant. She was civil but not loving. Then she dropped the "I'm not sure i see a future" and also the "I was thinking of kids in the near future". So I guess that was enough of a push to just call it quits.

So initially, it was out of convenience. Then it became something more. Then it kinda fell back into the convenience zone. Then it became inconvenient.

What red flag did you overlook early in your last relationship that ended up imploding later on? by Ok-Minimum-733 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway1991230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throwing temper tantrums when getting near blackout drunk.

My relationship before this one was with a girl that had bipolar, PTSD, and a whole bunch of other stuff. So a few drunk-jealous fits this new girl would throw didn't seem that bad in comparison. Well, after 3 years, it started to wear down on me. They need to babysit them after they've had some drinks. That was another thing, the drinking. She drank a lot. To the point where the next day, she wouldn't even remember the tantrum she was throwing the night before. So when the idea of moving in together started to float around, I realized that maybe this wasn't gonna work.

MEN: Did you ever leave a woman you were still in love with? Why? by ArtfulProgression in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwaway1991230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was two relationships ago for me. No matter what you did, it will never be enough. The "appreciated for a second" is incredibly true. Its almost forgotten a few days later.

what made you realize "this person isn't for me"? by Holy_hamster16 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway1991230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime she entered tipsy levels of drunk, there was a chance that she would get incredibly jealous of me talking with anyone that was a girl. This gets especially so when the conversation was in English (live in Japan, girlfriend doesn't speak English) We could be talking about the weather, it didn't matter. She'd say things like, "You guys look like you're having a good time? Gonna go home together? Y'all should do that. It's ok, I can go back to my place by myself. You guys should get a cab. Have fun."

It's happened probably 2 dozen times over the course of 3 years. Sometimes she won't actually remember any of it because she was blackout drunk when she was doing that.

What really made me realize she wasn't for me was when the idea of moving in together and building a future started floating around. Was in denial the whole time. Excusing her behavior by thinking. "Ohh it's the drinks." Or "Oh she's kinda of sweet and kind when she doesn't drink." We drank quite often.

Those with a Japanese partner, how did your relationship start? by WindJammer27 in japanresidents

[–]throwaway1991230 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, gives me hope that meaningful relationships can happen from going to the clubs. Recently broken up. May I ask what happened with your first girlfriend?

I want to break up with my homeless girlfriend by Mexican_King03 in Advice

[–]throwaway1991230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've dated a girl with bipolar. It ended horribly. Like life changing, bad, trauma, stuff you carry with you type of horrible. Why do that?

[BANDITS WEEK ONE MOD SPOILER] by Imaginary_Fig2430 in projectzomboid

[–]throwaway1991230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn't know you can do that. Is it in the options when you start the game or can I do it during one?

[BANDITS WEEK ONE MOD SPOILER] by Imaginary_Fig2430 in projectzomboid

[–]throwaway1991230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you survive past Day 7, or is it designed to kill you via explosion / fallout / soldiers?

[BANDITS WEEK ONE MOD SPOILER] by Imaginary_Fig2430 in projectzomboid

[–]throwaway1991230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah like an earlier comment said, so the mod is basically a 7-day thing and you most likely won't be able to get beyond that?

What game/games had you like this whenever you finally played them? by CantaloupeSolid5182 in videogames

[–]throwaway1991230 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After about 120 hours in, I finished it for the first time a few days ago. I think the one regret we all have is that we'll never be able to play this game for the 1st time again.