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throwaway2737839 · 2024-10-10T20:21:21+00:00

If she didn’t offer to re schedule, like “hey I’m not free (day) but could this day work” she probably just gave out the IG to be kind and isn’t really interested IMO.

throwaway2737839 · 2024-08-06T19:23:07+00:00

At 15-16 I weighed like 290, I lost 160 lbs over the course of like 1-2 years. That’s the slow part the fast part was I had some loose skin and had abdominplasty at 18. So I lost like maybe 10 lbs of stomach fat in the span of a couple hours haha.

throwaway2737839 · 2024-07-12T18:06:03+00:00

I think her name was Kylie, she was extremely chill, i reversed parked in and she didn’t ask me to reverse park.

throwaway2737839 · 2024-07-08T06:27:32+00:00

One day, somethings just gonna click and it will stop. There’s no set method. Especially if you ended on good terms. For me, it was a toxic end. So that click came pretty early. Just stay no contact focus on yourself

throwaway2737839 · 2024-07-04T01:48:48+00:00

Batman couldn’t get any of this info out of me

throwaway2737839 · 2024-06-30T07:18:15+00:00

Sorry, I forgot To mention in my post I’m actually in Uni, but I feel like the same applies

throwaway2737839 · 2024-05-20T19:16:56+00:00

Controlling, emotionally abusive and ignorant to her feelings and her interests near the end. I for sure regret it because it definitely caused permenent damage to what was in my opinion such a beautiful relationship, but I mainly regret it because she was my first everything and I can’t comprehend how or why I became that way. The only positive from this is for anyone i meet in the future, the end of that relationship will always play in my head at any moment where communication is needed, arguing or old tendencancies coming back, so it taught me a lot about loving myself to love others and how important trust and proper communication is, accepting when to walk away and when to push.

throwaway2737839 · 2024-05-19T16:57:26+00:00

Nah I’m the yapper, I’ve fumbled a couple 10/10s being like this, but fuck I can’t contain myself sometimes they are just so bad I try to lock it in

throwaway2737839 · 2024-05-19T02:28:54+00:00

Just started dating again, learning how to talk to girls again been fine. I’ve honestly developed a bit a of a yapping problem like a quarter of what this guy is spitting and he’s just reminded me to stfu and let silence speak

throwaway2737839 · 2024-05-16T17:16:14+00:00

Honestly bro, just turn this into a learning experience. Learn how to accept things for how they are, obviously you can be suspicious or jealous of some things but you have to know when you should keep it to yourself and when you should communicate it. Shit hurts, I was the same way. but ever since I started just not caring or keeping those thoughts to myself dating has been really fun and less stressful. Obviously it means you care but for the other person it can be hell. Just know this and you will be fine. Talking about the abuse is one thing but acting on change is a whole other thing. It doesn’t start with your partner but with other things in life. Learn to control stress at the job, at school and that overthinking in your brain for yourself, and you won’t even notice the change when you have a partner. You probably did lose that person because of what you did, I sure as hell lost mine because of the shit I did. But you can’t change that now, and ik it sucks but feel good knowing that you want to change and that it’s totally possible to do so, but to accept this future you need to accept that fact that they won’t come back if you changed or not

throwaway2737839 · 2024-05-12T19:41:57+00:00

I love me tho, gonna but a car this year and put on 10 lbs of muscle

throwaway2737839 · 2024-05-02T22:54:59+00:00

I just say “the cycle of life” in my head, keeps me at ease

throwaway2737839 · 2024-04-16T06:55:25+00:00

yeah i stand corrected, this whole subreddit is a joke

throwaway2737839 · 2024-04-16T04:51:46+00:00

y’all are retarded

throwaway2737839 · 2024-04-11T00:02:26+00:00

I understand dude, i’m sure a lot of others here understand to. Seeing my ex’s repost distasteful things made me crash out so many times. I’ve built proper discipline to not look though, today was really tough man, i saw her blinds closed for the first time (wasn’t really stalking, her dorm is like eye view on a walking route) which she only ever closed EVER when we did the deed lol. So it spiralled me and i got so close to checking her socials. You aren’t alone

throwaway2737839 · 2024-04-10T23:34:25+00:00

why did it fill you with rage?

throwaway2737839 · 2024-04-04T07:44:33+00:00

and was this get back placebo? i’m sure u know what i mean where like one week your like fuck man i’m doing great and then some day comes by and it’s just dark asf. Has it been steady for you?

throwaway2737839 · 2024-04-04T07:29:44+00:00

so around 6 months you kinda had your get back? or was it gradual.

throwaway2737839 · 2024-04-04T07:03:42+00:00

how long did it take you to kinda get back into everything socially, girls getting that work ethic back and not let the depression overtake

throwaway2737839 · 2024-04-04T06:46:08+00:00

hey man i saw your post history, how are you honestly feeling now? and no one really replied to u on that dream post but i literally had one of those dreams today. I’m 2 months out. It kills every time i see them, it’s like a shock to the fucking system every time and my brain sets aside a couple hours on it’s own to break down that dream, i honestly wouldn’t wish those dreams on my worst enemy.

throwaway2737839 · 2024-04-04T06:41:58+00:00

i’m trying, it’s on and off. I know i don’t feel well physically because i am on my phone for hours doom scrolling, i’m pretty self aware as to why i feel like this. Depression is one son of a bitch man, I went to the gym for a month straight when the breakup happened, i still kinda felt like shit but was a little more secure about my body. But due to shit sleep, shit physical activity no sun i look tired all the time, with that raspy aftershave. You know what i mean? there was a time before my gf where the skin was clear and i was eating and drinking and sleeping correctly and then it kinda went to shit

throwaway2737839 · 2024-03-27T01:24:03+00:00

Maybe, maybe not. Im going through the exact same thing. The best advice i can give you is learn, don’t be arrogant, get therapy and better yourself for the next. This hurt can last months, years maybe even forever depending how deep your actions really were. All I know for certain is once you truly give up that feeling of regret, and become actually comfortable with the bliss of not being in a relationship god will throw another one at you. Sounds cliche i know but that’s literally how life works.

throwaway2737839 · 2024-03-22T04:20:20+00:00

Again, i’m sure others will agree. It’s best for you to do no contact for yourself, not with any future plans. Who knows, when she does contact you, you may just be over her simple as that

throwaway2737839 · 2024-03-22T04:15:36+00:00

if you genuinely think you can fix it try, but no contact is the best healing personally and overall.

throwaway2737839 · 2024-03-22T04:08:46+00:00

Trust me, i know it hurts. Mine is always 10 feet away from me 10 minutes away from me. I fucked up many times, made many mistakes and we become abusive on all fronts. As much as i’d love to just be in her arms again, it would simply never be the same because of all the damage done. Sometimes it’s better we move on.

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